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writes: Retired, financially secure at 67. I like divorced women in their forties and am having difficulty finding ones that go for men my age. No problem at all finding women my own age but they are not inclined to participate in anything but dining, dancing, beach walks etc. I need intimacy and these older women, at least the ones I know, seem disinclined. I would date them if I knew of any. I think this is probably just an aging thing with women. They all seem to be that way once they are 50.Any good suggestions? I would appreciate your help.Thank you,Finbar in California
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reader, Devil's Advocate +, writes (20 February 2005):
 Act your age man!If all you want is a shag then go down the red light district and cough up a few quid, it will be cheaper in the long run and you can have your choice of 40 something women.If you want more than that then you will just have to have a little more respect for women.
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reader, Rebecca Batchelor +, writes (19 February 2005):
 Now, what exactly is wrong with dining, dancing and beach walks? I enjoy all of the above and I haven't reached my forties!!Are you saying you want to have an intimate relationship with a woman in her forties? If she was only 40, there would be 27 years between you as well as the knowledge that basically you want to get her into bed more than anything else!I think your attitude may be wrong. If younger or older women are aware of how you feel, they are going to run a mile! I am not surprised they are disinclined!You need to make a woman of any age feel special first, get to know her and then start to consider intimacy. Perhaps you need to reconsider your priorities and then you may be in with a chance.
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