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reader, Denzil  +, writes (25 May 2008):
Denzil is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanx for your advice. I did give her space but in the end we agreed to be mates and do our own thing. Now though i have a girl who i used to chat 2 wanting to meet me but last time i talk she was seein a boy and wantin to meet me. Wat do i do? She single
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reader, Rhian2020 +, writes (5 May 2008):
Yep there's plenty of other people out there and one day you will find someone who appreciates you. You sound like a really caring, friendly guy so it won't take you long to find someone you want to be with and take care of.xx.
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reader, Denzil +, writes (4 May 2008):
Denzil is verified as being by the original poster of the questionYeah i do have some feelings for her. She could have acknowledged me at least it wouldnt have hurted eh. Oh well i give her a bit of time and if she is stil off towards me im lookin elsewhere. Plenty more fish eh
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reader, Rhian2020 +, writes (4 May 2008):
It may well be jealousy. If she's still grieving then give her some time. She might feel different in a few weeks. Wait a little then if she still doesn't show any interest in say a month or so then maybe you should move on. There's no point in wasting your time on someone who doesn't want to know, although it will take a little time for you to get over it if you still have feelings for her.
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reader, Denzil +, writes (4 May 2008):
Denzil is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you for the reply, i have let her know that i will be there for her but she hasnt acknowledged it. Her mate didnt seem to like me as she was lookin at me weird. Ive got a feeling it may be jealousy but im not sure. Do i move on or stick it out?
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reader, Rhian2020 +, writes (4 May 2008):
Hello,
There could be a number of possibilities here.
She could be confused as to how she feels about you. Maybe at first she thought that she had feelings for you but now maybe she's realised that she hasn't. I don't really like the idea of her backing off after her friend spoke to her. Is there a possibility that her friend likes you and has told her to keep away from you? Also she's clearly going to be upset if a close relative has died and will be feeling vulnerable. She will need time to grieve before she can start thinking of other things going on in her life. Try talking to her and let her know that you're there for her. You never know where it may lead.
Good luck.xx.
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