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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Am I I imaginging it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 873 days ago

30 June 2022 (F)

age 22-25 - I met this guy a few months ago and I'm so crazy in love with him. I thought it was a crush and that it would disappear after some time but it didn't. He has a lovely personality and he dances really nicely. The thing is, we haven't talked much so I'm not sure if he likes me or ... (220 words)

I gave him my number now worried things will get weird

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 872 days ago

30 June 2022 (F)

age 22-25 - Hi, I did a very stupid thing. I gave my number to someone I'm not interested in, I'm going to this gym and a new person came and started talking to me. I make it a habit to talk to people because I'm trying to socialize more and all that. He was asking me about the classe... (241 words)

Give him a chance?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 873 days ago

29 June 2022 (F) age 30-35 - Hi all. I met a guy on Facebook. We've been talking for about three months. He seems like a decent, respectful person. When I saw his profile picture, I was attracted to him. He looks so handsome. Yesterday, while speaking he requested a picture of myself (not nude). So i... (339 words)

Boyfriend doesn't think I am any fun

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 874 days ago

29 June 2022 (F)

age 36-40 - My partner and I ended up getting in a fight last night. We were at a baseball game and he was drinking and wanted to rent one of those standing scooters to take home all of a sudden. I’d never done this before and wasn’t comfortable but he kept insisting it would be fun and I ... (191 words)

Sex after 50

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 870 days ago

29 June 2022 (F) age 41-50 - Hi guys, I’m in my early forties and two months ago I started seeing a wonderful man who’s 51. We’re getting to know each other, and we haven’t had sex yet. We kissed and cuddled, and I could feel his excitement, so to speak. I think that he too needed time to get to know m... (216 words)

How do I get over the guilt? I want out of my marriage

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 875 days ago

28 June 2022 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone, I have been married for 8 years and after a long and happy marriage, my husband and I are separating. Even though the marriage was happy, towards the end we had started fighting way too much and too often. and even though we still love each other so much, w... (312 words)

What the dealbreaker is for you in a relationship

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 876 days ago

27 June 2022 (F) age 41-50 - Hey guys, I was just wandering what the dealbreaker is for you in a relationship? My husband of 16 years is an honest guy, he doesn't cheat or lie. He's hardworking. So, I guess the big red flags are down. However, he has serious temperament issues. Anger problems. Ther... (537 words)

Made a huge mistake and feel horrible

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 876 days ago

27 June 2022 (M)

age 22-25 - Hi everyone, I made a mistake a few weeks ago and I have felt absolutely horrible about it ever since. I was out drinking at the bar with some friends and a girl who I've been friends with since we were young. I'd always been somewhat attracted to her, but never acted on t... (346 words)

Don't get what compassion is all about

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 877 days ago

25 June 2022 (F)

age 18-21 - I get really sarcastic when i read post and answer where compassion is addressed. I don't get it because am i suppose to be so full of compassion that i neglect my needs though i could relate to some things but the whole compassion doesn't sit well with me i can't see a ... (127 words)

Boyfriend lied about his age lost trust

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 871 days ago

25 June 2022 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi So my boyfriend and I have been together for 3 years. We have had alot of rough patches mostly because he's always asking me for financial help. Today however, I found out he's lied about his age for 3 years. He told me he was 5 years older than he was. I feel like I ca... (89 words)

Is there anything wrong with me keeping my opinions to myself in this situation?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 879 days ago

25 June 2022 (M)

age 26-29 - A lot of my friends are posting about the United States Supreme Court decision at overturning Roe vs Wade (abortion law). I am pro-life but I never talked about my views with my family or friends. Part of me feels like I am a coward for not expressing what I think but the ... (203 words)

Should I just delete everyone after this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 879 days ago

24 June 2022 (M)

age 36-40 - I’ve liked this girl for years, when we first met she had a BF, when they broke up I asked her out, but she was already seeing someone else. We’ve kept off and on contact (I have her number and socials, and recently her close friend started working with me. She mentione... (229 words)

I can see you looking!"

