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anonymous
writes: My wife had an affair for six months. It is now over but she has kept the love texts on her mobile and still works at the same place. She still goes out often. Should I trust her?
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reader, brokenheart +, writes (20 July 2005):
Hi, look at it this way, the relationship is over, she probably still has the messages saved because it probably makes her stronger, in her own time she will delete them let her make that decision, you love her, try to trust her, every time you feel insecure think of all the reasons you got marrried to her.. and if it really bothers you that much do something good for her, like cook her dinner and giver her a back rub, when she's relaxed tell her it would make you much happier and you would feel more comfortable if they were no memories of her affair
good luck
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