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writes: Hi guys, I’m in my early forties and two months ago I started seeing a wonderful man who’s 51. We’re getting to know each other, and we haven’t had sex yet. We kissed and cuddled, and I could feel his excitement, so to speak. I think that he too needed time to get to know me and figure out what he wants. We meet the old-fashioned way, through mutual friends, so I kind of knew the basics, that he was single, that he and his ex-wife have good co-parenting relationship, that he has 2 teenage boys…I need some insight from both men and women about sexuality after 50. I’m no stranger to bedroom issues. My ex-partner (with whom I was for almost 18 years) had all sorts of problems even as a young man. When he got close to 40 our relations became even more complicated because he was refusing to make an effort (see a specialist, experiment…). This is NOT why we broke up.Anyway, the guy I’m seeing is physically active and in great shape. I know that everyone is different, but I’d like to hear what your experience is when it comes to men sexuality after 50.Thank you!
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 July 2022): I'm the OP.
Thank you so much for your very detailed answer!
I couldn't believe when I read about the Bjs!
The ex I mentioned (as your bf crazy good-looking) liked Bjs and afterwards the penetrative sex would last a fraction of a second, so to speak.
I too am feeling a surge in sexual interest in my forties.
Btw, 5 tiles a month sounds great!
Thanx again!
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 July 2022): Our Box Score -- and I'm pretty sure we're not normal
late 20's 30's -- 2x a day-- morning and night.
40's 5x a week
50's 3x a week, + a couple Bjs*
60's, enter Viagra -- 2x a week, more BJs (with no Viagra)
70s (he's 73) 5x a month, lots of time, lots of BJs.
* Looks like I'm a latecomer here. This isn't scientific but in my early 20s I had the most handsome boyfriend. I showered him with BJs for being so fucking good looking. Then he couldn't get hard enough to fuck with it anymore. I blame too much oral.
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