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Archived questions from: July, 2005 (see latest in Cheating category)

Cheating: Help and advice

We were having problems and he accepted a date from a client...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7044 days ago

31 July 2005 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been going through lots of problems in the last month. We have been together almost 7 months now. In the last 4 days everything have improved immensley. He has started to act like himself again ie. wanting sex, giving me ...

After his cheating with a woman from his work, he wants to regain my trust. But how?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7052 days ago

30 July 2005 (F) - I'm 19. My bf is 23. We have been together for 8 months now. I know he's the one I want to spend the rest of my life with. Our love is magic except I just found out from a friend that while I was in Cancun he cheated on me with a woman from his ...

He slept with his ex when he was away. Is that cheating, or not?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7054 days ago

29 July 2005 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for 7 months. He had a previous relationship that was on and off for 7 years. I am completely in love with him, and if he asked, I'd marry him. The problem is that he has been across the country for the past...

Mad at my lover, I told his wife what was going on between us...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7054 days ago

28 July 2005 (?) - I had an affair which lasted 2 months. In this time I fell in love with this man. He was in a very unhappy marriage and had left his wife before he met me, but went back for the sake of his child. He'd phone and text me every day. And we used to met ...

I wanted to win him back as a free woman, but then he told me he was seeing someone!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6143 days ago

27 July 2005 (F) - I have lost the love of my life. Six months ago I finished with my lover after 6 years because I was married. I didn't contact him for 2 months then decided after all this time I couldnt live without him. I contacted him and he said he wanted t...

My partner cheated and it just adds to our troubles...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 7056 days ago

26 July 2005 (F) - My partner has cheated on me and told me all about it. We only buried our still born child ten weeks ago. I don't know what to do....

Cheated on my boyfriend of 2 weeks with his friend... and I might be pregnant!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 7058 days ago

23 July 2005 (F) - I don't know what to do. I'm going out with my best friend and weve been going out for 2 weeks. I cheated on him a week ago with his friend and I had a big crush on him and now it hurts me to even look at my boyfriend cause I made a mistake. And not ...

When my marriage was in trouble, I had a brief affair. Now I just feel used...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6184 days ago

22 July 2005 (F) - hi, I had a brief affair because of some problems in my marriage. The affair is now over. Instead of feeling better, I feel used by the other man who promised to be there for me no matter what. My husband does not know of the affair, but he r...

I love my fiancee and I don't want to lose him, so why did I sleep with another man?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6919 days ago

22 July 2005 (F) - I've been with my Boyfriend for 2 1/2 yrs and we are supposed to be getting married next year. A couple of days ago I slept with another man! I now dont know how I feel and I can't bring myself to look at him. My b/f knows I met up with this...

He still calls the girl he cheated with, but I want things to work out between us...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6308 days ago

21 July 2005 (F) - How can I make my boyfriend forget the girl he cheated on me with? He calls her and I know he is seeing her. He denies it. I need help. I love him so much. We live together. I try to be good with him. What can I do?...

Do I have the right to give my boyfriend of 4 months an ultimatum about leaving his wife?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4267 days ago

20 July 2005 (F) - I am a 35 year old divorced mother of two. I have been divorced 9 years now and I have dated off and on. I am now in a relationship, only four months in mind you, but a serious one at that. He calls several times a day, I see him at least 3 ...

My wife's affair is over, but she still works in the same place where it happened...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7063 days ago

20 July 2005 (M) - My wife had an affair for six months. It is now over but she has kept the love texts on her mobile and still works at the same place. She still goes out often. Should I trust her?...

Our marriage ended because I slept with her friend. Now I wonder if I should warn my ex...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 7041 days ago

19 July 2005 (M) - I have been with the same girl for 9 years. We recently got married and have been living together for over 7 years. To cut a long story I have ended up sleeping with her best friend and as a result I have ended the relationship with my wife. At...

My boyfriend says nothing is happening with his ex, but I'm sure it is!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 7066 days ago

17 July 2005 (F) - My live in boyfriend is cheating with his ex. He says he's not cheating. Everything that I say is wrong and it turns into an arguement. Please I need help. I love him but it is hard to even think he is with her. How do I prove to him that I am rig...

