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Archived questions from: April, 2017 (see latest in Cheating category)

Cheating: Help and advice

What will restore my faith in love?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2759 days ago

30 April 2017 (F) - Dear Aunts, I got out of a relationship with my ex narcissist. I didnt know he was a narcissist until we broke up and he called me all kinds of names "fat, stupid, not sexy or attractive enough, sperm dish, boring etc" you name it. He humiliat...

Why won't he apologise?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2758 days ago

30 April 2017 (F) - I recently posted a question a few weeks ago. My bf and I both live in the UK and we had big argument on his birthday and he refused to accept my card and gifts for him and told me is done. I saw on his Facebook he had been sexting and ...

Best friends--to choose or not to choose?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2752 days ago

29 April 2017 (F) - ****My first question was incomplete, ignore. Please answer this one!**** I am friends with these two guys for about 9 years. They are both married. I noticed over the past 4 years the relationship with the two of them crossed over so many bou...

What is going on with his ex? What should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2758 days ago

28 April 2017 (F) - Hi everyone, some of u may remember me from my past questions.. Ill give a little background info. Around october i was really active on this site, I'm 19 years old (now 20) and i was in a really toxic relationship with a 35 year old man.. It was...

The fiance, the step daughter, the baby mama and possible cheating!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2754 days ago

27 April 2017 (F) - Hello, I have been engaged for over 2 years to the man of my dreams. However,we dont get along all the time. He has a daughter and I have a son. Now, his babymother is in the picture and my son father is not. But he gets his daughter every w...

Am I cheating on my boyfriend? ? Hope not.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2764 days ago

25 April 2017 (F) - Am I cheating on my boyfriend!! I downloaded tinder to relook at my old profile which he knew about and I used it for a couple of days and got chatting to one Man for a while. Little thing or anything but i dont any feeling toward him ! But ...

His feelings for me changed so quickly!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2253 days ago

25 April 2017 (F) - Can someone's feeling for you change in two months? My ex and I broke up in September 2015. We didn't speak for 4 months then out of the blue one day he texted me. We started talking, and hanging out as just friends. We talked about stuff like...

Is my girlfriend being a hypocrite?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2765 days ago

24 April 2017 (M) - Is my girlfriend being a hypocrite? So, my girlfriend works as a cam girl on a website. I was aware of her occupation before we started dating. Since she was on that site, I thought there'd be no problem if I register as a member of that site too...

Should I ask my husband about his scratch? Could he be cheating?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2765 days ago

23 April 2017 (F) - Could a small scratch on your husband's ear - behind the ear lobe - mean he cheated? I just noticed it today. He was not clean shaven. He had stubble on his cheeks. So it could not be a razor cut. Should I confront him or leave it be?...

We are having an affair. Should my sister in law and I just run away together?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2763 days ago

23 April 2017 (M) - Hello everyone, So my sister in law and I, ended up exchanging flirty messages and then it became wide open that we both wanted it. One thing led into another, before you know it we were having full on sex and everything in short order. It has be...

My wife's co-worker gifted her diamond jewellery. Would "just friends" do this?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 2745 days ago

23 April 2017 (M) - My wife recently received a "HW" diamond ankle bracelet and matching toe rings (2) from a fellow worker who she swears is just a good friend. They go out of town on business trips two or three times a month staying for at lest 2 nights each ...

I am at the end of desperation with my relationship problem.

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 2751 days ago

22 April 2017 (F) - I am a married man and I got involved with this super nice girl at work. I love her slightly more than my wife but I can't leave my marriage because of my children. I wanted to leave my wife until my children confronted me and I had no choice. When ...

Why 25 later after an affair with my wife does this ex friend want to get together?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2769 days ago

22 April 2017 (M) - My wife had a intense two year long affair with a single friend of ours back 25 years ago...we had tried a threesome with him,after a nite of drinking, and I found out rather quickly that I wasnt into it, but as it worked out my wife and this other ...

I want to help my boyfriend but I know I'll leave him eventually because my relationship is dead but I'm terribly attracted to his brother

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2764 days ago

21 April 2017 (F) - Hello there, So I have been in a relationship for 9 years. We started out as friends with benefits and then when I got into trouble financially I moved in with him. He's nice and we get along...we would be great friends. I have occasionally tri...

Do I let him know I found him out?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2771 days ago

19 April 2017 (F) - I've been with my bf for 2yrs now. He was sweetest, caring loving guy. I had couldn't ask for a more perfect bf. He started taking about us getting married and he got me a ring. I started doubting him cause I'd always dream of him cheating or ...

Do I call this married man?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 2771 days ago

19 April 2017 (F) - I'm 23, and I am dating a married man, who is 35, for 8 weeks now. We haven't had sex yet, but we've been kissing, making out and stuff. However, he used to call me whenever he was free. But now, all he says after making out is "Call me!" Last time, ...

Boyfriend travels constantly and has friends and family he refuses to let me meet

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2769 days ago

18 April 2017 (F) - I'm 44 years old, my boyfriend is 53. We have been dating for 4 years now. He has 2 jobs. One job has fee flying perks. So far in 4 years he has gone to Costa Rica, Dominican Republic, Mexico, Philippines, Thailand, Japan, he went to Las Vegas and ...

Boyfriend has still kept nude pics of his ex despite being with me for 4 years and 2 kids together

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2772 days ago

17 April 2017 (F) - So I was trying to get photos off of my camera and save them to my external hard drive using my boyfriends computer. I Accidentally clicked on his porn folder (I don't care that he has porn saved to his computer) my eye was caught by a photo of...

