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What to do in a situation like this?

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Question - (3 November 2009) 1 Answers - (Newest, 4 November 2009)
A male United States age 41-50, *iscord writes:

You are 27

After 6 months you cannot forget about her. You are learning Korean and plan on visiting Korea because you have been inspired by your emotions to do so.

You try to convince yourself that this is not obsession

You know you will never have her.

It hurts

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A female reader, Lola1 Canada +, writes (4 November 2009):

Lola1 agony auntIf I were 27 and in those shoes, I would STOP learning Korean and immersing myself in whatever would remind me of her.

I would VERY consciously and deliberately work to focus my efforts and thoughts on things that build me up as a whole person by myself and realize that it very well COULD be an obsession; that if it isn't, it soon will be.

Good luck.

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