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writes:I am 15 years old and madly in love with a 20year old with cerebral pasly. i love him with all my heart and want my parents to know. His parents and basically whole entire family knows which is why i feel bad. Is it wrong that im in love with him or that me and him already planned out our wedding? we havent had sex because we made a deal that we wont have sex or engage in any sexual activity until i am at least 17 or 18 years old and we have been together for a long time....thoughts? questions? comments? please help
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (11 June 2012):
 It’s not wrong that you love him but at his age and your age the gap is a bit big right now. What you want at 15 will change at 17 and again at 20 and again at 25 and yet again at 30 etc…
You are very young to be planning a wedding… you need to wait a bit… But I can see you two being friends… and then your parents can get used to him being around…
You need to wait until you are 18 to do anything physical with him or else he can go to jail. Remember that.
Just know that you need time to grow and mature before you can start planning a future.. how about you wait till you graduate high school and them pick a college (and pick one based on what you want to do not on being close to him) and see how it goes then.
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reader, sweet_lover101  +, writes (10 June 2012):
 If you really are in love with him, you would wait for just a few more years for the sake of the both of you. Trust me. It's like what they say 'Good things come to those who wait'
Of course there is nothing wrong with loving someone just because he's 5 years older than you, that's nothing!
The question is, how can you prove you really do love him, and this of course is to wait. The fact is, you are still a minor and he is an adult. You wouldn't want him to get into legal trouble just because you couldn't control yourself do you? You both have to be wise about this.
Good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 June 2012): I think you are wise to wait as you are very young to be in a relationship. It isn't wrong that you love him so much, so tell your family.
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