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Archived questions from: July, 2014 (see latest in Cheating category)

Cheating: Help and advice

They never acted on their mutual crush, so why would my friend's boss send her a goodbye card with kisses?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3758 days ago

30 July 2014 (F) - There was a mutual crush between my friend and her married boss. They sort of developed a strong liking for each other, But for him, it was more of an infatuation. He did not know that he was flirting with her at the beginning( his wife also...

Is this cheating? My husband bought his female colleague perfume!

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 3756 days ago

30 July 2014 (F) - My husband told me that he really appreciates his female colleague and bought her perfume for her birthday gift. Should I be worried? ...

My B/f's having a relationship with another girl who I was led to believe was his ex, I snooped though his texts and guess what I found?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3759 days ago

28 July 2014 (F) - Hey all so I've been dating this guy going on 3 months we started dating while he was in another relationship. The relationship was serious he and the girl he was with had been together a year and 3 months and they lived together. Any way I was so...

He was sexting and then had an affair, I cant decide whether to forgive and work on it, or leave!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3761 days ago

27 July 2014 (F) - I recently asked for help over my partner sexting another woman and I have now spoken to her and she was very willing to tell me that they had know each other for about a year and that they were only friends and although she wanted more, he said ...

I'm trying to forgive him and make the marriage work, but friends and family don't undertand why!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3761 days ago

27 July 2014 (F) - My husband and I have been married for 7 years and we have 4 kids under the age of 5. A month ago he told me that he had an affair with a coworker. It happened in April and last three weeks, during those three weeks they were together 4 times. H...

I took him back when he cheated but I just cant trust him anymore.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3763 days ago

24 July 2014 (F) - Dear cupid, you've indeed been of great help to me, and I do appreciate everything. Pls I need your advice on an issue bothering my heart. I've been in a relationship with my boyfriend who loves me so much for 7yrs now(we've lived together for 2yrs ...

I'm confused about this attraction to this girl, how do I approach her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3763 days ago

24 July 2014 (F) - Dear Cupid.. I am so confused. I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years and love him to pieces. But for years, since I started secondary school I have always fancied girls and guys. It started by having crushes on girl teachers. I met my boyfrie...

Every time I sleep with him I fall more in love with him! Advice needed, please!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3764 days ago

23 July 2014 (F) - I've been sleeping with this guy on and off for about 6 years when I say on and off I mean 2-3 time a year. Each time I've seen him I've fell more and more In love with him. The only problem is he's married with a kid, this is where it gets ...

I have a boyfriend but he doesn't know I am already married!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3763 days ago

23 July 2014 (F) - Dear cupid, im in totally mess right now, i hope you can help me more than i can help myself, im facing such a messy situation what can i do..My story goes this way, i had a boyfriend right now, we already knew each other for about a year i think ...

Is counselling the answer?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3764 days ago

22 July 2014 (F) - Advice please. My ex and I split up due to us growing apart and him cheating. We had two lovely children together. He was bitter I called it quits and at times made life difficult for the kids as a result and said some terrible things to me. We both ...

I paid for the taxi on my back -- does that mean the end of my relationship?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3766 days ago

21 July 2014 (F) - After an afternoon boozing I thought it wise to get a taxi home! However id ran out of money and couldn't really afford it! On the way home I explained this to the taxi driver who said I could always pay at the other end, however my boyfriend was...

Am I just being stupid and paranoid as I do really love him but I don't want to be hurt and betrayed and these arguments are ruining us, should I put it all behind us and move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3767 days ago

21 July 2014 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been together for 7 months. I am 21 and hes 26. Hes a very flirty guy and other girls love him but he's always made it clear that I'm the one and everyone can see how happy and in love we are. About a month into our r...

My affair partner is leaving her husband but becoming distant towards me

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3765 days ago

20 July 2014 (M) - What could be the reason for this type of behavior? You would think that she would probably want to get closer to me now that she's "moving on" so to speak, but it almost feels like she's slowly distancing herself from me as well. We have been s...

Wedding booked, but worried about his flirty ways. How can I learn to trust him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3770 days ago

17 July 2014 (F) - I am getting married in June and I don't trust my partner in the staying faithful side. He is my soul mate i trust him in every other way 110% except to stay faithful to me. I married before 4 years ago and the guy was a complete idiot he did not ...

I'm pretty sure my boyfriend is cheating. Do I confront him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3772 days ago

15 July 2014 (F) - I think my boyfriend is cheated on me?For the last week or two ive been having over time and my boyfriend doesnt want me to really go to his baseball games as much anymore and when he gets off work earlier than me hes always out somewhere one day I ...

Is it wrong of me to still be upset about this one night occurrence?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3774 days ago

14 July 2014 (F) - A few months ago, my boyfriend of 5 years went out with some friends before his best friends military deployment. Rather than going to a bar, as he told me, the guys instead went to a strip club. My boyfriend was the designated driver for the night, ...

Should I take back my ex? He had casual fling during a brief split.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3776 days ago

12 July 2014 (F) - OK, I am very confused. Me and my partner recently split up and just got back together, and I just found out by looking at his phone (bad I know but I had a gut feeling) that he was casually involved with another woman during the break. I know it's ...

I don't want him back but I know I have to arrange for him to be able to see our baby!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3776 days ago

12 July 2014 (F) - I really need some advice on how best to deal with my boyfriend cheating on me and setting up some form of contact for our baby while I allow myself time to take it all in. My boyfriend of three years had cheated on me while I was pregnant, it was...

Is my husband gay? straight? or just curious?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3748 days ago

11 July 2014 (F) - I'm questioning whether to believe my husband when he says he's not gay or bi after I confronted him about knowing he watched/chatted with a couple trannies this one time that I know of. There were also females he watched/chatted with as well. He ...

