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*ara Petra123
writes:asked him out 9 months ago. He’s shy and is in the popular group but is really focused on his studies.He said 2 days later that it was too close to exams but maybe after them thanx for asking. After summer he was showing loads of signs that he was interested. Trust me.He would be like looking at me all the time, he was everywhere I was, sitting on the closest table. At a party he was following me etc.(not in a stalky way lol.)His friends have done things like shout out as I walk past (or comment) His friends are loud but he isn’t but he tries to impress them:1. ''Is that the girl you like'' and then his nameand then call after you ''are you single?''And when they say that they 'punch' him and then he 'punches' them back..... whenever his friends saw me then that day they were like smiling or something……2.Lots of things have happened but sometimes it's like he's ''ignoring'' me the other day my female friend and my guy friend were talking (I wasn't there) and my f friend said that I looked really good with a tan and that she wished she had one and when she mentioned my name he looked. Then he came over to talk to my guy friend.My other friend said that they were on a school camping trip and she heard one of his friends say my name and then he looked like shy…..Do these things mean he likes me or not?Sometimes it's like he's ignoring me when he’s around his friends or I don’t see him looking (I don’t like to look at him incase he sees me looking though). He's shy although he's in the popular group,.The other day he was standing next to me and my friends , he was the closest to be but his back was turned (my back was turned to him because of the way my chair was facing lol. )The other day him and his friends were standing near me and my friends breal time but I don’t know if that means anything…The other day he was outside where me and my friends were lunchtime where some people play football but him and his friends were just standing there… I don’t know if any of these things mean anything…We are both 17What do you think about point 1?
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reader, dearkelja  +, writes (4 May 2008):
 Point 1-he may have told his friends you asked him out and they are being the boys they are and teasing him about you.
I think many of these are signs that he is interested in you but boys this age don't have all the answers about how to make the moves on the girls. Have you tried just plain talking to him? Flirting with him?
You did ask him out before so he knows you are interested. It is his turn to make the next move. So just be yourself and try to talk to him and be his friend. The more comfortable he is with you the more likely he is to ask you out if that is what he has in mind.
Good luck. Exams are coming up again and so is the summer.
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