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anonymous
writes: how do i stop loving my ex and the father of my 2 children? its been 9months sice we finished and im still head over hells in love with him, i asked him move out because he stopped all affection towards me we were like 2 flat mates instead of a cuple we were together 5 years and have 2 beautiful children who he see's as often as he wants and pays me money to keep them most wks...... i cant seem to get over him plese help.....
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 November 2009): You know people reconcile...
What was wrong with the marriage?
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reader, duce00 +, writes (4 November 2009):
You sure can get over him! You will need to start living your own life. Sure you are a single parent now but that does not make you a prisoner in your life. I know from experience.
Consider this the beginning of a new life for you. Sure there will be some lonely nights but you had that even when he lived there right?
Start living how YOU want to live. Start doing what YOU want to do. Start making friends and getting active in life.
I would strongly suggest waiting on any one new in your life until you have become independently happy. I also learned that one from experience too.
CARPE DEIM!!
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