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Archived questions from: April, 2012 (see latest in Age differences category)

Age differences: Help and advice

Is he genuine or just trying to sleep with me again?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4585 days ago

30 April 2012 (F) - hello i have a question regarding a man who is 48 yrs old and i am 25. So, we met on a dating website about 4 years ago. we spoke for hours everyday for two years - he works on a cruise ship and lives in another country - we both used to speak on...

Does my boyfriend secretly want me pregnant?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4579 days ago

30 April 2012 (F) - Hello Dearcupid, I think my boyfriend secretly wants me to get pregnant. He keeps asking me when my cycle is, and brought up how I threw up one morning. I'm on the pill, so my breasts have gotten bigger and he asked me if I thought it was because ...

Love or Marriage? Which should I choose?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4547 days ago

30 April 2012 (F) - I need advice: should I stay with my current boyfriend who I am totally in love with but he's six years younger and from a different world -- or find someone i can tolerate that is more serious, settled and ready for marriage? I'm going to b...

How do I tell this person whom I love and care for and WANT as a major part of my life, that I'm having doubts about it right now?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4587 days ago

30 April 2012 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for a year and a half and have a great relationship (given that every relationship has ups and downs at some point). I honestly believe that he is the person I want to spend the rest of my life with and we've ...

Is he out of my reach?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4586 days ago

30 April 2012 (F) - I am a very athletic and outgoing 18 year old girl. I have always kind of had a thing for older guys, and recently I have had my eye on this guy that I work out with at the gym. However he is much older than me, he is 23 and will be 24 this summer ...

I'm 22 weeks pregnant and I think he might be cheat on me

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4584 days ago

29 April 2012 (F) - When I started a new job last June, I started a relationship with a man at work. Not the best timing since he was just at the beginning of ending his 12 year marriage. That being said, I guess I'm worried now. I've heard rumors of him cheating, and ...

He's a teen and I am 22. Will the age difference not matter so much when we are in our 20s?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4588 days ago

29 April 2012 (F) - I have been friends with this guy for over a year as we go to uni together. I am 22 and he is 18 turning 19 at the end of the year. We have kissed on a few occasions but nothing more and recently we have been getting closer and I have deve...

32 year old woman/19 year old man

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4588 days ago

28 April 2012 (F) - I feel like a damn fool. I'm an attractive, intelligent woman and over the course of the last year or so, I have found myself growing more attracted (emotionally, physically and mentally) to a beautiful, extremely mature 19 year old man. Sometimes I ...

Boyfriend liking/saving sexy pictures of exes and attractive female friends, how to overcome my jealousy

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4588 days ago

27 April 2012 (F) - I know my plight is not as dire as some and I should consider myself lucky its not worse. I just want to know how to get over my anger and jealousy so we dont have to fight about it anymore! My boyfriend of nearly 6 years (hes in his early thirti...

He's too old for me do I stay or go?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4590 days ago

27 April 2012 (F) - I've divorced my husband after 20 together. I wasnt happy in my marriage for a long time. I've met this man while I was divorcing my husband. He is 16 years my senior. He is helpful during my divorce. Two years on I find him too old for me but ...

Older boyfriend proposed to me but I'm not ready yet

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4520 days ago

26 April 2012 (F) - I'm 19 and have been dating my 29 year old boyfriend for a year. He has a Master's in Electrical Engineering with a GREAT job and ambitions in life. It's not like he's a dead beat guy preying on young women; he's a genuinely good, hard working guy. ...

Do priorities come into play when there's a large age gap?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4590 days ago

25 April 2012 (F) - I'm wondering if age in dating makes a big difference. Recently I met this guy and hes a bit older than me. I just turned 21 and hes 34. We hit it off pretty well and we have the same views on a lot of things. I'm just wondering if it'd be a problem ...

Should I allow my 75 year old boss to seduce me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4593 days ago

24 April 2012 (F) - I am 33. I just got in a new job where my boss is 75 up...After few days i felt that he is trying to seduce me. He is physically very active even at ths stage of life. he takes vitamins only. Please advice what to do...should I go for it ....or...

