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Archived questions from: 6 January, 2016 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

My wife doesn't like the expensive present I got from a female co-worker. What should I do?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 3256 days ago

6 January 2016 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi all Where I work, its mostly with women and as a result I am friendly and comfortable around women,although my wife isn't too happy about it.There's one particular girl who I work very closely with and I'll admit i get on particularly well with. Although nothing untoward... (190 words)

I'm pregnant and still a teenager and at university, what should I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3253 days ago

6 January 2016 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay so I think I'm pregnant and I'm petrified. I still live at home with my parents and I have a long term boyfriend but we're both at university and if I tell him I'm pregnant I don't want him to drop out even though I'll have to because I don't want to ruin his life but then ... (259 words)

I need to move on from my ex but I've never had the same feeling with anyone else

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3271 days ago

6 January 2016 (F)

age 36-40 - I have not moved on from my ex boyfriend and it's been 2 years. Him and I were together for 4 years, from the time I was 20-24 years old. I'm not exaggerating when I say he was perfect for me. Him and I just had an amazing connection that I can't even explain. He knew... (363 words)

Should I continue to carry on with this married man? Or walk away?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3270 days ago

6 January 2016 (F)

age 41-50 - I met a guy last year and we clicked instantly.as we got to talking he told me he asked if I was single and I said yes. He told me he was married but wars us to have a relationship.he told me his wife is in another country and doesn't live with him.we agreed and pursued a ... (145 words)

She wants to leave me because I looked at photos of other women

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3271 days ago

6 January 2016 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi my name is david I am in need of help Ive been with my fiance for 6 years now She has a problem with me looking at other girls And watching porn etc. I soon worked this out as around 3 months into the relationship i watched a film and she was very very upset. There... (201 words)

I think I'm gay but I don't know how to approach other girls

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3271 days ago

6 January 2016 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi Cupids. Just some background, I'm at university and I'm 20, female. I've always had a suspicion that I'm interested in girls and have had very brief encounters in the past but I have never explored due to my own self consciousness. I've had relationships with guys as w... (167 words)

Does my ex boyfriend want me back or is he just playing games?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3272 days ago

6 January 2016 (F)

age 30-35 - So my ex boyfriend of four years broke up with me because he believed I deserved better and he needed to get his life together. However, according to his friends I was clingy and had trust issues, which weren't fully true. He wasn't being fully honest about why he broke it off ... (309 words)

My father is always asking for money

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3271 days ago

6 January 2016 (M)

age 30-35 - My dad has always been a borrower of money, from both me and everybody he knows. In my entire life I have only seen him have one job, lasting 6 months. And at his age, it's going to be hard for him to find work now. He has a wife. She works. Yet, regardless of this, they are ... (363 words)

My husband threw me under the bus with his family

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2617 days ago

6 January 2016 (F)

age 36-40 - I resent my husband and don't know where to go from here. On new years eve we had my brother in-law and his family here to bring in the new year. Everything was going good until about 12:30 am when my brother in-law thought it would be Ok to blast white trash kkk music ... (482 words)

Has my husband lost interest in me? Does he want out? Do I want out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3271 days ago

6 January 2016 (F)

age 51-59 - I have already posted a few times, asking for advice on opinions and your comments were always on point. This time it’s not about my friends or relatives, it’s about my husband. I think that he’s losing interest in me or that he finally realized that I will never become wha... (821 words)

Is there any way to make this work and make everyone see I won't screw this up again?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3271 days ago

6 January 2016 (M)

age 36-40 - when I was in my early 20s I did a lot of dumb stuff, I got into drugs, drank way to much and partying became my only concern. I dropped out of university and bounce from one dead end job to another but I was happy with the partying life style. I finally got clean, got a job ... (334 words)

I am worried I may leave my children motherless.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3272 days ago

6 January 2016 (F)

age 41-50 - I am 5 weeks pregnant - 35 years old - just found out. Bf who I have had 2 other kids by (2 boys) - this would be my 3rd kid with him - so making it 4 kids in total is not really reacting much to the news. He was shocked at first but is leaving it all up to me. Our relationsh... (420 words)

I am a beauty pagent winner who suffers body image issues.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3271 days ago

6 January 2016 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi. I have been struggling with body image issues and it's ruining my dating life as well. I have this friend/crush with whom I fooled around a couple of times. We'll be meeting up again but I'm very self conscious about my body and scared he might be turned off. Last time he ... (208 words)

I can't move on after being ripped off by my brother!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3272 days ago

6 January 2016 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello cupids, I have often read many columns here and advice of how loss is a part of life and I am well aware of that fact. When I graduated from university in 2013, I thought I had the plan of my life all set up. My parents are seperated(never married) lived with my da... (558 words)

My mom is sick, dad doesn't believe her and its taking a toll on my life

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3270 days ago

6 January 2016 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 25 and my parent constantly fight. My mom has health problems in which doctors do not know what is wrong with her. Her body aches and she cannot stay away for very long. This has been going on for about 10 years. Because doctors do not know what is wrong with her my dad ... (238 words)

Why does my hubby only last 5 minutes now?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3268 days ago

6 January 2016 (F)

age 30-35 - Question... Im 24 hubby 31 1 yr ago when we got married he would last 45 to 1 hr now he cumes in about 5 mins... He can hold it but the longer he holds it i feel he looses his "stiffness" Why did things change? I had never orgasmed and didnt know how to move ontop, he made ... (89 words)

Should I go with my girlfriend to the party and then break up?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3272 days ago

6 January 2016 (M)

age 26-29 - So i have a girlfriend but she is going to study abroad so we decided that we should brake up and stay as friends because long distance relationships dont usually work and we really want to stay as friends at least. We also decided that we wanted to break up before i started ... (178 words)

I am feeling like a failure at sex with big butt women!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3271 days ago

6 January 2016 (M)

age 41-50 - My ex and I have been on and off for quite sometime. In the beginning of our relationship she was petite, and when we would have sex she would complain that she couldn't handle me because of my size (I'm not saying that I'm the biggest in the world, and I'm not patting myself ... (243 words)

Should I leave my depressed first love?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3251 days ago

6 January 2016 (F)

age 26-29 - I've been with my boyfriend for just under 2 years and I love him to the moon and back. He has severe depression and I feel it's rubbed off on me. I don't go out, I feel so bad about myself, I can't be bothered to get out of bed and I feel worthless. Our relationship is compl... (297 words)

My LDR boyfriend spends alot of time with a female friend. Am I paranoid?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3217 days ago

6 January 2016 (F)

age 26-29 - hiya, i have been in a long distance relationship with my boyfriend for almost 2 years. we have a 10 year age gap and met in july 2013 online, he then asked me to be his partner the following February. recently when on one of his female friends's profile page i noticed... (206 words)