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Archived questions from: 19 January, 2016 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

My husband is in prison but accuses me of cheating. He doesn't understand why I don't wish to be with him. He lied to me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3258 days ago

19 January 2016 (F)

age 36-40 - If your husband had served a prison sentence for physically harming you but you forgave him and visited him and stood by him and he made you so many promises that these things would never happen again and he was going to give you a nice life and make things right and then when ... (199 words)

Fiance admitted forgetting about my birthday plans and didn't do anything about it?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3258 days ago

19 January 2016 (F)

age 30-35 - My birthday was yesterday and my fiance and I had made plans on Christmas day to spend the day before (Sunday) together, as on my actual birthday (Monday) I got him basketball tickets to go watch his favorite team play as a Christmas gift, which he was very excited about and I ... (464 words)

He's become a little distant. Should I just give him space?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3259 days ago

19 January 2016 (F)

age 30-35 - I've started seeing a guy (well just before Christmas). We get on really well. Have loads in common. We do have an age gap of 11 years (he's older). Recently he's been acting distant from me. We communicate via text throughout most the week (as we both work and have weeke... (151 words)

Why did he never before mention this ex that lives close to us?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3258 days ago

19 January 2016 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi I'm in a relationship for 3 yrs now we have a 1 yr old son the problem is we've had a few problems about him staring at other women and not making enough time for us due to his mates we were talking the other night and he mentioned one of his exes who he had never told me ... (88 words)

I know girlfriend is cheating behind my back, why didn't she just let me go?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3258 days ago

19 January 2016 (M)

age 41-50 - I found a piece of paper with several male user names and names of certain free dating sites, on the bathroom floor, but however much she denied it - I know my girlfriends handwriting. It got the best of me and I became quite obsessive about finding out the truth. I did, we ... (181 words)

I realize things are over but am afraid to break up with unstable girlfriend

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3259 days ago

19 January 2016 (M)

age 26-29 - so, i have been in a relationship with my girlfriend for almost two years, i am now 17 and realise that our relationship is going nowhere. We have absolutely nothing in common and i don't enjoy talking to her any more. I feel that if I break up with her she will do something ... (102 words)

Should I be expected to do everything at the home because I don't work?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3258 days ago

19 January 2016 (F)

age 26-29 - So I live with my boyfriend in a small town, and since we are currently in a recession I don't have a job. I stay at home and make sure the animals are fed, cook meals, do laundry, ect. When he comes home supper is ready, we eat and he games out for a couple of hours, and then ... (192 words)

I think my mother is with someone who is going to use her but I can't talk to her and know I am losing the relationship with my mom

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3259 days ago

19 January 2016 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid, My father passed away a couple of years ago from dementia. My mother started having an affair with a married man when he was ill (5 years ago). He was working for my parents at the time. She is 75. The relationship has developed and she is moving him into her h... (478 words)

I got herpes from boyfriend while pregnant, turned into staph infection, I terminated the pregnanc and now he doesn't act the same towards me

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3258 days ago

19 January 2016 (F)

age 41-50 - He was my first. I got pregnant.I was ecstatic.He had genital herpes all the time.He just never had an outbreak.so he didn't know.I caught it during the first trimester and had an outbreak all over my cervix.The doctor wrote it on paper that genital herpes affected the ... (211 words)

After 10 years together we are taking a break and I'm sad and confused

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3258 days ago

19 January 2016 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello, I'm going through very difficult times with my 10 year boyfriend and also best friend. During our relationship (we started dating when I was 19 and he was 21) I have been very selfish and not doing nearly enough for someone I love and loved me so much and did everythi... (939 words)

Fiancé keeps nude and masturbation photos of previous ex's

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3258 days ago

19 January 2016 (F)

age 36-40 - I feel silly and embarrassed for bringing this up, but it's been bothering me all day. My fiancé and I have been together for over 3 years and we are getting married in 6 months. For the most part, we have a good relationship, but an insecurity that I have always had is that my ... (316 words)

Is it normal that every time my boyfriend goes out he comes home completely drunk?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3259 days ago

19 January 2016 (F)

age 30-35 - Is it normal when my partner goes out with friends, he comes home pissed drunk? My boyfriend does not hang out a lot with his friends, probably once a month, or once every one and a half months. But when he does, he always gets drunk or tipsy. He assures me that he gets hom... (167 words)

Online guy has me confused. I think he wants me to pursue him even though he gives nothing back

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3259 days ago

19 January 2016 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi again all, the online dating drama continues! So I've been messaging a man online for a couple of weeks and he seemed really nice. He told me upfront he's looking for a relationship, as am I, but his actions since then have me confused and frankly a little turned off. ... (411 words)

How do I get my guy to be less of a gentleman?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3258 days ago

19 January 2016 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi. I have met this great guy. As soon as I dated him, I could see that he was as good as he looks. I look at the way he is with his son and my family and could really love him.He's so sweet, but sort of shy with me. He kisses me and calls me baby. I am weak in the knees. But ... (97 words)

My FWB partner didn't seem right so I stopped the sex but then she was angry! Didn't I do the right thing?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3258 days ago

19 January 2016 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey guys, I am utterly shocked at the moment and need someone to help me clarify what happened. I have been in a friends with benefits relationship with another woman (both girls) for a few months now. Things have been amazing!! Sex was intensely phenomenal and we both alwa... (474 words)

Using the word "love" in greeting, birthday, or holiday cards.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3259 days ago

19 January 2016 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi everyone, I'm curious what women think about this question. Now that the holidays are over Ive gone through all my Christmas cards again as I usually do before I put them away for the year. I keep every card I receive because if someone took the time to send it to me, I... (178 words)