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Archived questions from: May, 2015 (see latest in Cheating category)

Cheating: Help and advice

How will my husband ever forgive me for being unfaithful?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3452 days ago

31 May 2015 (F) - Hi aunts and uncles. I have been married for four years and have two children with my husband. I absoloutly adore him. However, at a hen party two years ago, in a moment of madness, i kissed another man. It wasnt a proper kiss, as there were no ...

Should I tell the other girl about his cheating?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3453 days ago

31 May 2015 (F) - Hi I just found out 2 days ago (by chance) that the guy I have started dating has a girlfriend. He doesn't know that I know this as I havnt confronted him yet. I'm feeling so hurt as I love him but I will obviously not see him again now I know he is ...

Should I let go now or forgive him since we weren't officially dating?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3453 days ago

29 May 2015 (F) - Should I let go now or forgive him since we weren't officially dating? ok so I need some advice , so me and this guy have been talking for about eight months now but we are not officially together he and I both decided that until I moved then we ...

Do you think someone can have an affair without having sex with another person?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 3452 days ago

28 May 2015 (M) - I married my high school gf just over a year ago. Shortly after we got engaged I started working a new job and met this girl named Sarah, she's funny, sweet and we just had tons of fun working together. We started hanging out with each other ...

How do I get past this betrayal so that we emerge stronger as a couple?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3455 days ago

28 May 2015 (F) - Hi all My boyfriend of 5 years was addicted to porn and because he was desensitized to average porn he signed up to ^^^ buddy websites for a different kind of thrill (real women) He didn't contact anyone on these sites or even fill in his ...

He lied about having a baby and a wife, I can't trust him anymore but I'm still with him!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3456 days ago

28 May 2015 (F) - I lived with my bf for a year.. He's from Iraq and I am from South America but we both live in United States. I discovered some pics on Facebook about him and a baby which I asked and he said it is his nephew..after that like 3 months after a woman ...

Am I no longer in love with my husband?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3457 days ago

27 May 2015 (F) - Hi I am married but still in love with a married man. I left the company since a year. We fell in love and we have not really spoken about it but we realised it quite late, few weeks before I left. I am married but do not know what to do...

We never have sex and fight all the time, why am I with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3458 days ago

26 May 2015 (F) - Dear readers, I really don't know where to start from because the situation is quite complicated. Let me say in end of 2013 after a nasty break up, I met a guy 2 years older than me ( he is 27years now) and completely feel in love. We spent time ...

Should I tell my ex's girlfriend that we made out and had oral sex?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3457 days ago

26 May 2015 (F) - I was recently in my ex's hometown and we hung out even though he has a girlfriend. He called me as soon as I got to my hotel and we had drinks. Within two hours we were making out, and fooling around (oral sex, boob sucking, dirty talk) he wanted ...

I feel like I don't deserve my family, my friends or my man. Do I need to see someone about these feelings?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3459 days ago

24 May 2015 (F) - I am struggling for about a month now with extreme guiltiness. I am a nervy wreck most of the time. I feel like such a terrible partner/daughter\sister/friend. I have so many great people in my life and i feel like i dont deserve them. Ive hurt them ...

I'm worried if we apart that my boyfriend will cheat like he has in the past

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3457 days ago

24 May 2015 (F) - I'm in a relationship which has survived, well kind of survived my boyfriend sleeping with another women, but now he is about to go work aboard for 3 months over summer, I don't know if I trust him enough to keep our relationship going. We met when...

I'm trapped in the past and don't know how to let go

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3459 days ago

24 May 2015 (F) - Its been 4 months not seeing or communicating with my ex-bf. I still think of him but this time with anger cause he almost took me virginity for a lie. He lied to me about being single, loving me and caring for me. He was inlove with another girl ...

Feel betrayed, hurt, and extremely upset about her lies on her friendship/relationship with T. What should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3458 days ago

24 May 2015 (M) - My wife and I have been married for a little over two years, and have been together for nearly 6 years. About 7 months after we started dating I met her friend, (a guy called T), who she said was her best friend. At first I was a little put off,...

Wife of 5 years says her heart was always with someone else

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3461 days ago

22 May 2015 (M) - I’m just devastated by the news that I just received, and just wondering if I can get perspective from other men and women. My wife and I have been married for 5 years, together for 7. I accepted her 2 children from her previous marriage with op...

I'm not at peace knowing he lives with another woman

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3461 days ago

22 May 2015 (F) - I am divorced and live with my kids. I met this guy 7 months ago and we just clicked right away. When we met,I asked him about his relationship status,to which he told me he is unmarried but has been on an on/off relationship. It never occured to me ...

Things have been volatile. She's been a flirt with someone one else. I've been angry. So where to now with our relationship? .

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3462 days ago

22 May 2015 (M) - HI people. I need advice. I accidentally found a message from my girlfriend that a guy sent her asking "what she would like him to do ;)". setting aside the winky face, this could have been innocent or harmless flirting,so I waited to see if...