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 878 days ago

24 June 2022 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi community, so, this is my problem: I have a lovely gf for over a year now. Im Westerner and she is Vietnamese. We live Saigon. I am deeply in love with her, have proposed marriage, so, Im not playing around. She also loves me, I know that for a fact. But she is hesitant... (656 words)

Husband cheated trying to do better but I am unhappy

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 879 days ago

24 June 2022 (F) age 36-40 - Hi all. I have been married for 8 years. Been together off and on for 16 years. I love my husband. He is the man I wanted to spend the rest of my life with. I grew up with narcissistic parents and placed other people's feelings above mine. My husband and I have 3 chi... (316 words)

How to deal with a coworker I don't like

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24 June 2022 (F)

age 30-35 - So this isn't about a relationship per say but it deals with my work. So I work in a Veterinary Hospital as a Veterinary Assistant/technician. I've been there 8 months now. It's a small clinic, right now we have 5 full time employees (including myself) and a Veterina... (790 words)

Feeling insecure and need advice on how to talk to teasing wife

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 863 days ago

23 June 2022 (M)

age 30-35 - Wife started walking at local forest preserve. Its hot so she goes later at night. No ones ever there so I convinced her to wear her older sexy workout gear (shiny low cut leotard, leggings); since we are abstaining from sex for up to 3 weeks at a time trying to concieve, she ... (186 words)

Why do boys do dumb things to impress girls and each other?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 878 days ago

22 June 2022 (F)

age 16-17 - My question is why do boys have to do dumb stuff to show off to impress girls or impress each other? We are a small Christian school and we do not have any sports teams. There are only four boys in our 8th grade class and we girls are lucky all four are cute. No one is ... (531 words)

Should I wait to be asked out?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 881 days ago

22 June 2022 (F) age 41-50 - Hi guys! I haven’t dated in a long time, so I have no ideas what the “rules” are. Also, I haven’t been able to shake off the weight I gained during my divorce (it started during my marriage), which makes me insecure. And so does my age (45). My husband and I parted our... (1561 words)

Moved in with boyfriend but feeling used and miserable

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 881 days ago

21 June 2022 (F)

age 22-25 - Hey, I am not sure what to say to my partner as I am starting to feel a little used since I have moved in with my boyfriend. Moved in with my boyfriend about a month or so ago and then he went on holiday with some of his mates leaving me to look after the house and the dog... (574 words)

Messed up relationship

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 881 days ago

20 June 2022 (F)

age 30-35 - Sorry about the long post but I could really use help! Patience appreciated! I met this guy once during a group social event in a different country. I came back home without thinking much of it but we got in touch during the pandemic and got really close , even though just... (1317 words)

How do I manage this co-worker?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 866 days ago

20 June 2022 (F)

age 26-29 - I started this new job as an Activities Instructor in the disability sector a month and a half ago and I really love it! Recently, I went on an overnight trip with some clients and another activities instructor that I have been having some trouble with. Long story short, she... (527 words)

Update and thank you from Marcus

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 885 days ago

17 June 2022 (M)

age 22-25 - I posted in April about a situation where my athletic trainer confessed he had a crush on me and had tricked me into inappropriate situations for his sexual gratification. When I was trying to deal with the situation I was fixated on not wanting to lose my athletic scholarship ... (526 words)

How to work with problematic co worker?

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17 June 2022 (F)

age 30-35 - So this is not exactly relationship related but work related. I work in a Veterinary Hospital as a Veterinary Assistant/technician, I've been with the company for 8 months now. So when I first started I was given basic duties that they allowed me to do, I wasn't quite comforta... (913 words)

Can tickling be sexual?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 884 days ago

17 June 2022 (F)

age 16-17 - My BF Jacob is so fun to tease. I found out he is ticklish and his laugh is so sexy and cute. He says my fingernails are a secret weapon. He tells me to stop but I never do and he does not get mad after. His sides and his tummy are the worse. He will put his hands on top of ... (286 words)

What do I do with private info on my friends crush for me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 886 days ago

16 June 2022 (F)

age 18-21 - I have a guy friend (fake name – Jackson) and we have been flirty friends but never dated or done more than a kiss on the cheek. We have dated other people but always kept our relationship in the friend zone. We both don’t believe in FWB and consider that wrong. We do talk ... (978 words)

