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writes: Could a small scratch on your husband's ear - behind the ear lobe - mean he cheated? I just noticed it today. He was not clean shaven. He had stubble on his cheeks. So it could not be a razor cut.Should I confront him or leave it be? Reply to this Question
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (26 April 2017):
 OP tell us the real issue here, share with us why you don't trust your husband and maybe we can help.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 April 2017): No. It doesn't automatically mean that he's cheating. Your instant mistrust says much more than a small scratch!
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reader, Youcannotbeserious  +, writes (23 April 2017):
 Blimey, if I was cheating every time I got a fresh scratch or cut, there would not be enough hours in the day for me to have that many encounters!
I have scratched myself, with my own nails, accidentally on a number of occasions, or caught myself with something (brambles, barbed wire) or been scratched by animals (mainly cats and rabbits) or children. I honestly cannot remember a single scratch sustained as a result of having sex.
Why don't you simply say to your husband, "Ooh, you have a scratch behind your ear. What happened?"
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reader, RubyBirtle +, writes (23 April 2017):
You must be a very paranoid person if a possible affair is the conclusion you draw from a scratch on the earlobe. ANYTHING could have caused it!
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (23 April 2017):
 What else makes you think he is cheating - besides the little scratch?
What exactly made you think scratch = cheating?
For most people that would NOT be the first conclusion to come up with IMHO.
Here in the North, it's mosquito season they are VICIOUS this time of year and I have more bits and scratches than usual because I also have adverse reactions to them.
Does he wear glasses? Sunglasses? Maybe they irritated him and he scratched his earlobe?
I think it's IMPOSSIBLE to say that he MUST have cheated because he has a scratch on his ear.
So, I have to ask why the mistrust?
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