A girl texted me saying that my b/f asked for her number. I don't know how to talk to him about it

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3462 days ago

22 May 2015 (F) - I need to speak to my boyfriend about something that has previously caused problems in the past in our relationship. The problem is, and it may sound stupid, but I don't know how to tell him. Basically, a girl has messaged me and said that my boy...

My ex-boyfriend cheated on me and he and my former best friend, (who is also my cousin), are now a couple. How do I get over this betrayal by the two of them?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3463 days ago

21 May 2015 (F) - I was relationship with a guy like for 4 years suddenly one day he told me he is seeing someone else and that girl is my cousin. She knows everything about our relationship and also she knows how much I loved him. But I don't know why the hell a b...

If your boyfriend's sex drive is suddenly higher lately, does that mean he is cheating? How can I determine this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3463 days ago

20 May 2015 (F) - If your boyfriend's sex drive is suddenly higher lately, does it mean he is cheating on you? We have always had amazing sex and he has had a healthy sex drive, like me, but just seems a little hornier the last week. Not sure why? We have ...

Why is he so against unblocking me & why is he still with this other woman? What does she have that I don't?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3464 days ago

20 May 2015 (F) - Hi, I had a bad fall out with my ex a few months back over another girl he was seeing on the sly. I was ready to forgive him as we were only casually seeing each other - but he had already blocked me by then. The thing is - 6 months down the l...

I have a boyfriend but kissed my married manager at work and now I'm all messed up!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3465 days ago

19 May 2015 (F) - I am in a tricky situation.. I've been with my Boyf for 4 years I'm 20 years old and recently got my dream job.. My manager is 25 and married. So recently I put in for another job within the Same organisation, however I was told my manager picked ...

Do I unfriend her? Talk to my Bf? My Bf has been avoiding me for last few months. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3465 days ago

19 May 2015 (F) - hi.. i've added one of my classmates as my friend on facebook. she came to know who my boyfriend is from my relationship status on facebook. within a week since i'd added her on fb i'd noticed some changes in my boyfriend's attitude towards...

Should I just go ahead and divorce? Is he likely to cheat again?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3462 days ago

19 May 2015 (F) - We have been married for 13 years. Today my husband confesses he has cheated on my twice. He says whatever my verdict is, I am his only love and will always be. I am sure that this is the first time and I regret that we are apart now as I moved t...

My boyfriend's ex believes we were cheating before they broke up and keeps writing nasty things online about me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3466 days ago

17 May 2015 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend officially for about a month, but we have been seeing each other since early February. We worked together for a while last year, so I knew him before when he was with his ex girlfriend. I totally admit, I liked him then...

How to cope with a girlfriend who cheated on you and then left you for someone else?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3466 days ago

16 May 2015 (M) - How to cope with a girlfriend who cheated on you and then left you for someone else? Please help. I was with my ex and I thought everything was great. She blindsided me by cheating. Before I found out about it, she broke up with me what felt lik...

Why do I find it harder to trust my married BF even after 2 years together?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3467 days ago

15 May 2015 (F) - I've been with a married man for 2 years. Been here before. I find that after this long, it is harder for me to TRUST him. Can anyone enlighten me as to WHY I am having a harder time after this long trusting him? I actually found that...

Why is my cheating ex angry that I have moved on?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3470 days ago

14 May 2015 (M) - This is just a general question. Why would an ex girlfriend who cheated and left you for someone else, get extremely mad when they discover you've moved on yourself? My ex cheated and played the back and forth game for weeks. One day, I was the love ...

I didn't even notice he was cheating on me .......

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3470 days ago

13 May 2015 (F) - My ex cheated on me repeatedly throughout our relationship, until I had a bad car crash and spent a long time recovering. He would later tell me that it made him realise what he had and he didn't want to lose me. I thought everything was going ...

I met this man and the chemistry was intense, so what happened next was ............

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3471 days ago

13 May 2015 (F) - Dear Cupid.. Long story short, have been texting 24/7 with a Guy i met 2 weeks ago. We been out together with friends 3times partying And made out once(french kissing). He is crazy in the head And i completely get his sick sense of humour. We t...

Why do some guys chose to ignore you rather than be upfront?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3471 days ago

13 May 2015 (F) - (Sorry for the long post) Even when in the beginning I have repeatedly told him to be honest with me even if it hurts. Why is it now that he refuses to tell me how he still feel towards me? He said he usually gets over a girl after a week etc. but...

Her actions hurt me . Should I continue to 'see' her or block her on social media?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3472 days ago

12 May 2015 (F) - I know this question is going to sound trivial compared to some questions, but I don't know whether to keep or block a 'friend' on Facebook who pretends everything is ok when really it isn't. The fact is - we fell out over a guy a few months back ...