I think he could be chatting to women online, but my husband says his account was hacked. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2772 days ago

17 April 2017 (F) - I've been with my husband for a long time (15 years) over the years we had some difficulties but recently I found him chatting with this girl. He done this awhile ago with someone he works with but he always say that nothing is going on. Now i di...

Is it worth breaking up over this situation?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2772 days ago

17 April 2017 (F) - Alright so this is kind of a confusing situation for me and I'm really in need of opinions/advice. I've been with my fiance for a little over 3 years. A couple months ago, I found out that he was talking to another woman basically the same way...

Husband comes home drunk with his underwear inside out and stained. Is he cheating?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 2773 days ago

14 April 2017 (F) - Yesterday my husband came late from work again. This time it was far worst than the last time ... He works at a restaurant , he is a waiter. Three weeks ago he came home 6 hours later after leaving the workplace, He doesn't use a cellphone since he ...

Toxic, controlling, abusive and violent relationship. But I do love him. Plus I recently cheated. What should I do?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 2648 days ago

13 April 2017 (F) - I met my current partner 3 years ago, we were dating and then I moved into his place and sub letted my place to my sister as she had moved to London. At the time, three years ago, when I met my partner, my grandad had just passed away and my dad w...

My husband and his co-worker have feelings for each other. What should I do?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2777 days ago

12 April 2017 (F) - Let me start from the beginning if I may. About 2 weeks ago my husband said one of his supervisors at the factory where he works 3rd shift came up to him while he was loading a truck and harassed him about being too close to a girl who has a bad re...

A women with a boyfriend/kids is texting my boyfriend and he texts back. I'm not happy about this!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2777 days ago

10 April 2017 (F) - I am not sure whether to stay with my boyfriend. We have been together for two months. We had some arguments and i said that i didnt want to see him anymore. I only said that because i was angry that he eas being horrible to me. I told him that i ...

Boyfriend slept with married woman before we dated

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2777 days ago

10 April 2017 (F) - I found out through old messages that my bf slept with a married woman before. It bothers me because I believe marriage is sacred. Also I never would have thought that my bf would do something like that. But in the messages he told his friend that ...

Can intercourse make a woman tighter?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2780 days ago

9 April 2017 (M) - Ok my wife is usually is avrage tigjt like not too tight but no loose. We has sex this morning and she was tight. She has cheated in the past amd she a lier for sure. If u have sex with someone can it cause ur vigina to be tighter ...

I know our arrangement isn't right for me in the long run. Should I break things off even though we've made plans together?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2780 days ago

9 April 2017 (F) - I've been seeing this guy for about 6 months and its has gotten quite serious saying he loves me etc. He is 20 years older than me and married. We were talking for a while before hand and being flirtatious and we've had a couple of nights alone. He ...

My husband wants us to stays friends with the woman he cheated with!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2781 days ago

7 April 2017 (F) - My husband cheated on me years ago. He hid it and never told me. When I found out he lied and said it was before we met and I should have asked him about her. But it wasn't. So he lied about his lie. He kept her as part of our friendship circle, but ...

My fiance, my toddler, my crush and my life... I am looking for advice!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2783 days ago

7 April 2017 (F) - Myself and my fiancé have been together for over ten years. To start off with things were great, I felt like everything was perfect and he was amazing and always looked out for me. He'd help if I struggled with anything we would share the load for ...

I caught my partner in a lie. Now he's verbally abusive and constantly puts me down

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2781 days ago

6 April 2017 (F) - My partner is so different since I caught him out with a lie. We aren't young (both in our 40's) and there should be no grey areas within our relationship. He has lied to me several times about minor things, lied to at least 5 times about bigger ...

Are there any signs that he still loves me? I caught him cheating

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 2784 days ago

4 April 2017 (F) - i recently broke with my ex. he was having an affair with another girl and when i asked he denied it. we broke up and he said he is not a suitable guy for me and my family. but we still do video calls and talk for the whole night. actually we talk ...

How do I end things without hurting him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2784 days ago

4 April 2017 (F) - Dear Cupid, I am a 45 year old woman married for 18 years . The marriage has been more of a business relation tand there has been no sex or romance...there were a lot of family issues....i never thought of a divorce since i had basically accepted...

Second time I've caught my b/f texting other girls! Do I end things?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2784 days ago

4 April 2017 (F) - I caught my boyfriend messaging other girls twice on Facebook and I don't know what to do. The first time was last summer when I went on holiday. I coincidentally met a girl (seriously small country, everyone pretty much knows each other) who ...

He was sexting but now has given me all his passwords!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2784 days ago

3 April 2017 (F) - I am 19 found out a few days ago that my boyfriend whose 22 was sexting a girl in a different state for 2 days. He did not tell me. The whole month he was hiding this he was pushing us having a future and a "forever". His best friend told him he ...

Mr E makes me feel like a woman. Yet my unsatisfactory boyfriend does make time for me. Which one will be the best choice?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2788 days ago

3 April 2017 (F) - Hello aunts, I am in a bit of a mix here and I know I have complicated everything so much and would appreciate your candid advice. The issue is between my ex boyfriend who I refuse to let go and who loves me, refuses to let me go and an old acqu...

I feel no connection with the available guy. Yet the married guy and I do have a connection. What to do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2785 days ago

1 April 2017 (F) - I am trying to figure out love and what it means and why life gives me certain people when I ask for love. I don't get it. I feel I'm ready for true love but nothing is happening. I admire my coworker who I look forward to seeing everyday, who pu...