Family never believed me that my brothers fiancé was bad news!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 887 days ago

15 June 2022 (F)

age 41-50 - I need somewhere to vent - I’m so angry. Several years ago my brother met this woman and it was obvious to me she was only using him. My brother is very successful, owns 2 homes and is a very generous guy. From my first meeting with her my gut instinct just knew she wa... (496 words)

Friend making things awkward

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 886 days ago

15 June 2022 (F)

age 30-35 - My friend keeps putting me in awkward situations and I’m not sure if she’s doing it on purpose or not… Let me give you some examples.. The first incident was 3 months ago we went out shopping - she found this fancy scarve that she liked. It was quite pricey and she co... (563 words)

Mother and brother not taking care of funeral for father

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 887 days ago

15 June 2022 (F)

age 41-50 - I came to stay with family for the funeral for my father. 6 weeks on, my father is still in the mortuary at the hospital because my brother and mum wont do anything about it or arrange a funeral. I am very upset about this as i never got to see my father and really wanted... (264 words)

Parents don't care about my mental health

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 887 days ago

14 June 2022 (F) age 36-40 - I am hurting so much. Today i had the courage to talk to my parents about how they invalidate my feelings and lack empathy when I tell them how I feel. My father who is a pastor will tell me that is not thinking Christlike when i pointed out how I felt. My mother is just ... (108 words)

Sex for a scholarship the same as prostitution?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 887 days ago

14 June 2022 (M)

age 18-21 - I know that sex for money is prostitution and illegal in most places except Vegas. I recently started having sex with an attractive older woman (like mid-30’s) who works as like the number two person in financial aid at the school I will be attending. It started during a ... (314 words)

It normal or common for men with autism to remain virgins later than normal

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13 June 2022 (M)

age 30-35 - Is it normal or just common for autistic men, men with autism, to become 30 year old virgins? or just remain virgins later than normal? to go well into their 20s or even reach 30s or older and to have never had a girlfriend before? It wouldn't surprise me if it is true. Sinc... (221 words)

Too old to have an exciting life?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 888 days ago

13 June 2022 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, I am looking for some reassurance, really. I am turning 30 this year and going through a divorce. I have been panicking a lot about this and feel like I’m now too old to live an exciting life and go out on dates etc. I have never really been single so the prospect of all ... (91 words)

Why am I an alpha male wannabe?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 888 days ago

13 June 2022 (M)

age 22-25 - My girlfriend said she was so glad I was not an “alpha male.” She says it was a compliment and I believe she meant it that way, but I am feeling kind of less manly since she said it. When she realized it was bumming me out she initiated a lot more frequent sex I guess to ... (341 words)

I don't want my step-mother at my graduation

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 872 days ago

12 June 2022 (F)

age 26-29 - Hello, thank you for taking the time to read my question. I am 24 years old, I'm graduating from university in the Summer. I'm only allowed two tickets for each parent at the ceremony, so I'm inviting my father and my mother. My Father and I have had a difficult and strai... (667 words)

How do I respond to mutual friends?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 891 days ago

12 June 2022 (F) age 41-50 - HI again! Thank you for all the good advice you have given me. I cannot find my questions I have previously posted, so here’s a very brief recap: I managed to put an end to a lifelong friendship that had been imposed on me (a daughter of family friends). Suffice to say ... (554 words)

Should I worry that he's losing his feelings for me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 889 days ago

11 June 2022 (F)

age 18-21 - Hi, so my boyfriend and I had made plans to hang out today because it is his only day off from baseball practices and games. But this morning when I texted and asked if I was going to his house or if he was coming to mine, he texted back and said he had baseball practice and a ... (259 words)

Is it normal to feel empowered when you start feeling more reckless in terms of sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 865 days ago

11 June 2022 (F)

age 26-29 - Hello. I've been dealing with a tough time trying to discover who I am. I was born to a wealthy family, since childhood, my parents were very strict raising me to be a very well behaved person, and they really care about their public image and reputation. I've never done ... (730 words)

