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Would you pursue her?

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Question - (2 June 2012) 5 Answers - (Newest, 8 June 2012)
A female Spain age 41-50, anonymous writes:

Would you pursuit?

We met when I was almost 20 and she almost 35.

Now I am almost 35 and she is almost 50.

I told her I love you.

She was happy but ignored it.

There are social conditions for which pursuing would be really bad.

But she makes me happy. I make her happy.

And I am stuck with her.

Would you continue?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (8 June 2012):

another little detail

she was my teacher when we met. then we worked together, and then she asked me not to work but she followed my specialization thesis.

and I still love her. after finishing it I told her, and she continued just formal relationship.

I guess it is time to stop.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (8 June 2012):

do we really need those categories?

I think sexuality is always moving, while sex is fixed. I am a woman, sometimes I prefer girls, sometimes men.

I perfectly know what I dislike of any of both sex, and I think I fall in love with a single person, not with his sex.

Is it possible?

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A female reader, So_Very_Confused United States +, writes (4 June 2012):

So_Very_Confused agony auntso you've been with men and now want to try a relationship with a woman.... she asked you to not be around her....

perhaps she's not the right one for you....

sounds like you need to go out and figure out if you are bi or straight or gay....

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (3 June 2012):

Thanks, auntie.

There are many risks, including the fact that I already missed the opportunity to work with her company because after shorter collaboration, we were too nervous working together and she asked me not to be around any longer. I accepted, helping her but living in another city. She has a relationship, I left my bf after may years because I was no more in love with him and I had some other crushes on some female friends. I really do not understand what's going on this stage.

Help.

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A female reader, AuntyAlexxmo United Kingdom +, writes (3 June 2012):

AuntyAlexxmo agony auntIf she makes you happy and the age difference does not bother you then i would go for it if it was me.

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