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Archived questions from: May, 2018 (see latest in Big Questions category)

Big Questions: Help and advice

Been dating for 4 years but an old flame has returned, and so have the feelings.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2402 days ago

31 May 2018 (F) - Hi everyone, I've got a serious relationship problem I really need some help with! I have been with my boyfriend for four years. He's caring, kind, affectionate and I really do love him. However, our relationship lacks passion and we have little s...

How to deal with breakups when you suffer from anxiety

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2402 days ago

31 May 2018 (F) - I have been dating my boyfriend for several years. We love each other very much but probably aren't the best match for each other. I would like to consider breaking up, but I have anxiety and it makes everything difficult 10x harder. I'm scared of ...

Would I be a complete cow if I don't help my ex boyfriend with his drug problems?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2402 days ago

30 May 2018 (F) - My close friend has recently let me know that my ex boyfriend is going wild with drugs and alcohol and that he is worried about him. When I was with this boyfriend, I managed to convince him to only do drugs every so often and just weed, nothing ...

How do I regain my self confidence?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2402 days ago

30 May 2018 (F) - After being in a long marriage and meeting a new man how do I regain confidence in myself as a sexual woman . My ex showed little attraction to me despite all efforts I made to be attractive and my new man is great but has a strong like for porn ...

My boyfriend wont spend quality time with me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2402 days ago

30 May 2018 (F) - Dear Cupid, I have been in a relationship with this guy for a little over 2 years now. We both just recently graduated high school. We have always been the couple everyone said will last forever and the couple everyone looked at as perfect. Lately ...

My superiors kept me in the dark about an employee's recent transfer

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2405 days ago

28 May 2018 (M) - Hello Aunts and Uncles, This is not a romance question, it‘s work-related. I’m a department supervisor in a mid-sized company. Long story short, I’ve just learned that one of the employees I manage, and who was hired only 3 months ago, applied fo...

I want this LDR but not sure it's working for us

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2405 days ago

28 May 2018 (M) - Hi all I need some advice. I have been in a long distance relationship with my girlfriend for 2 years come next autumn. At first she lived in the same country as me but after that had to go back home. We've been able to spend a few months each ...

Should I remain single or take a chance on this guy?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2406 days ago

28 May 2018 (F) - Hi. I'm a single mum, 36 years old, I've been single for about 6.5 years. I've dated in that time but last date was over 2/3 years ago. I'm considering staying single forever, I'm not good at relationships and I don't like who I become. But I st...

Why am I never a man’s first choice?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2403 days ago

27 May 2018 (F) - Hi good people, I’m feeling a bit down today and was hoping you might be able to offer me some advice or even just words of comfort. I’m 32 (33 in July) and I’ve been single for 3 years now. My previous long-term relationship was rocky and I’m de...

Should I lie and say the baby is his?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 2401 days ago

27 May 2018 (F) - Ive made a mess but now ive got to grow up and sort it out. Me and my 'ex'boyfriend had a break , we didnt say what each other can or cant do and if we were going to get back together. I had a feeling he was seeing someone else but just left him to ...

It drives me nuts! I can't live like she does.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2408 days ago

25 May 2018 (M) - Does anyone else avoid thier partner? When I have time off I don’t mind, but my job has got really intense recently, I been working 10-11 hour days, and can’t sleep at night because of stress that I might lose my job. I don’t live with my partner, ...

My boyfriend has naked pictures on his phone, am I not pretty enough anymore?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2404 days ago

25 May 2018 (F) - I’ve been with my boyfriend about 5 yrs , and I recently he got cought having naked pictures on his phone , he was showing me a picture that he took and by accident ly I saw those , he said that his friend send those to him , so I said would u like ...

I've had it up to here with asshole men and I just want to be a lesbian

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2407 days ago

25 May 2018 (F) - Hi DC need a little help here. I really hate men so much. They mistreat me and use me cheat on me and make me feel im not enough for them. I don't think i want to date men again i dont feel any emotion when I am with them. I don't feel much again. ...

Is this just a great friendship or does he have a crush?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2406 days ago

24 May 2018 (F) - Ok, so this is a bit complicated. We are two cross cultural couples- my husband and I are Asian while the other couple is European. We used to live in the same country but we returned to our own after a couple of years. During our time there, ...

Should I accept the Bible as the final authority on sex before marriage?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2394 days ago

24 May 2018 (F) - I am in the path towards spirituality and I have been reading the Bible and would like to be baptized one day I am not a born again Christian but I realize in the difficult times life has failed me and I need salvation - I need prayer and I nee...

Which is more important Love or Sex??

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 2405 days ago

23 May 2018 (F) - I have been married for 40 years this year. It was only 10 years ago that I discovered my husbands porn stash, he promised me he would never do it again, I believed him, only the cycle continues, he tries to hide it , I find it, he tells me he does ...

