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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Um... I need help quickly. I got my first boyfriend about a week ago. He's really sweet, caring, etc. (not going into detail, just know he is a nice guy.) And I told my mom, who was excited, and knew i liked the guy before he asked me out. Now my problem is my father. i guess he fits into any fathers description as over protective. I'm not scared that we will physically hurt me or anything, but he found out about my boyfriend. He is FURIOUS. i doubt he will let me date the guy. According to him im not "old enough" to date. I am. PLEASE help me figure out what to do! Reply to this Question
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reader, stickman +, writes (13 December 2010):
Ok, this is coming from a Dad and father of a teenager. You have to understand that you girls are our little angels, and its really hard to let go of that. Having a boyfriend means that you're not looking to us as much for support and comfort, and that really kills us. Sit him down and tell him (not angrily) that you understand that he worries about you and your welfare, but you feel you're responsible enough to handle this. Also, be sure you tell him that if you ever need anything, you will come to him first. That in itself will carry alot of weight. Good luck, girl, and be smart.
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reader, kissmebabe  +, writes (12 December 2010):
ive had this problem before..i know how u must be feeling!
have a quiet chat with your dad and tell him you understand hes trying to look out for you but you would really appreciate it if he could be happy for you, as this guy is making you happy.
also the main thing is to assure him (even if you arent sticking to it) that your not having a sexual relationship lol thats all dads seem to worry about...let me guess hes said 'guys only want one thing at that age'? lol
good luck :)
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reader, Tizzie0612 +, writes (12 December 2010):
 well basically half the battle is one if your mom is ok with it. use that to the advantage and have your moms talk to your pops.i mean your at the dating age anyway your dad is just over protective ..he ll be alright lol.your already dating him so theres nothing your father can do except talk to the boy and let that be that
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 December 2010): sit down and talk to him personaly and explain that you are old enough and that he needs to trust you if you are truly his daughter.
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