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Archived questions from: February, 2005 (see latest in Dating category)

Dating: Help and advice

He doesn't want me the way I am... what do I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6095 days ago

28 February 2005 (?) - I really like this guy but he's not interested in me coz I'm chubby. I'm not fat just not how he wants me to be. I've tried to lose weight but it doesn't work. What can I do ?...

The first date seemed wonderful, but now he's gone to ground. What do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7242 days ago

28 February 2005 (?) - I recently met a guy, we had a wonderful first date. We met up again 2 days later. We wasnt well and so went home early. He told me he was away for the weekend and it would be a mad one. He left, giving me a lovely kiss and planning to meet up 4 ...

She dumped me twice, so I broke up the third time...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7244 days ago

27 February 2005 (?) - I've just dumped my girlfriend of 4 months. It's the third time we have been together. The last times she dumped me and broke my heart... twice! I think she is a stunning looking girl and I think about her all the time, but I guess I'm just sca...

What about what other people think?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 7242 days ago

27 February 2005 (?) - Hey, I really like someone but they are 2 years younger then me and is very young lookin. Should it matter what others think?...

I want to start again with him. How?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7244 days ago

26 February 2005 (?) - I am in college and there is this boy. He went to my comprehensive and we went out for a while in the last year of school for about three months. We broke up but I still love him and he still likes me. What should i say to him?...

I'm over the age difference, but why is he so possessive?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7244 days ago

26 February 2005 (?) - Hi cupid, Please help me , i am 39 and started seeing a guy who is 26 .Fist of all i had a problem with the age gap ,but now ive accepted it ,and just enjoy what we have .. Afetr a few weeks of seeing each other he then tells me he is in love , wit...

Do I say yes to the OK-looking boy, or hope for the gorgeous one?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7247 days ago

25 February 2005 (?) - There is a boy in my class at school and he recently asked me out and he is still waiting on my answer... but I really like, possibly even love, this boy Steven in my class. The boy who asked me out I was talking to and he said that he really likes ...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6089 days ago

24 February 2005 (?) - I fancy this girl but i cant, pluck up the courage to ask her out because everyone (nearly) is after her. From Doug ...

I feel like I'm running out of ways to "be sexy". Any tips?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7247 days ago

24 February 2005 (?) - Dear Cupid, I have been going out with my boyfriend for two months and I really love him. My problem is that I have used up all my tricks to be sexy for him, eg wear stockings and please my self in front of him. I am worried he will get bore...

Is he just stuck in the past, or could we have something good together?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7248 days ago

24 February 2005 (?) - Hi guys, Some advice please girls and boys!! I have been seeing my boyfriend for 6 months now after meeting him in the pub where I work. He went out with someone for 13 years before this and there was only a 2 month gap between her breaking u...

I dumped him 'cause my folks didn't like him. Did I do the right thing?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7250 days ago

22 February 2005 (?) - Hi, I am 18 and met this bloke who is 24, we fell for eachother straight away, after a week of knowing him he told me straight that he has a kid but doesnt see her as his x partner wouldn allow it. He seems like a really genuine bloke who would ...

I've known her for 7 years and still don't know how to ask her out

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 7248 days ago

22 February 2005 (?) - Hi, I've come to you with what I find a very big problem. I have fancied this girl for 7 years, which you may feel is a long time. For the first four years we worked together very closely the following three we worked at different companies. Up un...

If he's not with anyone else, why can't I be his girlfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7108 days ago

21 February 2005 (?) - I have been seeing this guy for for a few months. When we met he had a girlfriend. He has now dumped his girlfriend to be with me, but he says he isn't ready to get into a relationship with anyone at the moment. We see each other every day and he s...

She says that "things are going too fast"...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6280 days ago

20 February 2005 (?) - i have been going out with this girl since valentine's day, and we have been really happy, and before we went out, we were the best of friends, and we were extremely close. But she has said things are going too fast for her, which i completely ...

Can't think of a way to ask her out, 'cause she's at work!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7250 days ago

20 February 2005 (?) - Hi My question is quite straight forward. Me and my mate often go down the pub on a regular basis. More recently we decided to stop at one of those Travel Lodge hotels which have a bar next to the reception. I have really taken a fancy to the hot...

With our opposite schedules... could she be looking for someone else?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6893 days ago

20 February 2005 (?) - I work the night shift 6 nights a week and she works on dayshift. She goes out to the bar secene every weekend, and i feel uncomfortable with this is she looking for someone else or just having fun?...

He's leaving in 4 weeks and I still don't know his intentions

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7103 days ago

19 February 2005 (?) - Hiya. I have recently developed feelings for a guy, now, it's a complicated situation: He is moving away for work and as it stands he is only here in the week anyway. He goes away for good in about 4 weeks. I normally only see him on...

