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Archived questions from: May, 2012 (see latest in Age differences category)

Age differences: Help and advice

He already has a girlfriend of a year and has been married twice

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4586 days ago

31 May 2012 (F) - A man recently added me on Facebook through a good mutual friend. First we just made friendly conversation and such, then he asked if I wanted to meet up for coffee. I agreed. We got along really well. He already has a girlfriend of a year and has ...

Is my boyfriend controlling or just insecure?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4588 days ago

29 May 2012 (F) - Sometimes I feel like my boyfriend acts like my father... if we spend time apart, he will often ask a lot of questions. I think he worries about me more than he should, because he is insecure and because I am so much younger than him. If I go ...

My boyfriend doesn't trust me, how can I get him to feel more secure in the relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4589 days ago

29 May 2012 (F) - Hi Dearcupid, My boyfriend and I have been together for about six months now, but there is an underlying problem in our relationship that I don't know how to approach. My boyfriend is kind, wonderful, so giving and supportive, but he has a hard tim...

What can I do to bring our once vibrant funfilled, loving, affectionate relationship back to life?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4589 days ago

29 May 2012 (F) - I am twenty seven and have been with a man 22yrs my senior for three years, i feel like i'm no longer what he desires or is interested in.. We dont conversate and our sex life has nearly stopped. What can i do to bring our once vibrant funfilled, ...

Do I start a long distance relationship with a woman I have only spent a few days with?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4591 days ago

27 May 2012 (F) - Well. This has been an interesting month. Thanks in advance for the advice; here is the situation -- I'm a junior (in high school) studying abroad for the year in Spain, living with a host family. Been here for eight months so far. I'm a lesbi...

How do I make my family see that age, nationality and religion don't matter to us!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4591 days ago

26 May 2012 (F) - hi.. i have a relationship with age gap difference and different nationality and religion. but we respect each other and we dont see this differences between us. im asking for a blessing from my family but their are very concerned to me and what ...

How can I stop missing this fool because I know I deserve better!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4592 days ago

26 May 2012 (F) - I've been seeing a younger guy since the beginning of the year, both of us have been hurt in relationships and so we agreed to keep it "simple" between us. I've been on call for him emotionally and I thought that we had quite a strong friendship ...

Is my colleague playing hard to get?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4594 days ago

24 May 2012 (M) - Why is she doing this to me? and is she playing hard to get or not? I am a guy aged 35 (currently married but on separation) who is interested in female working colleague. She is a 43 year old widow who has one a 17 year old son. We have been wor...

Does he still care about me? Or should I just move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4594 days ago

23 May 2012 (F) - Hi, So long story here, I met a man almost a year ago, well a bartender. Looking for an excuse to talk to him I went outside to borrow his lighter and we got chatting we used to sit and talk for hours while he was working and he would walk me ho...

He's with someone else but says he still needs me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4595 days ago

23 May 2012 (F) - soo im really confused! me and this guy have been talking for a long time! we had a connection before like 3 years ago and i thought he was my first love, we started talking agian like 2 years ago because i was tellin my friends about how much i ...

24 year old dating a 34 year old with a kid?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4583 days ago

23 May 2012 (F) - Hello, Ill try to be brief, list the facts and ask the question *I got out of my first and only relationship (so far) about a year ago, I had the toughest time moving on and even became depressed until I met him, I think I'm 80% healed, I t...

Will flowers win back my teenage, but legal ex-girlfriend?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4572 days ago

21 May 2012 (M) - Hello everyone. Tricky and possibly a bit of a controversial situation here. Keeping it as short as possible. I love my ex girlfriend, Im 24, shes 15 (age of consent in Sweden = 15 so relax). Anyways she broke up with me almost 2 months ago, as she ...

I'm a little worried about my new girlfriend!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4596 days ago

20 May 2012 (M) - Hi I'm basically a little worried about my new gf we've been dating for about 2 weeks and I'm not sure if she is still interested in me or not she's 8 years my senior but we both like anoqther and we hit it off when we met but now it feels like ...

