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Archived questions from: 30 January, 2016 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Should I face this now? Or wait, to avoid the stress, until baby is born?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3247 days ago

30 January 2016 (F)

age 30-35 - In the next 7 week I will be at my due date with my first baby with my boyfriend. Over Christmas my brother fell out with my boyfriend, and my brother kept telling me to dump my boyfriend as he wasn't what I thought he was and I'd be better moving I'm with my parents and havi... (505 words)

Heart broken. Is he just not "into" me ?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3247 days ago

30 January 2016 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi I'd really appreciate other peoples views on my situation please . I've had great advice about this very man on here before. Finally seemed to be getting somewhere a month ago with him inviting me out most nights , I stayed over him cuddling me all night . only actually ha... (349 words)

My wife of 22 years has no remorse over her cheating. Should we divorce, or do what we want?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3247 days ago

30 January 2016 (M)

age 51-59 - I just found out that my wife cheated on me and not the first time and she does not even feel remorse. We have been married for 22 years, both in our 40s. She looks amazing for her age. Men always liked her. we have a grown child and empty nesters. Few last years we kind of... (331 words)

By accident I discovered that my husband likes to video himself masterbating, when he is alone. Why does he keep this secret?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3248 days ago

30 January 2016 (F)

age 51-59 - My husband and I are both in our fifties. We have been married for 13 years. He has always watched porn but now he stays up late to watch it, masterbate, and videotape himself ejaculate. He won't do this in front of me and he also denies that he even masterbates.... (82 words)

I "hooked up" with a guy I hardly know. No sex, but did try to give him a Bj. Will my next experience with a guy be better?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3248 days ago

30 January 2016 (F)

age 22-25 - I'm a 16 year old girl and a few months ago I stupidly and carelessly "hooked up" with this guy I didn't know too well. Please don't tell me I'm an idiot because trust me I've told myself that everyday since. Before that I'd never soo much as held hands with a guy let alon... (273 words)

My boyfriend, his Mermaid, and me. Was he disrespectful to add a mermaid? How should I handle this?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3247 days ago

30 January 2016 (F)

age 41-50 - I will try to make this short and sweet. My boyfriend (we have been dating for a 1.5 year broke up a few times for 2 weeks). He is a big tattoo guy, He has a sleeve and half a sleeve on the other arm. I don't mind them, as I think they look nice on him. One is a portrait... (291 words)

I am feeling sorry for myself, and sorry for the wife of my married lover since we broke up. How do I get over this break-up?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3248 days ago

30 January 2016 (F) age 41-50 - I broke up with a married man two weeks ago. While I am dealing with that and trying to let go, I am also crying over the fact that I will no longer be friends with his wife either. Please don't judge and tell me she is better off without friends like me- I know that. In m... (209 words)

I feel trapped. Is changing my identity and starting afresh an option to deal with my wish to be single and free?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3246 days ago

30 January 2016 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok so I think there is something really wrong with me. I have never had any desire to get married or have a family-I'm 36. For the past couple of years in been fantasizng of changing my identity and leaving my life and starting fresh.... I just feel so trapped and I do... (431 words)

The cake fiasco. What do you think?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3247 days ago

30 January 2016 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, Hoping for some advice as I'm completely embarrassed and annoyed by a situation! My friend recently turned 30 and for her birthday I had a novelty cake made for her as a surprise. A colleague of mine suggested a lady she knows, who has made her several cakes. She show... (701 words)

I'm not sure if this co-worker lied to me. How should I deal with her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3248 days ago

30 January 2016 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm involved in a delicate situation and I may have been lied to and now I'm not sure what to make of it all... There's a girl in my office, she is 19 and a temp- she's been with the company for 5 months. She is quite and just gets on with her work and never draws... (721 words)

How can I secure myself financially?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3247 days ago

30 January 2016 (F)

age 30-35 - So I've been with my boyfriend for almost 6 years now... 3 of those we were saving up to buy a house. Well really he was the one doing the saving, as he served in the military and I was a University student on a tight budget. After finishing uni he wanted to buy a house wi... (501 words)

I can't make sense of this sexual stuff!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3247 days ago

30 January 2016 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello everyone... first post here, wanting to discuss something thats been happening for a while now and have never had any input from anyone else on the subject due to it being a pretty embarrassing to say the least. Anyway i have been with my fiance for almost 3 years n... (239 words)

Do I have a toxic relationship with my parents?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3246 days ago

30 January 2016 (F)

age 30-35 - Do I have a toxic relationship with my parents? I live in a strict Asian household (think Tiger mom). It is going to be a lengthy post so please be patient with me. -When I was younger, my parents would ignore me and give me the cold shoulder if I did not get straight As.... (483 words)