A
male
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes: Hello, I wonder if anyone could help please. I have known a girl for three years, each year we have become closer and closer but we are not going out. All my friends have told me that she likes me and I have noticed especially over the last year, but I don't know if she does like me more than a friend if you get me. I do give her signals like looking at her etc and her friends notice, one asked me if I fancy her and I just went red! We get on well and she talks with me etc, she always wants to work with me if we have to and she always smiles at me and won't let anyone insult me etc. Sometimes she ignores me but still everyone has told me that I have a chance with her. I personally feel that I may have a chance with her but I'm unsure! I feel she ignores me because she doesn't want anyone to know. She is a bit random like she asked to hug me when no one was looking and she nearly knocked me off my feat! I'm crazy over her but I don't want to make my move and fail and lose everything, I'm going to ask for her number soon. I know she can't have a relationship for another year for personnel reasons and it's the same for me, my plan is to continue being friends and 'flirting' I guess, until we are both ready. I can plan loads but I just need to know if it sounds like she likes me or not! Any advice would be much appreciated!Thanks! Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, TasteofIndia +, writes (28 February 2007):
Hey sweetness,
The way you tell it, she's definitely into you. Since she can't have a relationship for another year, I think your plan sounds great. Get to know her better and improve your relationship on an emotional level. Get to knooowww her, be friends, talk about yourselves and each other.
It does sound like she really likes you.
Have fun!!
xxIndia
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female
reader, AskEve +, writes (28 February 2007):
She admires you very much by the sounds of it. I would continue to be her friend and get to know her better. Ask her if she wants to hang out as friends sometime. It's always better to be friends first especially with you both being so young. You both can't commit just now anyway you said so just continue talking with her like you're doing. It will all fall nicely into place with time.
Eve
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