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writes: I have recently started dating an Irish man who has been legally separated from his wife for four years. They have not spoken to or seen each other for the past 4 years. His family is anxious to meet me and happy that he has met someone he loves. I spoke to his sis and bro over the phone. He has told me that he is ready to move on. By the way his wife was the one who initiated the legal separation years ago. Is it morally ok for me to date this man ?? He seems to clearly be sure that his relationship with his wife is over. Also I read that getting a divorce in Ireland is a long and difficult process as being a predominantly Catholic country , divorce was only legalized in 1997. A lot of people treat separation as a divorce there. Please answer soon.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 February 2005): There is absolutely nothing wrong with what you are doing! Think about how long ago it was that this guy seperated from his wife... he may still be legally married, but he obviously loves and wants to be with you. It might be an idea however to find out exactly why a divorce has not happened already... is this purely because of the laws in Ireland or is he (or his wife) secretly harboruring hope that there may still be a future for them? While this seems unlikely, I would suggest speaking to this guy... if he's worth it, he will take the time to answer your questions. If there is a legitimate reason for the divorce not having happened already, count yourself lucky to have found someone who loves you. Legal matters should not act as an obstacle to love. Hope this helps!
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