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writes: Hey, my name is Daniella, im eighteen years old and need some advice. A couple of months ago I was out with some mates in a club when I met this bloke, twenty but shall remain nameless. We got on really well and by the end of the night we were all over each other but he was really sensitive and not pushy. We swapped numbers and went home. Anyway I thought that would be the end of it, it was some bloke I had pulled on a drunken girls night out. We texted each other and since then we have met up five other times when we have been out. Thing is, it only ever semms to be Friday nights we meet up. He doesn't go out on Saturday nights as he has football training Sunday morning and it is difficult for him to come out as he lives in a village ten miles away from my town. We both drive but we never meet up during the week. We both work long hours, I work Saturday and during the week and he has weekends off. Recently I texted him and he doesn't text back or when he does its a short reply so I started to think he wasn't worth it until last Saturday. I went out and I texted him just to see if he was out. I got a reply saying he was picking his cousin up from my town and he came to see me, it wasn't for long but he pulled up in his car a we were chatting and it was really nice. Basically I'm confused. Do you think he likes me? I have been single for about six months now and have been in a three year relationship and another one of a year. Im really picky with guys and I never thought I would find anyone else I would feel like this about. I'm crazy about him. When I'm with him everything seems perfect. He'll hold my hand in front of his mates, which I know is a big thing for a bloke to do. Anyway last Saturday was the last I saw him and I think Tuesday was the last I heard from him. I won't text him now because I'm waiting for him to text me.I won't see him next week because he is going away. This is driving me insane. Do you think he has any feelings for me at all? Please help.Daniella
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Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A reader, Heather, writes (7 February 2005): Hi Daniella, i think that you have to ask him outright about his feelings, it would probably be better face to face rather than on the phone or via text. he might be confused about this as you are. maybe you could arrange to meet for a coffee or a drink sometime when you both have a free night and talk about how you feel... i hope this helps. good luck x
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