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writes: I deeply care for a girl I know and who I worked with for a year (but not anymore) and she says that she does not feel the same way.However one night on the town we kissed and there was something in the way it happened that makes me think she does like me, yet she still claims she doesn't.What can I do? Reply to this Question
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Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A reader, Lolly, writes (12 February 2005): I'm sorry to hear your story, but I urge you to try and move on from this girl. I have been in a situation myself with a friend of mine who is very much in love with me, but with whom I have no interest in that way. Occationally, we have shared a passionate or loving moment, and often the causes for me giving in to his attentions have simply been drink, loneliness, flattery or, worst of all, pity. In sober and rational moments things go back to 'just friends'. Accept that you will never have a relationship with this girl where she will feel strongly for you, as the best you could expect at the moment is to be her 'fall-back' guy. At the end of the day, why would you want to be in relationship with someone who doesn't love you, truely madly and deeply? You deserve better, so go out and find her.
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