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writes:my best friend's boyfriend and i have just recently realized that we both have feelings for eachother. hes fallen out of love with my best friend too. she doesnt know about any of this yet because were not sure how to approach it. i dont want to lose my friend or hurt her feelings (even though she hasnt been the greatest friend to me) but my love for this guy is deep.he wants to be with me so bad but i dont know what to do. and we dont want to lose eachother either cuz hes been there for me through a lot. its hard for me to see a positive outcome cuz my two options hurt someone. im caught in between two ppl i care about and i need the advice.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 December 2010): Yes, emotions are high here and it could lead to disaster as often situations like these have emotionally driven decisions. The fact you have your best friend involved isnt good and can ruin relationships. Since there is a high risk of starting things off here by hurting a party emotionally, it is a big sign to not start the relationship. When emotions are high, things will get out of hand. Im sure of it. You dont want that kind of drama or put yourself in an emotional strain. Good luck.
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reader, LazyGuy  +, writes (26 December 2010):
 You want to be with someone who is willing to cheat and lie to your best friend?
Smart move.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 December 2010): I feel this is wrong. You shouldn't become involved with partners of friends, best friends or anyone really. That is my firm opinion. When you start out a relationship by hurting someone else, no good will ever come of it. You have no balance and a lot of baggage.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 December 2010): Well you are going to have to hurt someone... How does your best friend feels towars this guy? If she likes him a lot you might have to back off and be a good friend. I understand how it can be hard and you can't help who you like but your best friend should always be most important. If she doesn't like him as much then maybe tell her how you feels towards him. She might understand and back off. You just have to see how she feels
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