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writes: okay so basically i am very confused as of what to do. i have so much problems right now and it's so hard to deal with. there's this guy that i kind of like.. i don't know if i like him really. like when i first met him i kinda teased him i guess and he liked me and then it's been a while since then and he likes me again and i felt like i like him too. but whenever i'm around him out of school i just feel like blah... i don't want to hurt him again like last time because we are really close and he's a really chill person. but what am i feeling? do you think i like him? like when i text him i feel like i like him more and then when we're together it's like yeah okay. and at school i feel really good when i see him.. so confusing sorry, but i hope someone can help me! please and thanks ;)
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reader, Rhian2020 +, writes (4 May 2008):
Hello,
I think that you do have feelings for him because it wouldn't be on your mind if you didn't have feelings for him and because you feel good when you see him at school and when you text. It's great that you're really close after the last time, it shows that you have a strong bond. Maybe you should just take your time and concentrate on hanging around together before making a move. Ask yourself, would you be jealous if he found another girlfriend? Would you be jealous if he started flirting with other girls? Would you like to be with him? If the answers to these are yes then you do like him. Talk to him and see how he feels.
Good luck.xx.
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