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writes:I sent my cousin (same age as me 18) an angry email complete with profanity and insults. I was angry at the time and said it all out of anger. I didn't mean any of it, but I wrote it anyway. I said that in the email (that I didn't mean it). I feel so guilty and I sort of regret saying some of the things I said. I know I shouldn't have put it in the way I said it.Why I sent the email? Well, we were talking on MSN and I had one question to ask him about one of his friends on bebo. All I said was "who is...(let's say...John) on your friends list?" I asked him this because John sent me a message and was talking to me on MSN and claimed that he knew my cousin, so I was just trying to see if he was lying or not. So then my cousin (lets say Tom) told me that he knew John and then he wanted to know why I asked. So I said I was just curious. Then as a JOKE I said to him "Are you sure you're not John pretending to be Tom lol" And Tom said "you're joking right?" and to continue the joke I said "no" Then all of a sudden out of nowhere he called me a loser! And I was taken aback by this and said "excuse me!?" and that was his cue to say "Only joking" or something like that but he didn't! Instead he said "you heard" and then said "a loser on a global scale." And I was like...why would you say something like that? What have I done for you to say that to me? I got really offended by his comment and told him that calling me a looser was uncalled for and inappropriate and that I was only joking. Then I came offline p***ed off as hell and blocked and deleted him.The reason I got so angry was because he and I aren't even that close for him to run those kind of jokes with me (IF he was joking) and I haven't said or done ANYTHING to offend him for him to call me a looser. Infact I haven't even seen him for years or spoken to him for months (other than MSN, and even then we hardly ever talk). What part of what I said about John, what part of that was offensive to him? Because I just can't see any reason for him to call me a looser and he's never spoken to me like that before.But anyway, now I've sent that angry email calling him a 'dumb...fudge' and 'a pathetic little piece of...feaces (along with other things not fit for this website). But I really shouldn't have said even if he did make me angry. I over reacted. So you guys don't have to tell me that, I already know so don't state the obvious. I just wish someone was there to tell me not to send the email, it was a dumb thing to do. I think I may have an anger problem lol. All I want to know now is, what do I do now? Because if he shows that email to anyone else in the family I am in deep...excrement! Please help me!And do you think Tom called me a loser because he thinks I'm interested in John? Because I am so not (not my type). I only wanted to see if he was lying about knowing him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 February 2007): darling heart, you are making a mountain out of a molehill here. dont worry, more to the point, dont care. what reason has he to call you a loser? If your cuz cant take a joke then he needs some serious counselling. besides, you havent seen this dude in years....stuff him. next time youre having a dinner with your family bring it up..'hey by the way, blah blah, tom got really weird with me...dont you think its strange....could he be on drugs or something.. anyway whatever, i sent him a bitchy email back' lol and laugh about it... its out in the open then.Youve done NOTHING wrong. you do not have an anger problem either, your cuz however seems a bit highly strung.my advice... keep him blocked and dont bother talking to him again... why on earth do you wanna get stressed over this? Relax, and laugh about him and his oddness whenever you feel you need to. the drunk cab driver could run you over tomorrow, a meteorite could hit the earth, save your worries for more important things my babe, lifes too short.xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 February 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionOk it seems as if this whole question was misunderstood or not read properly. Maybe I wasn't being clear enough. Ok let me break it down for you: This question is about my Cousin (Tom) and one of his friends on bebo (John). I asked my cousin (Tom) if he knew John and he said yes. Tom then sent me an instant message on MSN and called me a looser after I made a joke about his friend John. Tom is my cousin. John is my cousin's friend. I am not dating either of them and do not plan to. I angrily sent an email to Tom expressing my anger sbout him calling me a looser. Now I regret sending that email and don't know what to do if he shows it to any other family member.
Is that better now?
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