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Archived questions from: 18 January, 2016 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I'm afraid my boyfriend will compare my privates to his ex girlfriends and won't like what he sees!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3259 days ago

18 January 2016 (F)

age 22-25 - Hi all I'm a 16 year old virgin with a major concern, my left inner Laos is stretched and hangs down past the outer lips by quite a way, while my right labia is normal? The stretched on is also like a purple colour and rubs against my underwear and gets uncomfortable if anyone ... (101 words)

He Named His Song After Me But We Never Dated, Is This Normal?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3260 days ago

18 January 2016 (F)

age 30-35 - I was flirting with this guy whos a bit older (in his late 20s). We met recently and stuff moved really fast. We were about to start dating but TBH he was starting to be a dick so when he asked me out I said no (nicely) and when he pressed me I explained that I felt he was too ... (212 words)

I don't want to offend my in-laws but why do they just show up and not call first???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3259 days ago

18 January 2016 (F)

age 41-50 - Can anyone tell me why people would repeatedly call in unannounced, after so many failed visits (turning up when no one is home)? My inlaws love visiting us, at least once every two days. They live half an hour away and where we live isn't on their way to anything - it's ... (433 words)

A day hasn't gone by that I am not obsessed with his ex

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3259 days ago

18 January 2016 (F)

age 36-40 - This is a very strange problem. I've been with my boyfriend (now fiancé) for 2.5 years and life is perfect.... Except I'm obsessed with his ex which I have been since day 1. To start with I recognised it was due to their 4 year relationship ending 3 months before he met me. In ... (1181 words)

Was my boss stepping over the boundaries?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3260 days ago

18 January 2016 (F)

age 36-40 - The other day my boss joked that he wanted to delete his diary because he was fed up with meetings. Then he asked me if I had ever thought about doing something I shouldn't do. I made a joke and said no never because I am a saint. Then he said he thought about it... (315 words)

Tired of being the other woman but...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3257 days ago

18 January 2016 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi everyone, Am struggling following the break-up of a sexual relationship with a married man. We started as friends, which evolved into a FWB. We would hang out if I made plans for movies etc. Even though he always said how much he would like to take me out, he couldn't... (215 words)

Tried to help my friend but her mum's furious

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3260 days ago

18 January 2016 (F)

age 22-25 - My best friend was dating this jerk and I told her she should dump him the first day they started dating. Two days later he dumped her. He said, "I know this will not work out. I'm still in love with... (who is another best friend who has a boyfriend)." Obviously this made her ... (147 words)

She wants everything. Should I walk?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3259 days ago

18 January 2016 (M)

age - Been going out with a woman, for a month, she tells me if I want to continue to see her, I have to buy her gifts, cards, flowers, and take her out two times a week. Do I walk away? She said she will give me two days to make up my mind. I sure know how to pick the winners.... (61 words)

Worried I'm not his fantasy girl

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3260 days ago

18 January 2016 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend's type of porn bothers me. He loves chubby girls with big big boobs and big butts and round faces. I'm not usually too jealous because i know he loves me and how i look too, but lately he's been super stressed with work lately and isn't in the mood for sex. He ... (149 words)

Can I have independence and still keep my marriage?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3259 days ago

18 January 2016 (F)

age 51-59 - Can someone tell me what's happening with me? I am in my mid 40 s, been married for 25 years, one grown up child that is independent and lives on her own. I have a hard time staying in this marriage the way my husband wants it to be. I have a hard time staying faithful, t... (388 words)

At what point do I worry about what my husband is doing on facebook?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3260 days ago

18 January 2016 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello this is my first time posting in this website, I enjoy reading all the responses and questions which come up in the site. I guess now it's my turn. :) I will try to keep a long story short. I am 29 years old and my husband is 37. We have been married 3 years and togeth... (234 words)

I flirted with a crush that is my boyfriend's friend and our room mate. How do I get things back to normal?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3259 days ago

18 January 2016 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm in a very confusing situation at the moment. I temporarily live with my boyfriend and his 3 flat mates. They are all boys about my age (19-21). Not an ideal situation to start with but on New Year's Eve while drunk with my friends I called one of the boys. The phone ... (193 words)

How do I stop giving off weird vibes and become a likeable approachable guy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3260 days ago

18 January 2016 (M)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupids, Happy new year to all of you. I am very lost when it comes to interacting with people.I have always been a reserved person and prefer not to socialize(this is very exhausting to me) but I crave friendships and relationships. I find it very ... (244 words)

I don't know how to label myself!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3260 days ago

18 January 2016 (F)

age 26-29 - So I'm confused on what to label myself as and how to take a step towards my sexuality and getting to know people. First of, I'll admit that I'm bi. Yet, when I was looking at some types online I found the butch/femme lesbian type relationship and immediately considered myself ... (170 words)

Why do I get these feelings? I have no desire to be with a girl!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3260 days ago

18 January 2016 (F)

age 22-25 - Im very confused. Ive always had feelings for guys and crushes on guys but often times i often look at girls butts and get "tense" in the area if u know what i mean. I hate these feelings and im still very attracted to guys. What do i do? I have no desire to like or be with a ... (60 words)

Can we be friends or am I fooling myself?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3260 days ago

18 January 2016 (F)

age 51-59 - Please explain what is going on here: This guy and I had been friends for a while. One day he said he found me attractive and I said that I had hots for him too. We ended up having sex for a few months, hanging out, texting, calling, etc. One day he drunk texted me and sa... (157 words)

I love this man but I don't trust him!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3261 days ago

18 January 2016 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok, so I posted on here not to long ago but I seem to be having a problem... A few months ago, back in september, around my fiance and i's anniversary, I caught him online talking to other women, calling them beautiful, making sexual remarks and other things. I love him so much ... (271 words)