What is your opinion on a 25 year age gap ?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4592 days ago

22 April 2012 (F) - Is it too much ? Because for the past 2 years i have been really attracted to someone who is 25 years older . I am not looking for 'the father figure' or he isn't looking for 'sex' . But would it be stupid for us to try and date? Is the gap just too ...

I want to meet older women

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4594 days ago

22 April 2012 (M) - Hello Im not quite sure how to structure this but here goes. I have an attraction to older women sort of 27 to 35 kind of age. And i want to explore this but im not quite sure how or even if it is a good idea. Where can i go too meet older women...

My 19 year old sister is planning on having sex with a 51 year old man she met on the internet!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1054 days ago

21 April 2012 (F) - Ok I will just admit it....I found my sister's email acct password and I snooped. So looking through everything I find all these messsages from a man she met online...theres a ton of them, it starts out with them basically getting to know each ...

Problem with girlfriend's past?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4594 days ago

20 April 2012 (M) - So here's the issue. I am 18 and my girlfriend is 24, about to be 25. We met on a joke app (Funny Jokes) and found out we lived a couple hours away so we just started texting each other. Then we started Skyping and added each other on Facebook. And ...

We have been dating for over a year but still no sex!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4594 days ago

20 April 2012 (F) - So I'm 24 and have been dating a man that is older than me, he is 40. He is the best guy any girl can have we have a really great connection. We have been dating for a little over a year now but we havent made it "official" we don't believe in ...

Boyfriend only lasts 5 minutes!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4597 days ago

20 April 2012 (F) - My bf is 14yrs older. I notice now that I dont get more thsn 5 mins of sex with him. He lasted longer before. I dont know why. I just want an orgasm too. But I never get it....

Is my friend's older brother flirting with me or just being friendly?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4598 days ago

19 April 2012 (F) - I met my friends brother for the first time the other day; he's 6 or 7 years older than I am and just getting out of a 5 year relationship. I knew all about his crazy gf, the party lifestyle he lives, etc etc because my friend (his sister) talks ab...

I may have unwittingly led her on. How do I let her down gently?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4598 days ago

18 April 2012 (M) - this is a bit long so pleas bear with me and sorry in advans about my spelling. well im a member of a site for people with diffrent kinds of medcon/lurning diffacultys/disablitys and ressonlty a fellow meber got in touch and we have been chating ...

How do I get my boyfriend to love me again?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4598 days ago

18 April 2012 (F) - My boyfriend and i are together 3 years he is 44 and i am 42. Basically he became good friends with a woman for about a 2 years ago. he helped her settle into our country they were friends and now he is telling me he is in love with her and he c...

In a relationship with an older woman....she's so beautiful but so insecure! How do I fix this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4593 days ago

16 April 2012 (M) - Ok so I was a the club and I saw probobly the most attractive girl I seen in my life(I thought I was drunk until i saw her again and she looked just as good!). As a matter a fact all my friends tried to get her number individually but failed. I was ...

Really unhappy in this relationship, is it just me? Or is he actually treating me badly?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4600 days ago

16 April 2012 (F) - So ive been with my current bf a year and this is my first serious relationship and we live together. He however is a divorcee who has been in several committed realtionships. (He is a decade older than me.) Ive been seriously debating whether...

Is it wrong to date a guy older than you?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4601 days ago

16 April 2012 (F) - Is it "wrong" for you to be with a guy that's older than you?? Like five years? I just wanted to know your guys input. So if youre wondering yea im dating an older guy. We both love each other alot and its not just about sex. We havent even had ...

How should I flirt with a co-worker who is twice my age?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4603 days ago

14 April 2012 (M) - Ok, well there's this mature lady who works at the same company as me. In my opinion, she is sexy as hell. She's a bit more than twice my age. Infact, her son, who I knew personally is three years older than me. INFACT, her son has two kids, which ...

My married lover found out I was talking to other guys and now he's ending things with me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4603 days ago

13 April 2012 (F) - good day readers! i am so over whelmed when i found out this website that i think can probably help me in my difficulties nowadays. i am 23y.o. of age and i am so in love with a 50y.o. man. he is married in the other country and has two kids. we...

