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writes:soo im really confused! me and this guy have been talking for a long time! we had a connection before like 3 years ago and i thought he was my first love, we started talking agian like 2 years ago because i was tellin my friends about how much i loved him even though we didnt talk, he had a girl friend at the time we started talking but we started meeting up and texting and talking on the phone all the time when they were together i used to tell him what he ment to me an how i felt an he used to say he felt the same, there was a 4 year age difference but i dont think it changed anything, well it didnt feel like it when we were together, we used to watch movies at his friends house because my friend was seeing his friend an no one really knew about us, well they did but he denied they we talked, after awhile of talking i fell really hard for him like i dont think ill ever feel like it for someone alse, he found a new girlfriend an they have been together for several months now but i still love him and he still does the same thing, if i tell him i need to stop talking to him because im hurt he says he cant let me go, we talk every single day! his girlfriend dont know we do though but i cant get over him and i honestly need to because its just not going to work out and im sick of it! im just turning 15 an hes just turning 19! what can i do to get over him or should i just wait for him and try to win him over or is it not worth it? help me get over him please!
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reader, Annonymous..  +, writes (24 May 2012):
 same thing happened to me..):!
but unfourtunetly he did me wrong! you should go up to him and tell his how it is! no messing around:D he will tak you more seriously! tell him whtt you want and what you expect! from his actions! GOOOOOOD LUCK!:D
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reader, Xearo  +, writes (24 May 2012):
If he wanted to be with you, he would be already.
Yes you are only 15 but you can tell the difference between reality and imagination. The two of you are close and anyone can appreciate that but you've allowed him to have this control on you and you on him. Reality is that you are not together with him and reality is that you are only 15. Do you really think he is the only good guy out there at your age? I'm sure you have a lot going on for you so why are you gonna waste all this time for a guy who is not with you!?
Do not live with regrets my dear, make decisions in a way that you will not regret them. Do not waste precious years you will never get back.
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