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Age differences: Help and advice

I feel awful because he has slept with a lot more people than I have.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4556 days ago

30 June 2012 (F) - I'm in a relationship with a much older man. I am 28, and he is 48. We have been together for six months. He told me yesterday that he has slept with about 35 people!. Do you think that's a lot, even for someone his age?. I lost my virginity to him, ...

How can I lay the ground for a relationship with him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4557 days ago

29 June 2012 (F) - Hi guys. I need some help. Two years ago I had a 2 month, purely sexual relationship with a 30 year old man ( I was 18 at the time). He doesn't know this, but I lost my virginity to him. He is really good looking and has a really cheeky grin, he...

I'm 22, my girlfriend's 30 and I feel that she's embarassed about our age gap

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4558 days ago

28 June 2012 (M) - I've recently started dating this new girl. She's amazing, smart, funny, we get along really well with each other, we have a lot of the same interests and we just have a lot of fun in general. There's also a lot of genuine physical attraction there ...

My older friend targets younger girls. Should I talk to him about it?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4559 days ago

28 June 2012 (F) - Hello all, I know this opinion may be controversial, but here it goes. My friend just graduated from high school. He's a really cool guy and all but he always goes after girls who are 13 or 14. This is weird to me. I don't mind age differen...

Why would he go away so far, with a woman 24 years younger? And leave his devoted loving wife?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4560 days ago

26 June 2012 (F) - so i know this is out there a lot but my husband left me for a younger girl 24 years younger. they are living together oh and she has a 2 year old. Anyway just wanted to know if anyone could shed light on why he would leave a good wife that woul...

My g/f is 17 years younger than me and I worry about holding her back

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4560 days ago

26 June 2012 (M) - I'm a 41 year old man in a relationship with a 24 year old woman. I have questions about the future and holding her back and essentially cutting her life experiences short because of the age difference. She said it doesn't matter to her, but I ...

Dating an older man, I don't want to stop but what's the point if it won't progress?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4560 days ago

26 June 2012 (F) - Dear Cupid I am 21years old and I am currently dating a 33 year old man.I know that is a big age difference but age is nothing but a number right? We have been dating for almost two months and I really like him. I have never met a man like him ...

I don't know if I should make a move though or if I shouldn't trust this guy after whatever happened the last time...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4561 days ago

26 June 2012 (F) - Hey. I'm a bit confused and unsure what to do. Firstly I'm 20 and like older men in their early to mid 30's. Basically two years ago when I was 18 I was seeing a guy who was 34 at weekends and occasional evenings. We'd go out in a group of mixed ...

My boyfriend and I are being forced to break up for a while... any advice on how to help the heart break?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4564 days ago

22 June 2012 (F) - Okay so here is what's happening. My boyfriend got mad at my mom because she likes getting under our skin and doesn't want us together and posted a status on facebook about it and that set her off. Well I am 15 and he is 18 and by alabama law we ...

Older female falls for young men and gets hurt every time! Do I stop, or alter how I feel about the inevitable end?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4562 days ago

22 June 2012 (F) - i know im in trouble. i even know how i got here. i just dont know how to stop. im a girl who is an artist and i enjoy the company of artistic feeling when it comes to love; sensuality, beauty, emotional feeling and connection, spunk and spirit...

Have I done the right thing by asking this younger man to come over to my house?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4566 days ago

21 June 2012 (F) - Having met a much younger man who I have no doubt is a JAck The Lad and am well aware BUT he looked at me several times in a fancying way. He e mailed me to say he has a short summer contract in the same area as where I live (a few miles away). ...

Very frustrated with the men I am meeting, and to make it worse the one guy that I like has a girlfriend and is a lot younger than me!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4566 days ago

21 June 2012 (F) - Oh, where to start? I am 54 years old, work 2 days in a beauty shop and 3 or 4 days as an in home health aide. I am struggling, even working 2 jobs. After going from couch to couch for 6 months last year, I finally saved enough to get my own tiny ...

My wife has been spending time with a younger man for years despite my protests, so should I start something with the younger woman interested in me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4563 days ago

21 June 2012 (M) - Hi thanks for your time, my wife of 30 years enjoys the company of a younger man she says nothing is going on. I halfway believe it but the pattern of disrepect is really getting to me. I tell her I don't want her going out with him and she laughs ...

Why would my ex care anything about what I think of her now?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4566 days ago

19 June 2012 (M) - Me and my ex were together for 5 years. First 2 years were great, we talked about the future, made plans, saw each other as often as we could. Only one problem, none of her friends and family knew we where seeing each other because she didnt want to ...

Is his low sex drive because he's no longer attracted to me or because I put off sex sometimes?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4568 days ago

19 June 2012 (F) - I have issues with my boyfriend of 7 months. When we first met he was meant to be a one night stand and the sex was amazing. I'd never had any one like him before. He'd took me out on a date that evening, and he made me laugh and I liked him, but I ...

He says he's 'done it all before' but I want to spice up our sex life!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4569 days ago

18 June 2012 (F) - im in my 20s with a boyfriend of a few years and i am looking for ideas to spice up our sex life. We get on brilliantly and sex is great but sometimes just so regimented and in the dark. It makes me feel a bit like a robot just doing it for the...