Does his smile mean anything?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4605 days ago

12 April 2012 (F) - There is an older man who I have a huge crush on, we talk and flirt alot and he always gives me this strange kind of cheeky smile. While hes talking to me he will smile, not a huge smile more like a smirk and its always while we are making eye ...

I'm 16 and my boyfriend is 19, is it inappropriate for us to be together?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4463 days ago

11 April 2012 (F) - Hi me and my boyfriend have been going out for about a month and a half, and it's going wonderfully, I think I am falling for him. The problem is, we get a lot of judgement due to our ages, he is 19 and I am 16. So he has got a job, and I am at ...

He helped me through my divorce but I don't think this relationship is working, should I tell him straight and leave the relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4606 days ago

11 April 2012 (F) - I've divorced my controlling husband after 20 years. I've met this man and he helped me while I went through my divorce. I know from start he is not right but he persuade me to give it a go as he is 16 years older than me. Two years on Im 51 and ...

Why do older men date younger women and Visa Versa?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4596 days ago

10 April 2012 (F) - It's just i noticed a lot lately that women in their 20's seem to be going for men in there 40's even 50's . Some with even a 25 to 30 year age difference my friend is actually 24 and dating a 49 year old. It puzzles me because sometimes the men are ...

He's 16 years older than me. Is he sincere or using me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4607 days ago

10 April 2012 (F) - I'm 18 years old, and I work with a 34 year old man that's very forward about the way I make him feel. We've been good friends for a while, but all of the sudden he started giving me a lot of compliments out of the blue. Like how cute or amazing I ...

Why do older men go for younger girls?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4608 days ago

8 April 2012 (F) - Can you guys answer me my question. Why does older guys go for younger girls? I am with someone who is 7 year older than me he is 27, 28 this year. We have had so many complications with our relationship. I just sometimes think to myself no wonder ...

I'm 13 and I fancy my woodshop teacher!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4603 days ago

8 April 2012 (F) - I'm 13 and I do woodwork in school. It's very hard,and the teacher lets me away with EVERYTHING!I take out my phone in class,and he doesn't mind. I walk around the classroom all the time and I never do my work! And I didn't do my homework,and ...

How can I protect my sister from her 40 year old boyfriend?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4599 days ago

8 April 2012 (M) - 1.) My sister's boyfriend is 40+ years old and i think he is racist because of the way he interacts with other people including us. btw my sister is only 26. (the guy is british, my sister is filipina), my sister claims that he loves the guy. 2.) ...

Moved towns for a guy I'm not even attracted, have I made a mistake?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4609 days ago

7 April 2012 (F) - So I lived in OHIO, im 21, young. I went on this website and started talking to a 30 year old guy, I was hesitant on his looks but still talked to him, After talking to him knowing he wants marriage, kids and to settle down I thought perfect, me ...

How do I stop my stupid crush on a much older marrried man?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4349 days ago

4 April 2012 (F) - I have a huge crush on a much older married man. How do i stop feeling so stupid? I am 21 he is 45-50. Not sure. I have known this man for 6 months now, i see him a few times a week at work. He flirts with me all the time, compliments me, jokes al...

I'm worried if this will work. What are the downsides to the fact that I am about the same age as my partner's son?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4613 days ago

4 April 2012 (F) - I'm dating a man who is 21 years older than me. I am 28, and he is 49. He has a son who is 26 ( he'll be 27 in December ). Does anyone think it's bad that he is dating me, when i am just a bit older than his son?. He doesn't see his son, as he got ...

He's 21 years older than me, I'm 7 years older than his son. Can it work?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4614 days ago

2 April 2012 (F) - Im straight out of college and 22. I have started working a law firm as a secretary, there are two partners. I am a secretary for only one. A few months ago a partner asked me to dinner I turned him down and he asked a few more times but I kept ...

I'm in love with a guy who's half my age

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4615 days ago

1 April 2012 (F) - Hi. I'm a 54 yr old woman, who honestly looks about 35. I'm very blessed. I work out, and have always taken good care of myself. I place a personal ad, and hesistantly, responded to a 27 yr old. He and I have lots in common. We are both college ...