I think my husband might be bi and I don't know what to do

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3777 days ago

11 July 2014 (F) - I am very confused and at a loss of what to do, think and believe . My husband and I have been together 3yrs and got married last november. I just found out the truth that my husband has been talking/flirting with other girls before and after we got ...

We were LDR for 8 months, then we moved in together, we've both made mistakes but the trust is now gone and I feel suffocated. We are broken. How do we get through this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3777 days ago

11 July 2014 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for a year and a half, and we are very much in love. For eight months of our relationship, we were in long-distance. He soon moved away from his small hometown (family, lifetime friends, a job he loved - ...

Trust issues from my past are affecting my current relationship. Do I have a reason to be paranoid now with what my boyfriend is doing?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3778 days ago

10 July 2014 (F) - Hi Guys, So keeping it straight to the point. Ive been with my boyfriend for nearly a year now- everything is fantastic and I couldn't ask for anyone better. I live with him at his mums and we are saving up for a house to move out. I see him ever...

It's been 8 months since I last heard from my ex but I still can't get over how he hurt me...and now he's marrying his current G/f

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3778 days ago

10 July 2014 (F) - I was seeing this guy for a while and I thought things were going well.. I guess I just fell for him too fast. I didn't sleep with him until 7 months later because I didn't want to just be used. I really thought he was different but things started ...

I made a massive mistake and she didn't take it well. I'm looking for words of comfort and advice!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3778 days ago

9 July 2014 (M) - Hi all, So I have very recently made a massive mistake, and jeopardised my girlfriend and I's relationship. Really I'm not too sure why I'm sharing this with you all, and I don't think there is very much I can do, but if anyone has any words of...

Looking for advice about a friend I've fallen for

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3777 days ago

9 July 2014 (M) - I am looking for advice about a female friend I have fallen in love with. I am 52, divorced with one child, and in a live in relationship that is winding down. This woman is 47, married with one teen child. We have known each other for about 5 ...

I cheated on my husband but cannot bring myself to confess and I feel so guilty all the time

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3773 days ago

9 July 2014 (F) - Hi, I got married in 2012. During the first few months of our marriage, my husband remained busy with his friends, he had very little time for me. He made love to me on rare occasions. Then, I began to hang around with my boss, like fiends. One...

Cheated, guilt destroying an amazing relationship. What should I do?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3777 days ago

9 July 2014 (F) - Guilt ridden, destroying an amazing relationship. What should I do? Where to begin... Over a yr. Ago, I was in a short term abusive relationship. I left him The guy tried to entrap me, hole poked in condom. I met and fell hard for my curren...

How can I get out of this and save my marriage?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3779 days ago

7 July 2014 (F) - I desperately need advice! I have a male friend of many years. We have always been very close and share many mutual interests, we are a lot alike spiritually and have always understood each other even though he is of different nationality and ...

Does it sound like she didn't mind my secretly massaging her?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3781 days ago

7 July 2014 (M) - I was at a party at a pub and two people with me was my girlfriend and her best friend. No one was drunk, only light drinking if that. I had them in either side and at times arms around both. Everytime her friend sat down she was sit very close, ...

I cheated on my baby daddy but now I wonder if I was wrong?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3781 days ago

6 July 2014 (F) - I'm so ashamed and I thought I was ready to move on from my bf/baby's dad. I cheated on him by having sex and kissing another guy! I was going to lunch and stuff with this new guy for maybe 2 months now. . I went behind his back because he's been ...

Will it ever get any easier getting over an ex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3783 days ago

5 July 2014 (F) - hey guys i need some advice me and my hubby of 9 years split almost 18 months ago now as we wanted different things i was desparate to be a mum and my hubby didnt really want children things took a turn for the worst when we had investigations done ...

Now I've got him why aren't I satisfied?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 3783 days ago

4 July 2014 (F) - I've been having an affair with a married man for almost over 18 months now, he's been wed for about 6 weeks, has a 2-year-old son, and on Wednesday he announced he's leaving his wife for me. He said he'd told his wife "I'm leaving you, got a new ...

Can a married person having an affair have the right to accuse the partner of being deceitful?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 3783 days ago

3 July 2014 (M) - Does this make any sense or am I wrong? Here's the scenario: a single guys is having a torrid love affair with a married woman for a long time. He only sleeps with her but does socialize with other women, and men of course, from time to time, bu...

I'm in turmoil. I love my husband, so do I stay with him or move in with my lover?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3784 days ago

3 July 2014 (F) - I've been having an affair with a co-worker for the past 6 months behind my husband's back. I'll admit, our marriage has become a bit stale in the bedroom department, all my husband talks about is bills, paying the next bill, financial st...

I like a married guy. How do guys behave when they have genuine feelings for girl Versus if they just want sex?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3784 days ago

3 July 2014 (F) - I like a guy whose older than me. He's married, I'm not. He's only really made a sexual joke once or twice. Other than that, he tells me i'm pretty/cute, he holds doors, tries to make me laugh, compliments me, goes out of his way to talk to me an...

Was she reasonable to accuse me of emotional cheating?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3773 days ago

3 July 2014 (M) - Here we go on the merry-go-round once again. Our relationship started to go down hill. I had been married before, and I admit to cheating, so I vowed not to make that same mistake again. So when I met V, I took my time and listened, when she said...

Went through my LDR's phone and found evidence that suggests she cheated

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3787 days ago

1 July 2014 (M) - Hello dear Cupid and agony aunts. It's been awhile since I asked for help Here's the thing, I've been dating this girl for about 3 months, and we have known each other for 5 years. I love her, and have a connection to her I've never felt befor...