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writes:Okay so I'm 14, a freshman in high school and I met this guy who told me he was a senior and 17. He asked me out the same day we met and I agreed. The next day, when I saw him at school he was acting really weird. He tried to make out with me, tried to meet me after school to do some 'things' and he started following me all day. I have no idea how he figured out all of my classes cause we met yesterday but there he was waiting for a kiss and a hug which I refused. So the next day I was all ready to break up with him because there he was waiting for me at the bus stop,(I never told him I rose the bus) but then he apologized and became the sweet guy I had known earlier. So I didn't breakup with him until my mom told me I couldn't date until I was 16. So I was really disappointed until I told him and he became a total creep again. He looked like he was about to cry and then suddenly got really pissed and said "I just get really crazy when I don't have someone to love" so I got scared and discreetly made my exit. so, now I'm thinking back and I feel horrible because he seemed so excited to be dating me but at the same time he was creepy and way to clingy to have met only 3 days ago. Can anyone help me figure out why I feel like this.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 May 2012): U probally feel sorry becuz of u thinking he's creepy wen he is lol and the fact that he wants someone 2 love but he has issues sounds like it 2 me maybe he wasn't loved or something but I think u should stay away from him he's 2 faced one min sweet next weird mean he needs 2 get help and listen 2 ur mom don't date inless ur really ready! Boys are dumb anyways and there so immature!
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reader, fishdish +, writes (5 May 2012):
 your mom just did you the biggest favor. imagine if you broke up a year from now--what kind of stalking would ensue then! Don't feel bad, he has a lot of growing up to do before he can learn not to be a possessive creepy person. Please tell school officials if his stalking continues to the point of making you scared for your safety.
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reader, Yos  +, writes (5 May 2012):
 It's never pleasant breaking up with someone. But you definitely did the right thing. He sounds like he has issues and would keep trying to push you to do things too fast and too much.
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reader, no nonsense Aidan  +, writes (5 May 2012):
It does sound like he was a bit intense for the early days of a relationship. You probably feel bad because he got upset, but you can’t date some-one out of sympathy, pity or whatever you want to call it. You did the right thing being honest, remember that. Don’t go out with anyone unless it’s what you want, and your ready to do so.
I wish you all the very best.
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