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My boyfriend cheated on me with an acquaintance of mine

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Question - (8 June 2022) 1 Answers - (Newest, 8 June 2022)
A female Cameroon age 26-29, anonymous writes:

Hi,

My boyfriend (G) cheated on me with a girl he knew i know (O).

Four weeks back, G and i went out clubbing and we met O at the club. We said hi to her and went on having fun together and doing PDA. On our way back, O took me aside and asked me if he was my boyfriend. I said yes and she said "Okay"

Two weeks ago, i started seeing that O calls G late at night when he's asleep. He wakes up, mutes the call and goes back to sleep.

I asked him why she always calls him at midnight and 4 am, he answered "I dont know, you should ask her" and proceeded in reassuring me that she is a long time friend of his.

Following that, G would start asking me questions on O:

Who is O's boyfriend? is O prettier than her elder sister? and other details on her personal life.

Eight days ago, O called G again at 2 am and i felt something was wrong in my gut. I forced him to pick the call and he became passive-aggressive.

I felt something was going on so i threatened to call O myself with my phone. He tried snatching my phone from me to no avail then, he went back to sleep.

I texted O asking her what was going on between them and she confessed they have something together.

I told him to leave and he drove directly to O's house (O texted me to tell me he's at her place)

G has been begging me to see him for 8 days but i refused to see him because i'm still hurt.

Two days ago, O posted on Snapchat and she made sure G's car was recognizable. i saw she was in G's car then she deleted her post an hour later.

The next day, G came back begging me and saying he is sorry, he is going going to change and that he will go no contact with O if i'm ready to forgive him.

Help, I don't know what to do.

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A female reader, RitaBrown United Kingdom +, writes (8 June 2022):

Dump his sorry ass.

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