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*reeBird24
writes:HeyI've been dating my gf for one year now. we live far away from each other but we kinda get used to it. I always travel to her place to break the distance. She got a new job and she is always busy. She sends me a msg every morning and another msg before she went to sleep. We dont chat like before. I feel lonely because we used to share many things together but now I cant even call her. we are lesbians and our family doesnt know about our relationship. So, once she is at home, she cant answer to my calls. I'm a bit disappointed because even if am busy, I'm always trying to call her or to text her. Its me who should starts first. It annoys me a lot!! We had an argue this week, she wasnt online for two weeks now and I really miss her and I was waiting for the week end so that we can spend some time together but she texted me and said that she will spend it with her friends. I was very upset and I explained to her that I was waiting for her this week end. She got mad without any reason and she was very tough. I didnt call her since 3 days. When we fight its always me who take the first step by call her to ask about her even if am not mistakenI need to feel that she stil loves me. What do u suggest me, Should I always call her even if am still upset?I want to apologize for my " bad english"
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reader, FreeBird24 +, writes (26 December 2010):
FreeBird24 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks guys for ur answers.its very useful
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 December 2010): This time dont call her! Im sure she is expecting a call from you but i dont see any reason to get mad. You only told how u felt
Dont do anything wait her to call you
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 December 2010): No, don't chase her, and don't put all your eggs in her basket if you know what I mean. Go out and have fun. You never know, you just might come upon a girl who appreciates you!
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 December 2010): I think it important to meet up in person and bring this up then. She is not necessarily avoiding you, but you might do well to treat it as such and stop stressing yourself out with failed attempts to get some reaction from her... make her notice how she's been acting when you see her next. She can't hide or be too busy or shrug it off in person, whichever of these she's doing now. She'll likely change her ways after you've made mention of it, but if she does not, you should know you deserve better than someone who does not give your needs the time of day, once they've been made obvious aware of them.
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