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Archived questions from: April, 2020 (see latest in Big Questions category)

Big Questions: Help and advice

Since getting a job my boyfriend's behaviour has changed.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1567 days ago

30 April 2020 (F) - I've been dating this guy for a year now. He's good and wonderful but one thing I don't like about him is when it comes to money. For example, during valentine's Day he couldn't even get a chocolate or even a cup of water. It wasn't that he w...

Is it time for me to finally move on?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 1690 days ago

30 April 2020 (F) - A few years ago I fell for a friend. We spent a lot of time together and all of his words and actions signalled he had romantic interest. I did not know where I stood with him so I asked him and he started panicking and said “he might have been ...

I recognise the man on the dating site, and he is MARRIED!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 1685 days ago

29 April 2020 (F) - Dear Cupid. I'm on a dating site and have had a man message me saying "Hey how are you going :)" and "Your super cute, love to know more about yourself!? Feel free to ask me anything" Anyway, I Looked this guy up on facebook because I recogni...

Married co worker is objectifying me and I just want to be friends.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 1703 days ago

28 April 2020 (F) - Why does EVERY man I try to befriend end up objectifying me? They'll be totally respectful to our other mutual female friends but I get treated different. Like this guy I THOUGHT was nice at work: the worst thing he did was be "silly"and he did that ...

I'm not sure if the guy I met was just being friendly or if there was more.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1698 days ago

27 April 2020 (F) - A week before the lockdown happened I went for a walk with a walking group. There was a guy there who I have known for a few years. He seemed a bit shy when we said hello on arrival. During the walk he asked if I was seeing anyone. I'm not sure why ...

I'm struggling with waiting to see what happens with this guy after lockdown ends.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1704 days ago

27 April 2020 (F) - Before Corona virus hit I had been on a few dates with a front line doctor. We’ve known each other very loosely for a few years. I asked him if he wanted to go for a drink back in February then we had a great three dates before this hit, includ...

I moved out because I didnt feel safe, landlords are asking me to come back.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 1703 days ago

27 April 2020 (F) - Hi people. I moved out of a property 2 months ago due to the owner's adult kid harassing me. He made false accusations against me and was going through something at the time. I never made a big deal of the situation but I avoided talking to him. I ...

Is there a such thing as an obsessed partner?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 1704 days ago

26 April 2020 (F) - Me and my fiancé have been together for almost 4 years lately I feel myself being more and more unhappy because I feel that I can’t balance time between him and my kids and myself. My fiancé seems to be very needy for my attention and when I can ...

The disparity between our financial situations is causing problems in the relationship

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1706 days ago

25 April 2020 (F) - Hello everybody, Thank you for taking the time to read this. I am after some advice on some financial/relationship issues. My boyfriend and I own a house together. We each put in as big deposit as we could afford at the time. His was much bigge...

Happily married yet lusting over a doctor! Help me please!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 1697 days ago

24 April 2020 (F) - I have been married for 4 and a half years and have a 3 year old daughter. There are no problems in my marriage and I thought till a few days ago that I was very happy and content with life. My husband adores me and we have a healthy sex life. I...

My husband had a video chat with another woman on the day I was having surgery!!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1709 days ago

24 April 2020 (F) - I just had surgery today! It was tough on me! I am sensitive to anesthesia. And was puking and dizzy. I had a hard time. My husband dropped me off at the hospital because of Covid. He came to pick me up later after I recovered from anesthesia....

Should I be worried that my gentle wife is reading books about murder and violence?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1709 days ago

21 April 2020 (M) - I just found out that my wife of 5 years, a caring gentle woman in her 70"s, has been reading John Stanford books about violence, sex and murder. Should I be worried?...

Does everyone "settle" or do they really believe they've found "the one"?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1713 days ago

18 April 2020 (F) - Hi there, this might sound like quite a broad question but I'm interested to know people's thoughts. My boyfriend and I have been together for nearly 4 years and we're planning on moving in together this year. We've lived together on and off over ...

What should I do about my wife's declining sex drive?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 1710 days ago

18 April 2020 (M) - I am a 58 year old married man with a question...My wife and I have always had a very good sex life in the past, but over the last couple years that has slowly changed to the point that she shows no interest at all anymore, and I'm tired of begging, ...

I met up with an old crush, had sex twice now he is being short with me.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 1693 days ago

18 April 2020 (F) - A few years ago I was speaking to this boy I met on Twitter and we got on really well, flirted and things. we didn’t live near eachother at the time and I got a boyfriend and obviously things didn’t continue. Recently though, me and my boyfriend ...