Has anyone completely moved and drastically cut everyone off because I want to do just that

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2409 days ago

23 May 2018 (F) - Has anyone felt this way in their thirties? I love in a major city in the east coast (US) and I want to so desperately leave my job my family my everything behind - I almost want to disappear and go missing - a lot of things in my life have turned ...

Can a devout Catholic male can be friends with a transgender girl?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2410 days ago

22 May 2018 (M) - I am wondering if it is possible that a devout Catholic male can be friends with a transgender girl (she was born a boy but transition to a girl)? I did not know she was transgender until after we got to know each other. I enjoy her company but...

How can I adapt better to what my career will be? How can I make this better for myself?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2413 days ago

21 May 2018 (F) - Not a relationship question more of a general life question and how to cope with the working routine. I’m 29 years old, graduated college with a BS in the Health Sciences and have been working in my field for about 8 months now. I love my job and ...

Why am I having dreams about his ex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2412 days ago

20 May 2018 (F) - I had a dream of a bull chasing me to the edge of a river and when it was about to hit me I close my eyes and on opening I am at my boyfriends house and her ex is seated on the chair. So I ignore and go straight to the bedroom to drop my bag then I ...

Does he have a disorder or is he just a liar?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2414 days ago

18 May 2018 (F) - Hello i have a question, i have been dating this guy for 3 months but am confused about his character.The first time met him, he told he was born Jan 30th, the next time i asked he said 20th feb 1979 i asked to see his Id it was 1th Jan 1978. Last ...

Should I ask for the money again or just let it go and block her?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 2413 days ago

18 May 2018 (F) - Hi everyone. I know this lady for few years and I can’t call her my friend but we hangout for a coffee sometimes. I find her cheap, not that she is not spending but just her attitude towards money. 2 months ago she was asking to attend an event ...

Did my boyfriend snub my son by not saying goodbye to him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2417 days ago

17 May 2018 (F) - Something is bugging me. I drove my boyfriend to work today. His car is in the shop and he doesn't live with me. My 13 year-old son was in the car too. After I dropped off my boyfriend, I was going to drop my son off at school. Well, my boyfr...

Any advice on dealing with my strange boss?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2417 days ago

16 May 2018 (F) - I have recently started a new job that I really enjoy and my new boss is very strange. One minute he is full on saying the coffees on him as I done a great job ...then leaves before the pre arranged meeting time so we have no coffee and no ...

How should we take this strange comments from a male boss?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2419 days ago

14 May 2018 (F) - Apologies that this a job-related rather than relationship-related question. Our male boss at work has made a few comments lately to female employees that I find a bit questionable, but I would like a second opinion on what these remarks say abou...

How can I deal with my upbringing ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2420 days ago

14 May 2018 (F) - Hello aunts How can I forget my childhood? I come from a communist country (Europe) was basically raised here my whole life so I am Americanized but my parents had an arranged marriage - I still live with my folks as I am saving to buy a ho...

I only hear from him when he is on leave ... I don't want to be his booty call.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2421 days ago

13 May 2018 (F) - to start me and my ex were together for years he joined the army we were together for 2 year of the 3 year enlistment he has, and once he went on deployment, 1 month before he got back he ended it and said it was because he didn't want me waiting ...

My boyfriend said if I don't give him sex he will get it somewhere else!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2421 days ago

13 May 2018 (F) - Am in a relationship from 3year and i never allowed my boyfriend to touch me even and he never had any issue qith it.. He just said me when i'll permittee him to touch myself then only he'll touch otherwise no.... But now after 2years we got a lot ...

Should I tell my parents I am sexually active?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2417 days ago

13 May 2018 (F) - Okay, I’m 17 and I just lost my virginity about a week ago. My parents don’t know and I’ve had a few of my closest friends tell me that I need to tell my parents. The thing is, I’m terrified that they won’t let me talk to my boyfriend or be with him ...

My boyfriend and I have very different views

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2421 days ago

13 May 2018 (F) - I have very different views of life to my partner. We get along great, I am very comfortable with him, he goes out of his way for me, we like each other's company, he makes me feel attractive and is into me. However, sometimes he says things t...

How to tell my best friend I am transgender

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2422 days ago

12 May 2018 (M) - dear cupid i have to tell my best friend that i am transgender but he is not good with change and i don't know how i should tell him as not to like freak him out about this big change ...

How can I change my life after a break up?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2422 days ago

12 May 2018 (F) - I have broken up with my partner of 6 years. It turns out we both want different things in the end. I've broken up with her so many times that the grieving and then getting back together is just exhausting. It feels like there's no end. I'm pretty ...

My ex-girlfriend's confession has re-opened old wounds

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2421 days ago

12 May 2018 (F) - My girlfriend of close to 3 years split up with me a couple of months ago. It felt like a total blindside because I never saw it coming. I haven't taken it well. I've dealt with significant anxiety and depression since. I had asked extensivel...