I make excuses even to myself about my boyfriend!

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4568 days ago

17 June 2012 (F) - Hi, I'm new here and don't really know how this works but I really wish to talk to somebody about a problem I have, I'm so sad about it and I hope that someone on here can help me! :) I am seeing this guy, he's 33 and I'm 21. He said that he as ...

My crush thinks he's too old for me. What do I do?

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 4562 days ago

17 June 2012 (F) - I'm 25 and went on a date with a 35 year old. We got along great and had things in common. But he seemed to think the gap was too big. I didn't think so. My friend got engaged and has the same age difference. Should I tell my crush this?...

He says he wants me but why is he with a girl 11 years younger than him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4569 days ago

17 June 2012 (F) - I have had an ongoing relationship for a year we broke up because he said it wasn't going to work heartbroken i let him go only for four months to pass and he was calling me again saying he missed me so we started to see each other again i was so ...

Why did he disappear? I haven't heard from him in a week

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4571 days ago

16 June 2012 (F) - Dear friends, I hope you can help me out with my problem, I met a man 2 months ago at some friends house dinner and we started a beautiful friendship, he doesn't live in the same country but visits it quite often almost every month. He's 23 years ...

My mother isn't happy about me dating a woman in Japan 9 years older than me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4546 days ago

15 June 2012 (M) - I think I've fallen in love with a Japanese Lady I've met on the internet, but I'm having problems with my mum accepting it. Back in 2009 I joined a penpal website, I never had any intention to find a GF or someone I loved and just wanted to learn ...

Is my friend only criticizing my Bf because this friend has feelings for me too?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4573 days ago

13 June 2012 (F) - Okay, so I'm dating a 26 year old and I'm 17 (I know it seems wrong but do not judge, there are FAR more WORSE relationships than this) and everything is going great but one of my closest friends (let's call him B) hates my boyfriend's guts for no ...

I want to get to know this younger guy, but not be a booty call

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4574 days ago

12 June 2012 (F) - So I am in the middle of a legal separation at 29yrs old. I started a new job in April and there is this really cute guy who works with me. He's only 21 though. And I know where you are all going to go with this..."rebound" but it's really not ...

Is it wrong that I love him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4576 days ago

8 June 2012 (F) - I am 15 years old and madly in love with a 20year old with cerebral pasly. i love him with all my heart and want my parents to know. His parents and basically whole entire family knows which is why i feel bad. Is it wrong that im in love with him or ...

I can't stand my boyfriends family as all they do is lie and cause trouble.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4576 days ago

7 June 2012 (F) - I cant stand my boyfriends family as all they do is lie and cause trouble. My boyfriend split with his ex wife a year ago but his family wont accept it. Until lately ive accepted that i will just never be a part of his family as he has kids to her a...

Is my LDR boyfriend not happy with me anymore?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4581 days ago

6 June 2012 (F) - hello everyone. i really need an advice. im in a long distance relationship were been almost 9 months but we knew each other about 2 years. his 13 years older than me, and he lives in australia and i lived in singapore. recenly past few days hes ...

I'm so close to leaving her for her lack of respect for my beliefs and culture!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4581 days ago

6 June 2012 (M) - me and my girl recently have some religous issues. We have a 1 year old female baby, i love her and she love me too. Previously we had issue about our age differences, she is 30 and i'm 22 but we manage to get rid of that. Now she doesn't respect my ...

I've fallen for a man, but the age difference bothers me. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4582 days ago

5 June 2012 (F) - I'm in the need of some help, I have fallen in love with this man, he is a dream man, the only problem is the age difference, he is 17 years older than me, he doesn't look it he looks about 34-35 max, I didn't realise his age at the time when he ...

Should I stick it out without bothering her for information or should I peacefully ask her what is going on in her life that makes her so unreliable and distant?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4578 days ago

5 June 2012 (M) - im 31 in shape and ive got a lady friend who is 22 and in shape. shes been coming over to my place about once a week and spending the night. this has been going on for 3 months. I really like her. i want to give it a shot. she is confusing me ...

All my boyfriend seems to want is sex

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4581 days ago

5 June 2012 (F) - I've ended my unhappy marriage of 20 years. Then I met this man 19 years older than me. He gives me all the attention I've craved for years. We live in separate houses. He's helpful in my house. But he always wants sex when I'm with him. Even if ...

I want to marry my boyfriend, but I'm not sure he feels the same.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4583 days ago

4 June 2012 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for 8 months. before we were an item we were friends for a year, i was with someone else but my current boyfriend was head over heels with me saying how much he wanted me to be his wife and how he would take care of me ...

I thought he was younger, but what if he is older?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4583 days ago

3 June 2012 (F) - I need some advice on older men. I am 29 years old and a few days ago I met a man who very kindly gave me his number for me to get in touch to go out, I was extrmely flattered I put his age at about 33 - 35 but have know discovered that he could be ...

Would you pursue her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4580 days ago

2 June 2012 (F) - Would you pursuit? We met when I was almost 20 and she almost 35. Now I am almost 35 and she is almost 50. I told her I love you. She was happy but ignored it. There are social conditions for which pursuing would be really bad. But s...