Women my own age seem to lack the intimacy I'm seeking...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7252 days ago

18 February 2005 (?) - Retired, financially secure at 67. I like divorced women in their forties and am having difficulty finding ones that go for men my age. No problem at all finding women my own age but they are not inclined to participate in anything but dining, ...

Told her how I feel... but she's not interested.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 7252 days ago

18 February 2005 (?) - Hi I've met this girl. I've known her for 14 months, but only recently have I told her how I feel about her. For the first time in my life I have actually feel for someone, and when she told me that 'she is really sorry, but she doesn't feel the...

Help! My friend thinks he has no chance with women

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7252 days ago

17 February 2005 (?) - Hi, my housemate, Gaz is suffering. He's having problems getting a girlfriend. As a result he seems to have fallen into a downward spiral of despair, plunging lower and lower into the depths of misogyny. He now claims to hate all women, stating ...

How can I help him overcome his shyness?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7255 days ago

17 February 2005 (?) - My boyfriend is really shy and I dont like that but I dont know what to do. What can I do? Please get back to me a.s.a.p lots of love gothic gal...

She's married and older than me; now I've hurt her 'cause she thinks I'm ashamed of her

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7250 days ago

17 February 2005 (?) - Hello, I am 21 years old and a few weeks ago started chatting to a woman over the internet. We met in a chat room and seemed to get on, we then started emailing each other, pic sharing etc... she lives quite local to me and it seems that we ha...

He promised to call and never did. Now I can't get him off my mind...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7076 days ago

13 February 2005 (?) - hi, I have a really big problem. I'm only 16 and for about a year I've been seeing a guy around my city centre and in clubs and I really really fancied him. Eventually my dream came true! I met him in a club one night and we danced and had a...

Should I meet the boy I like for Valentine's?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6908 days ago

13 February 2005 (?) - To agony aunt, I have sent this boy I liked a valentines card, he keeps texting me, I said I would meet him where I go dancing, then we was going to go to the park, but I'm not allowed out on my own, my family just think I am going dancing....

Problems finding the right woman for the great relationship I dream about!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7260 days ago

11 February 2005 (?) - I am 23 years old and have a problem. I have never been in a relationship with a girl before and think its time to do something about it. Because I come from a strict muslim family, I did not want to have a girlfriend when I was younger and I also ...

She doesn't seem in a rush for a relationship... do I ask her out anyway?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7261 days ago

11 February 2005 (?) - Hey there, Until the beginning of this year, I've had a serious case of Social Anxiety Disorder. I've just gotten used to making friends, and now I'm attracted to someone! I wouldn't have any problem asking her out, if it weren't for the fact tha...

I'm really not good reading the signals. Is my flatmate interested?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7262 days ago

9 February 2005 (?) - Help, I'm in a bit of a pickle in general when it comes to men. I always fall in love with men who barely notice my existence and then the ones who do show an interest tend to turn out gay! I have now got the problem of falling for one of my fl...

Can I date a former teacher?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7263 days ago

9 February 2005 (?) - My cousin says it isn't illegal to go out with one your old teachers if he's not your teacher anymore and you bumped into each other again out of school. Is this true?? I'm confused! thanks...

She's unpredictable but she still makes me smile. I want it to work, so what do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7263 days ago

8 February 2005 (?) - Dear Cupid I am currently going out with a woman of 34years old coming up on almost a year now. we broke up at the end of October last year and I contacted her again in December. The reason I broke up was that I didnt believe that she loved m...

I stick around even when I'm lukewarm. Why?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7263 days ago

8 February 2005 (?) - I am seeing this lovely guy for the past 3 months. I do care about him a lot, but that's all. I went out with a guy for a year because I didnt want to hurt him by saying I didn't want to see him any more. Why do I stay with someone that I really d...

Why can't my beautiful friend attract guys?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7263 days ago

8 February 2005 (?) - hi , I was just wondering why do some guys stay clear of beautiful women. My friend is beautiful, funny, laid back and so nice but she can never get a boyfriend. When we go out the men look at her but they always chat up my other friend. It gets her...

He was doing the chasing, now he's finding excuses...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7104 days ago

8 February 2005 (?) - Hi, I met this man in a club. We got on really well and he asked me out on a date.We went out, had a good time and he rang me later that nigh.t We talked for hours about nothing and I really liked him. He was saying how much he really liked me ...

We made 3 dates & he broke every one. What's wrong?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7261 days ago

8 February 2005 (?) - I have met a really nice guy on a website dating site. We have been talking for about 4 weeks and get on very well and have lots in common. He has custody of his 7 year old daughter (only recent). He has made 3 dates with me and dropped out on e...

