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anonymous
writes:well to begin with i am a hard working teenager,because of my excellent grades i got into this prestigious university meant only for rich kids..when i first came to class i felt really lonely because i wasnt like any of the rich kids..but later on i saw this girl,she looked like a barbie doll lol,the perfect hair everything..and she spoke to me and offered me to join her group..i was really happy but i know for a fact she wanted me in becuse she thought i was pretty..only people who are pretty can be in her group..i know its silly,so last weekend she invited me over to her house it was this huge mansion,and she treated me well..but now my parents say that i am changing cause now i am partying most of the time,and because i hang out with her many guys talk to me,and i even had sex with a guy in her house..i lost my virginity..i think i am picking her habits but i dont want to leave her..what should i do..
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reader, Ember13  +, writes (5 May 2008):
Do what you want to do. My suggestion is to self-assess yourself and see who you were before and who you are now. You must have changed if you notice it and your family does but actually pinpoint in what ways you have changed. After you've completed that figure out who you want to be and what you want to do. Is this how you want to live your life right now? If so, keep doing it. If not and you don't like the person you've become then change again. Don't feel peer pressured to fit in. It's easier said than done, I know but a lot of people do things they don't want to just to fit in.
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reader, brooke5426  +, writes (4 May 2008):
 You need to be a bit stronger. If you want to continue being friends with this girl but dont want to do some of the things she does, then dont do them. You have your own mind and make your own decisions.
Most importantly, make sure your school work doesnt suffer. She can afford to mess around and spend her university years partying and having sex because she is from a wealthy family, she probably doesnt care what grades she gets. You dont want to throw away everything you worked so hard for just because you wanted to be accepted by a real life Barbie do you?
Be strong and stick to your own morals and do what you feel is right and what you want to do. Not what she wants you to do.
Brooke
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