Choose my friend, or choose my friend's boyfriend? What do I do?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 5938 days ago

14 July 2005 (F) - I have a problem.I love my friend's boyfriend and I think he love me too but my friend don't know about my relation.Both of them are very good to me.I am confused that I should choose my friend or him.What should I do?... ...

Met an online lover, but he was sprung by his wife. Now he won't talk to me!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 7068 days ago

11 July 2005 (F) - My husband doesn't have sex with me. About three months ago I took a lover, who is also married. We met online and his wife recently found out about the affair and has requested a divorce. I am very distraught because I am very emotionally attached ...

Attracted to a lifelong friend and not my wife... Unfortunately, we both have partners and children!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 7036 days ago

11 July 2005 (M) - I am married with a child. I have a loving wife but I feel sexually attracted to a lifelong friend whom I have known for over 15 years. We are very close and she has a child as well. Our kids play together and she and my wife hang out a lot. S...

A month before he proposed, my boyfriend cheated and I can't even think straight!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 7072 days ago

10 July 2005 (F) - My boyfriend of two years proposed to me last November. AFter the Engagement Announcement was posted in the paper I received a call from a woman who confessed that last Oct. or Nov. she had an affair on her husband and it was with my fiance'. My ...

My partner is texting other women with sexual suggestions and searching for brothels on the internet!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 7044 days ago

10 July 2005 (F) - I have been with my partner for almost a year now - I am totally in love with him. Neither of us were the marrying type, however he proposed at 4 months into our relationship. We are both very happy - Well I thought we were. Recently I have fou...

Somehow, it seems like my feelings over his cheating behaviour is my fault!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7076 days ago

7 July 2005 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for almost two years and at the weekend he did something with another girl. I mean to give credit he didnt try to hide it from me at all which I do appreciate but does that make it OK to have done what he did? When I...

My girl has been with someone else for 4 years, even though she says she loves me best!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7075 days ago

7 July 2005 (M) - I am in love with a girl, who is in a relationship with another guy. Our relationship started in a strange way a year back. We were very good friends and then we realized that we have other feelings towards each other... After that, we have ha...

She cheated on me and I forgave her. Now we fight because she thinks I'LL cheat...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 7076 days ago

7 July 2005 (M) - Hi, I've been going out with this girl for close to 8 months, I love her dearly with all my heart. We were really close friends for a very very long time before this. About 3 months into our relationship, which is 5 months back, she cheated on m...

I was sex-texting a guy on the side and I got caught, but I've learned my lesson...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7076 days ago

7 July 2005 (F) - Hi. i am in a bit of a predicament. i have been with my fiance for almost 18months now and for the past few months, i have been sending "text sex" sms messages with someone else. We never actually physically touched, or saw each other during the...

Time to break up with my married guy. Can we stay friends?

This question has 42 answers - newest was posted 4292 days ago

5 July 2005 (F) - I am in love with a married man. I have been seeing him for 3 years. It seem like I make all the effort. How can I tell him I can't do this anymore and still be friends?...

No longer attracted to my wife. Not sure about moving in with the other woman. Help!

This question has 24 answers - newest was posted 6057 days ago

5 July 2005 (M) - Very Confused. I have been married for 5 1/2 years and have also been seeing another woman whom I fell in love with. I have sex with her, but not with my wife. My wife is a wonderful caring person. She gained weight and I no longer find her ...

My husband came back after moving out, but he hasn't given up his girl-on-the-side!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 7077 days ago

5 July 2005 (F) - My husband told me three months ago that he no longer loved me, although he still cared for me. He also told me he had started a relationship with a work colleague whom he left to live with a fortnight later. After two days he realised that he ...

My 28-year-old-husband left me for a 64-year-old woman...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 7036 days ago

5 July 2005 (F) - I feel disgusted after finding out that my husband has left me for a 64-year-old woman. Apparently someone has told me that everytime he says he's working late, he actually is sneaking off for sex sessions with this woman. I am 25 and my ...

Was I just being self-destructive to meet my old flame before I get married?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6975 days ago

4 July 2005 (F) - I'm getting married in less than 2 months to a wonderful man. We've been together for almost 3 years, been engaged for 2. Up until 2 weeks ago I was blissfully happy, then my self destructive behaviour got the best of me. I dated a man for 2 we...