I've fallen for him, but I don't want to get him into trouble ...

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4586 days ago

20 May 2012 (F) - I'm 17 and I have recently fallen for a man who is really lovely, a complete gentleman and who wouldn't force me into anything I wouldn't want to do. Great right? Yeah...but he's 27. 10 years older than me. But I feel completely comfortable and at ...

How can I get a cougar woman? This is a personal choice of mine, and I wish to get me a relationship with one.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4599 days ago

18 May 2012 (M) - Hi, everyone. I have a specific goal that I wish to acheive. I'm in my early 20's, I still am a virgin, I STILL don't know what a kiss feels like, etc. So, I figure, to kill 2 birds with 1 stone, I should get together with a cougar. However,...

Should I still date him even though he is going to have a kid and a lot of drama?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4602 days ago

16 May 2012 (F) - Alright so here is my story. About a month ago I met a guy who wasn't my type, and is 9 years older than me. He is 28 and i'm 19 almost 20. Despite me not thinking anything would happen between us we had good conversation. A coffee date turned into ...

My mom is dating a 33 year old guy, who's closer in age to me than her! Its so embarrassing!!

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4600 days ago

16 May 2012 (F) - My mom who is 49 years old is now dating a guy who is 33 years old and I don't know how to feel about the whole situation. I mean he's closer in age to me than her, she's never done anything like this before so I don't know whats going on. She has ...

I'm twenty and I want to try a short-term relationship with a 56yr old man. Any advice?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4603 days ago

14 May 2012 (F) - Got a crush on a 56yr old man. I know theres no long term potential and I know its not smart to get involved. But I feel weak. i like him a lot and I know he likes me too. would it be ok to have a short-tetm relationship with him? I dont like the ...

I have a crush on a local policeman

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 4601 days ago

13 May 2012 (F) - Hi. Thanks for Helping me. Anyways, I have a dilemma. There is a school police officer at school and he seems to like me. I have noticed him glancing at me. When we are outside and I'm with my friends, he goes and stands around the area where we...

Did I annoy him by not letting things go further?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4605 days ago

13 May 2012 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been dating for 2 months and whenever we make out we grind and lately hes been touchin my chest and ive touched him but through his pants or underware. Yesturday he tried to slide my hand down and i didnt know if he had his ...

15 year old girl in love, help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4606 days ago

12 May 2012 (F) - So I'm 15 years old and am attracted to a police officer guy a my school. Problem is... he seems to like me back as well. I know it is wrong to like someone so old, he seems to be like 30 something years old or in his late 20's. So we always look at ...

My boyfriend cant orgasm through penetrative sex! Does he not fancy me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4607 days ago

11 May 2012 (F) - my boyfriend of 7 months can't cum through penetrative sex. he's 45 but has cum with other girls but rarely and not for many years. he takes a long time to cum when he's playing with himself. does he not fancy me, it's really upsetting ...

Why is he being friends with me, out of guilt or is there still love and a longing to be with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4608 days ago

10 May 2012 (F) - i met a guy from lebanon on the internet 3 yrs ago. we met on an age gap dating site..hes 17 years younger than me on the internet 2 yrs ago. im 43 hes 26. hes catholic and unconventional and we had a passionate two year relationship talking every ...

Met an amazing girl but she thinks I'm younger!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4608 days ago

10 May 2012 (M) - Ok, i have been dating a lovely girl for a few weeks. We met through a friend and hit it off right away. She's 21 and i am 29. We have been on loads of dates and the other night, we were talking about birthday plans and she said to me " oh, your 24, ...

Is my boyfriend disrespectful and controlling?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4608 days ago

9 May 2012 (F) - Do you think my boyfriend is disrespectful and controlling ?. He is much older than me. Yesterday, when i was at his house, he was angry and he said " you act like a teenage autistic girl ". I have never been diagnosed with autism, so i don't know ...