I'm sticking to my guns but can anyone tell me what is meant by all of this text?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3471 days ago

11 May 2015 (F) - Me and my boyfriend of a year have recently split up. We had an initial split up a couple of weeks back where he was speaking to another girl and went straight to her after we broke up. But then came running back to me within a week of this break ...

How do I just "get over" stuff? I need to get my life right

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3472 days ago

11 May 2015 (F) - Heres the scenario I need advice on. I'm to the point that I don't know what to do anymore. Ive been with my guy for a couple years now. And in the past he has messed up and cheated on me by having sex with another woman. As well as lying to me a...

She knows I'm upset with her as I've acted off but I haven't told her why. Any suggestions please?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3473 days ago

11 May 2015 (M) - I'm at university at the moment. My girlfriend and I have been going out since late October, before that we were seeing eachother and she went home for the weekend and slept with her friend. They never used to go out they just had sex (f-buddi...

What should I do? I can't stop being paranoid he is cheating on me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3471 days ago

11 May 2015 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend now for almost two months, we were seeing eachother for 4, so all in all we have been doing the whole dating thing for about 6 months now. We have had a hard time due to a lot of different factors. He is mildly a...

My sex drive is such that I want to sleep around but I know that will hurt my boyfriend, and might make him depressed. What can I do about my libido?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3474 days ago

9 May 2015 (F) - I'm in a really uncomfortable situation. I've been with my bf for 3 years with one break. During the break I had sex with two people and dated a person online for a few weeks. I just really wanted to get something out of my system. I have ...

Why do some affairs last longer than others?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3474 days ago

9 May 2015 (F) - Why do some extra marital affairs last for only a short time, for example, a couple of months or weeks or just a one night stand? As opposed to affairs which last for years and are still going strong? What is the difference? Just curious wh...

Clearly we have some kind of emotional affair going on but what now?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3475 days ago

9 May 2015 (F) - I met a guy 3yrs ago through a mutual friend, there seemed to be an instant attraction on both sides the chat was flowing and then he slips out that he has a girlfriend, gutted! Anyway I decided right then to back off. He lives over 2 hrs away ...

Why does she love me so much!?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3475 days ago

9 May 2015 (M) - My girlfriend of 2 1/2 years loves me endlessly despite everything we have been through. Our road has been rough but its always my fault. I've lied to her, cheated on her, left her and she always welcomes me back with open arms. Why?! I've told her ...

My guy never wants sex yet he's always using porn. Is it ok for me to cheat?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3475 days ago

8 May 2015 (F) - Hello well i love sex who doesn't. MY MAN that's who we never have sex his always tired body hurts not to mention he doesn't take any notice when i dress up get my hair and nails done.when I'm out he is constantly watching porn like all the time ...

Could we be together again? Does she really want to just stay friends after all that's happened?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3478 days ago

6 May 2015 (M) - Hello Everyone I'm coming to you for some help on if there's any hope for me and the girl I'm in love with. To try and make a long story short about a year ago I was engaged and that girl ended up leaving me, I bottled those emotions up which ...

Is there any thing wrong with me? He cheated on me so often. I cannot trust him any more.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3478 days ago

5 May 2015 (F) - I apologize in advance for the length of this post. I dated a guy for about 9 months long distance. We met online and for the first 2-3 months we would spend 8-10 hours a day talking and skyping. Being in person together felt right and we got...

Do I act on this crush or stop it going any further?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3479 days ago

5 May 2015 (F) - i have been married for 14 years.have always had a good relation with hubby for first 10 years except for in laws who kept interfering and troubling us. After 10 yrs he slowly started drifting away and had an extra marital affair with a girl. N...

Am I being paranoid? Or does my 55 year old Girlfriend have too many traits and behaviors of a chronic cheater?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3480 days ago

4 May 2015 (M) - I'm 44 male and left my wife for a 55 year old hot lady. I've been married since 18 and rarely cheated, whereas she's been married 3 times and has 4 kids from 3 different men. She's cheated on all of them, been promiscuous, often having sex same ...

How can I get my 17 year old girlfriend to quit using drugs? How can I convince her that she shouldn't need multiple partners? People tell me to break up with her.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3480 days ago

4 May 2015 (M) - Hello DC! I'm in a bit of a pickle right now with my girlfriend... My current girlfriend and I (let's call her A) have been dating off and on for about three months. I wish I could be consistent, but I caught her cheating with several boys the...

I would like to have a real future with him. He is married and he and I had a relationship earlier. Am I hoping for too much?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3479 days ago

4 May 2015 (M) - I have had an affair with a guy for about three years and I ended it when I realised he was not going to leave his wife. We have been on friendly terms ever since. Now, 4 years later I am going trough a really,really rough time and he helps me ...

Do I walk away and not look back?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3326 days ago

2 May 2015 (M) - I was dating a woman for about 7 months. I thought things were great. I'm working on a law degree and I work, so I'm extrely busy. I spent as much time with her as I possibly could. In fact, I spent most of my time with her during the semester, ...