I need prayers

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 892 days ago

11 June 2022 (F)

age 30-35 - My husband is sick and not being honest with me about his condition. I don’t want to loose him. I’m afraid that he is not going to come back from this and I just need some prayers because I have no control over his or anyone decision making. I am trying to be there for him but ... (235 words)

Don't waste your time time not doing anything

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 891 days ago

11 June 2022 (M)

age 36-40 - I will be honest - I think times gone for me in the sense of achieving especially romanticly. Never ever in life expect things to just happen. When people say things will all work out in the end, or love only happen when you stop working for it these are all lies. You reall... (324 words)

This new guy told me about his 'crazy' former FWB

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 894 days ago

10 June 2022 (F)

age 26-29 - Hello, I've been talking to this man for months and we both like each other's. However, he never talked about taking the relationship to the next level, although he spends hours with me talking non stop, watch a movie together, and I do feel the spark between us, but he just ... (331 words)

I've fallen out of love... but he wants to fix things. What can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 895 days ago

9 June 2022 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello there, This is a long story but I'm gonna try and make it as short as possible. My husband and I have been married for 10 years now and we've had our ups and downs, but we've always managed to get through them. We moved to a new country 8 months ago and things have ... (1167 words)

My brother threatens

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 894 days ago

8 June 2022 (F)

age 41-50 - When i visit and stay at my mums house shes 75 to spend time with her, my brother whos 50, who lives there starts arguments about anything and calls me names and just bullies me. he threatens me and says to get out the house and he will throw me out the front door. And im the ... (214 words)

Our son has become addicted to gaming

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 896 days ago

8 June 2022 (F)

age 41-50 - My 18-year-old son has recently got addicted to gaming. Well, it started when he was 16 and the pandemic began. WoW and Fortnite, he spent hours on them. We cut him off and blocked them at router level now and then while he was still a minor but he got angry and said ... (1497 words)

My husband left me for our son in law

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 895 days ago

8 June 2022 (F)

age - I just learnt that my husband of 42 years has left me for our son-in-law who is 36. That's a 36-year age gap!! I feel angry and betrayed and am worrying about the future. We had a good marriage and I had no suspicions he was even having an affair. I only found out y... (542 words)

Can't get out of this relationship with a married man

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 895 days ago

8 June 2022 (F)

age 41-50 - Please don’t reiterate how stupid I was to not see the signs, not know the obvious - I did see some signs, some uneasy feelings, but I chose to ignore them. I was able to find an excuse for everything. And now I can’t get out. We met two years ago online — immediately t... (596 words)

Husband left me for another woman, then I began seeing a colleague

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 895 days ago

8 June 2022 (F)

age 36-40 - Firstly, I’ll try keep this brief. I know I will probably (quite rightly) get a lot of stick for this but as I can’t really share with anyone I thought this would be as safe as anywhere as there may be people who have been in my situation. Last June my H (together ... (1398 words)

My boyfriend cheated on me with an acquaintance of mine

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 896 days ago

8 June 2022 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi, My boyfriend (G) cheated on me with a girl he knew i know (O). Four weeks back, G and i went out clubbing and we met O at the club. We said hi to her and went on having fun together and doing PDA. On our way back, O took me aside and asked me if he was my boyfriend. I s... (394 words)

My husband has become obsessive since the lockdown

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 896 days ago

8 June 2022 (F)

age 41-50 - This problem is one I don't really know where to get help for. Asked here. My husband's become very, very obsessive over fitness, to the point where he loses his temper if he can't get to do it. A neighbor told me they'd seen him running down the street in a crop top an... (539 words)

The man my friend just married is already married!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 896 days ago

8 June 2022 (F)

age 36-40 - Went to a friend's wedding a few weeks ago. It was good and a nice small one. I met her boyfriend about 3 years ago at a meal with friends, he seemed like a nice guy. We all got on well with him. He was an American who'd been living here for 10 years at the time. But... (453 words)

Am I wrong to refuse to meet him at a hotel?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 896 days ago

8 June 2022 (F)

age 26-29 - Dear Agony Aunts, Ive been with this guy for 2 months now. Since we met, we always saw each other at my place. Since he doesn't live alone, it was convenient for both of us because of privacy. 7 days ago, we got into a heated argument that made me chase him out of my apar... (225 words)