Does one mistake break you forever? Even if you've learned from your mistake and would never ever repeat it?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2421 days ago

12 May 2018 (F) - Does one mistake make you broken forever? Even if you've learned from your mistake and would never ever repeat it? My first bf and I were not a good match. Or we were for a codependant relationship. Bit I didn't know that then. Everything was a...

Is he playing games? How can I heal and also hurt him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2421 days ago

12 May 2018 (F) - Guys I seriously need help.please read whole. I need help. I know this guy since the past 1.5 years, we started off as friends but then three four months into the frndship he told me he liked me. I had another friend (female) who had a crush ...

I have a phobia of wasps and it's consuming me!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2420 days ago

11 May 2018 (F) - This isn't a relationship question, but I have a huge dilemma and I need some advice. I have a phobia of wasps, such a severe phobia that it's not rational. If I truly had a medical condition, then it would be rational, but I'm healthy and don'...

How I can become a better partner in the future and avoid temptation to cheat?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2424 days ago

10 May 2018 (F) - Hi everyone, I just broke up with my boyfriend because I cheated on him and had a one night stand with a guy friend. Long story short, my boyfriend was a rebound and he knew it. Before my boyfriend, my ex cheated on me and it really broke my ...

How do I deal with my arrogant, moody colleague?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2422 days ago

10 May 2018 (F) - How do you deal with a moody colleague? I have been with a law firm and my colleague (on my team) has an attitude. He is the possible office hunk - another girl loves to give him attention and so does another colleague - he is attractive I admit I ...

He’s been giving me gifts and I don’t know how to deal with this!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2423 days ago

9 May 2018 (F) - I have a guy who I started chatting on Instagram ( just innocent ) anyway we chatted back and forth for weeks and he asked to meet for a coffee somewhere so I did, he is a nice guy but not my type, we get on as friends, anyway after out coffee he ...

My boyfriend and his cousin sister's behaviour made me sick to my stomach. Am I overreacting?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2424 days ago

9 May 2018 (F) - Please tell me if I'm being overly conservative. My boyfriend and I have been dating for four years, and this is the first time his aunt and two cousins, one 12yrs old, the other 14yrs old came to visit. Since this is my first time meeting the...

Why do men never seen interested in me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2425 days ago

8 May 2018 (F) - I am 22 and I am about to graduate college this fall. I have never dated anyone or had a boyfriend. I am never asked out, approached, and I am almost never hit on by men. I have tried joining some organizations on campus to get to know a few gu...

Afraid to commit

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8 May 2018 (M) - Hello all, Im not quite sure why but I had a little urge to write something about a great fear of commitment that I used to experience, in case maybe it can help someone who is going through similar or has their own story to share. This is a...

Insensitive, rude, pushy student is getting me in trouble for not wanting to be his friend

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2424 days ago

8 May 2018 (F) - I have a problem where something that happened in my personal life has spilled over into work-study (at college) and it's gotten me into trouble. I'm especially in trouble because I refuse to apologize and kiss the butt of the person I really don't ...

I love her and really don't feel like breaking up. How can I handle this situation?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2428 days ago

5 May 2018 (M) - I'm in a relationship with a girl for more than a year now. At first it was all going really well but then in last few months we have not stopped fighting. This is frustrating and it's taking A toll on this relationship. She has this habit of over ...

How can I attract positive people in my life?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2428 days ago

5 May 2018 (F) - What is wrong with me that I am attracting these types of people ? My girls friends (envious- backstabbing - opportunist - gossip rider females-) so I learned my lesson and then I stopped hanging out with them. I noticed though even when I don’t tr...

Am I being irrational for wanting him to show me a picture of his bedroom?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2429 days ago

3 May 2018 (F) - So I have been going out with boyfriend for 9 months, and have been introduced to his parents. His parents are really weird about having people over. They don't like to. So I'v never been inside my boyfriend home. Yesterday we were going to the ...

I don't want to end it so I don't say anything.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2432 days ago

2 May 2018 (F) - I've been seeing this boy for over a month, we're not official but we have agreed to not see anyone else. I think I might be the first girl he has ever been with which is fine but I am the one putting in all the effort. I am always the one to ...

Is it okay to delete from your life a parent (father, in my case) that has never cared for you?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2428 days ago

2 May 2018 (M) - Long story short - my parents separated (my mother and I got kicked out of the house) and later on divorced when I was 1. My father never paid a dime of child support. Times were different and it was very hard for my mother to legally force him to ...

My marriage in in crisis because I've decided my wife is too skinny and her boobs aren't big enough.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2432 days ago

1 May 2018 (M) - Hi everyone, Thank you so much for reading this. I am genuinely looking for advice regarding my marriage which is in a state of crisis right now. I will keep it as short as possible. TL;DR: I met my wife in an online relationship. We got marr...