After we had sex is when he told me he wasn't looking for anything serious.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4610 days ago

8 May 2012 (F) - I started to date this guy, he's 26 and I'm 18. I was really excited because my friends is going out with his brother and it also happened that we had a lot in common. So tonight we were on a date and things got kind of heated and we ended up ...

Have you ever wished your girl would ask you certain questions?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4609 days ago

7 May 2012 (F) - Hi guys, I am currently dating a middle-aged man (he is 55 and I'm 34) and I would like to know how to make our conversations interesting, especially to him. For men who are in the same age bracket as him, what topics would you be interested to ...

What can I say over Facebook to start a conversation with her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4612 days ago

6 May 2012 (M) - hi, so basicly ther is this girl i find realy attractive who i have met once through a lass i know, basicly, what can i say to her over facebook to start a conversation? possibly get her number? that kind of thing. She is younger than me by coupl...

I've never like a guy so much and I'm confused

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4611 days ago

6 May 2012 (F) - So i met this guy a little while ago. Our age gap is quite large but I think thats why its working out so well so far. I'm 21 and he's 33. Normally I have trouble with relationships and I get annoyed with the guy really quick (1 or 2 weeks) and it ...

Why do I feel so bad for breaking up with him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4613 days ago

5 May 2012 (F) - Okay so I'm 14, a freshman in high school and I met this guy who told me he was a senior and 17. He asked me out the same day we met and I agreed. The next day, when I saw him at school he was acting really weird. He tried to make out with me, tried ...

His past one night stands are really bothering me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4613 days ago

5 May 2012 (F) - I'm seeing a man who is much older than myself, and i can't stop feeling upset because he told me that he had a couple of one night stands when he was younger. He had relationships as well, but for some reason, it really bothers me that he had one ...

I've been a fool and don't know how to right my wrongs

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4549 days ago

4 May 2012 (F) - I am a widow ,but I date and have friends,so I don't really feel lonely.A yr. ago i met a man online and we began a good friendship.He was still somewhat involved with his high school sweetheart.We talked about the relationship or should i say I did ...

I have let a 19 year old chat me up, and now I'm wondering, what's the harm?

This question has 23 answers - newest was posted 4612 days ago

4 May 2012 (F) - Been a silly girl I know. But have let a 19 yr old chat me up, he's obviously only after one thing, trouble is, I am 40. We're both single. But... Anyway, I have been single 4 yrs now, and working non stop, I keep thinking so what! Bit of fun? All...

I'm in love with a 50 year old, he wants to marry me, but how do I tell my mum?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4594 days ago

3 May 2012 (F) - Am a young lady who is 20 years of age i meet a guy who is 50 years of age he have two kids ,we have being together for few month and i really love this guy ,he want us to get married , and i don't no how to brake the news to my parents what should ...

I prefer slightly older men, so should I wait for this high school boy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4615 days ago

3 May 2012 (F) - At this point of my life, I'm dealing with a problem I could've never thought I would be dealing with. I was always, but ALWAYS attracted to older men. Not significantly older, we're talking about up to 5 years older. And that worked. But as of...

30 year age difference. How do I tell my parents?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4585 days ago

3 May 2012 (F) - Am a 20 years young woman who is in love with a 50 years old man he wants us to get married as soon as possible,i don't no how to brake the news to my parents ....

What is her problem? She ended it and I've stopped replying to her texts!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4617 days ago

2 May 2012 (M) - I am 44 and 17 years older than my gf and was with her for 5 years, until this January when she ended it. She said it wasn’t working out and that she wanted to be on her own. It wasn’t working out because for that entire 5 years she wouldn’t tell ...

Do I give it a go with this older guy? Or just say no?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4617 days ago

1 May 2012 (F) - Hi, So I dated a guy about 3 years back. I knew him through his brother. We started talking a lot on Facebook and there was a connection. He's older by 15 years which didn't bother me as we got along and we had fun. We dated for about a year. Fe...