Doubts with texting style with my LDR

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1711 days ago

18 April 2020 (F) - I met a man online about 3 months ago. We communicate about every day through whatsapp, skype, facebook messenger, viber, facetime calls, Instagram etc. Sometimes I am realizing when we are texting That it feels if I am talking to a different ...

Does it matter if a boyfriend is saying he is only 45 percent attracted to me

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 1714 days ago

17 April 2020 (F) - A short question , just want opinions on being enough physically for a boyfriend . My boyfriend has given me a percent, and a value to what number he finds me attracted at 45 percent , should I be anyoed by this I never asked to be given a perce...

Where do I start to earn my own living?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1715 days ago

16 April 2020 (F) - My husband and his family are treating me very badly before. We are living separately for almost half year. Im now living with my family and my 18 months son. I have asked questions many times before and now im sure that i want to be dependent and ...

Why it is that some men nice and loving to the woman that they are dating, yet rude/inconsiderate to other women?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 1718 days ago

13 April 2020 (F) - Hi everyone, I'm hoping someone can offer up some answers to my question. I was wondering why it is that some men nice and loving to the woman that they are dating, yet rude/inconsiderate to other women? I first noticed this in college. There w...

My partner stresses at me when I'm online gaming.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 1717 days ago

11 April 2020 (M) - Hey guys, i play on the xbox most nights with a lad ive known for atleast 7 years, i havnt really spoke to him or played on the console with him for the last 2 years as he played differant games but now hes joined up with me again, but hes met other ...

I feel lonely and unworthy.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1721 days ago

11 April 2020 (F) - Hello all, I've been dealing with feeling really depressed over the fact that I'm living a lonely life. The only reason why I think that I'm important and at least "different" Is that my family is wealthy and I can buy things people can't afford, I ...

A guy I met on a dating site says he is going to talk to other girls..

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1721 days ago

10 April 2020 (F) - I met a guy I a dating site. We chatted and exchanged numbers. He was calling and texting me everyday. He came to see me twice. We had sex. He kept calling and text for a few days. Then it just stopped. I looked at his Facebook. He was flirting with ...

I've been seeing a guy since 2018 but we don't seem to be progressing forward.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1719 days ago

10 April 2020 (F) - I have been casually seeing this guy since 2018. I am 37 and he's 43. At first it was just sex, and since he's a truck driver and a loner, he's away weeks, months at a time. Fast forward to last summer, we started "dating" and he even attended ...

I'm thinking of getting a vasectomy without telling my wife.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1717 days ago

9 April 2020 (M) - I'm thinking of getting a vasectomy behind my wifes back. We were only together four months when she got pregnant with our eldest son. She said she was on the pill, thats fine because these things happen and I love her and was pretty delighte...

I might be the father of my cousin's baby.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1723 days ago

9 April 2020 (M) - My second cousin and I were growing up, we always been close. We always did stuff together because we had a lot of things in common. When we were 16 years old, we did have sex with each other. That was the only time until we were 21 years old. ...

I've met a 50 year old who lives in his mother's garage.

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 1719 days ago

9 April 2020 (F) - I recently met a guy who is nearing 50. He has a full time job and has worked in the same place for 20 years. The problem? He lives in his mother's garage. He's not an addict, has a job, has a car, his kids are grown and gone. He's been divorc...

I pretend the lack of intimacy with my husband doesn't bother me, but it does!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1724 days ago

8 April 2020 (F) - Hi everyone, I am new to this so please bare with me... first thank you for readin and sorry if it's really long. My husband and I have been married for nearly 3 years... initially it was really difficult as we used to live with his parents however ...

Can I help the man I love, or will he never change?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 1725 days ago

7 April 2020 (F) - Dear Cupid, I 26 am seeing a man who is 29 whom I have known for 10 years. he does nice things for me, he does his own washing, cleans up after himself (present) but here's the thing... 10 years ago when we were younger I was still in school, I...

I dated a doctor before Corona, now not sure how to behave with him.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1720 days ago

6 April 2020 (F) - A couple of years ago I dated a guy for a couple of months. He was nice but I wasn’t over my long term ex. It ended because he said he couldn’t get my wall down (he was right). In February we bumped in to each other in the pub and went for a coffee ...

I'm in lockdown with an abusive husband.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 1724 days ago

6 April 2020 (F) - Hi aunts and uncles, I hope you could give some advice I can use to do something about the situation I am currently in. I understand that these are hard times for everyone. My husband of 20 years and I are locked in in the best possible c...

Could you date a social media addict?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1732 days ago

1 April 2020 (F) - Could you date someone who spends a lot of time on social media or is a socialite? I met a guy who is nice but he seems to have a social media addiction. He comments and likes lots of posts on his friends profiles and public pages. He seems to like ...