I'm interested, but how do I ask him out?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7264 days ago

8 February 2005 (?) - hi agony aunt, see I like this boy ya he likes me and I dont know how to ask him out. I mean he likes me as a freind but I don't know if will go out with me. He is getting suspicious about me liking him, he thinks im attractive....

How do I let him know I want him back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7264 days ago

8 February 2005 (?) - If your ex boyfreind broke up with you and you still like them what should you do to let them know you still care?...

Got drunk, slept with a guy, then told my bf and lost him for good!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7263 days ago

8 February 2005 (?) - I was with my boyfriend for nearly two years. Just towards the end of our relationship, things started to go wrong. It didn't seem like he wanted to be with me, wouldn't let me sleep at his house, we were arguing etc and he decided to move back to ...

If he's told little lies in the past, could he be telling me a big one now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7264 days ago

7 February 2005 (?) - I've been seeing a guy for 4months now, all great, never been happier and all that. he has told a few white lies along the line but nothing major. we work in same building, same floor, different department. there was a work do the other week f...

I see him every day since we split, but he says it's over

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7265 days ago

6 February 2005 (?) - i went out for a nite out with all my freinds and big brother. One of my big brothers freinds came out with us. We had a realy good nite and on the way home me, my brother and his freind got a taxi. Me and mr x was in the back and we started ...

My girlfriend is not nice to my lower-class friends

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7266 days ago

6 February 2005 (?) - dear aunt, i am a 22 year old bloke in a one year long relationship. the problem is that my girlfriend is from an upper class family background and she tends not to really associate with people of lower societal status. the problem is i don...

After 2 years as friends, do I tell her how I feel?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7236 days ago

6 February 2005 (?) - Hi there. I have this girl who I have developed a liking to over some time, and I wish to know whether to tell her about my feelings and how. I am 19 and she is 26. We met about 2 years ago through work, and enjoyed our conversations. I didn't r...

Am I "on the shelf" at 18?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7264 days ago

5 February 2005 (?) - i'm almost 18 years old and have never had a boyfriend and i've left school. i'm at work where everyone i work with is married or with a partner. i do go out and i don't get to see my friends. the only time i get to see someone is at college ...

I'm so confused. My guy is giving mixed signals.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7265 days ago

5 February 2005 (?) - Hey, my name is Daniella, im eighteen years old and need some advice. A couple of months ago I was out with some mates in a club when I met this bloke, twenty but shall remain nameless. We got on really well and by the end of the night we were all ...

Lost interest in my ex, now I'm going out with his best mate...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7199 days ago

5 February 2005 (?) - I was going out with someone for nearly 1 year. We broke up and 6 months after got back together. After another year we got back together. We was really close but I didn't see myself as his girlfriend for life and I knew if I spent the rest of my ...

Worried my boyfriend is no longer interested!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7268 days ago

4 February 2005 (?) - Hey, I feel that my boyfriend is no longer interested in me. Sometimes I don't do the things he wants in bed, I am conscious about my body and I'm not confident when it comes to getting undressed. This sounds pathetic, but I rang him a few mins ago...

Why would she kiss me, then say she doesn't care?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7260 days ago

4 February 2005 (?) - I deeply care for a girl I know and who I worked with for a year (but not anymore) and she says that she does not feel the same way. However one night on the town we kissed and there was something in the way it happened that makes me think she does...

Cheating boyfriend is so sweet I keep forgiving him... even after a move on my friend!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7267 days ago

4 February 2005 (?) - I'm in love with my boyfriend but he's been cheating on me. Anytime he does he always comes back to ask for forgiveness and i always take him back. we made up after a break up and i left for a vacation. now he's making a move on my close friend and ...

I am obsessed about getting engaged, how can I stop?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7268 days ago

4 February 2005 (?) - I am obsessed about getting engaged with my boyfriend, How can I stop myself looking at wedding websites etc? I am getting my hopes up by thinking he will propose valentines weekend...

Will we fall in love?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7233 days ago

4 February 2005 (?) - There's this boy that goes to my church and he's cute. I haven't seen him in a while. I have this really big crush on him. Do you think we will fall in love?...

She treats me mean, but I'm still keen!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7267 days ago

4 February 2005 (?) - There is this girl who I like and sometimes she makes jokes about liking me, like the other night when I got told by some of her mates that she likes me and got told by her herself she likes me. But it turned out to be a joke and she started being ...

Is Irish-and-separated (but not yet divorced) as good as "available"?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7266 days ago

4 February 2005 (?) - I have recently started dating an Irish man who has been legally separated from his wife for four years. They have not spoken to or seen each other for the past 4 years. His family is anxious to meet me and happy that he has met someone he loves. I ...