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Archived questions from: 31 January, 2016 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

How do I handle this invitation?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3215 days ago

31 January 2016 (F)

age 36-40 - I am in a conundrum! So I am planning a destination wedding. Mostly to weed out a lot of family members I have no close relation too. This way it will be simple, relaxed, and a nice time with people I care about and care about me. I recently was talking with a scho... (259 words)

Boyfriend proposed but I feel unsure!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3216 days ago

31 January 2016 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend of 8 years proposed! It was a complete shock. We had talked about getting married in the future and joked about it, but I wasn't expecting a proposal! I definitely love him, but I feel more anxious and embarrassed than excited. I literally didn't know what to say ... (90 words)

What is wrong with me that I get involved with a married man? Why am I such a mess?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3216 days ago

31 January 2016 (F)

age 41-50 - What is wrong with me?? Please tell me what's wrong with me. I am ending an alcoholic marriage and am getting divorced. It has been very sad for many years and then i get involved with a married man for the last 18 months cos he was kind and caring. He doesn't have chi... (231 words)

I've been dreaming of my ex. Should I send him a valentine message?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3216 days ago

31 January 2016 (F)

age 41-50 - Please help me make a decision. I meet up with my first love in the Summer last year. It was great seeing him after not seeing him for over 10 years. We dated a few times, the chemistry between us was amazing. After date 2 he really came on to me and we had sex although I d... (235 words)

My husband is demanding a MMF and I want no part of it. Where is this coming from?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3208 days ago

31 January 2016 (F)

age - My husband of 37 years is now demanding an mmf. He also recently started working his finger in my anus during intercourse and insists on oral from me right after sex without wiping my juices off of his penis. I don't know where this is coming from. Every vacation he begs me to ... (78 words)

If he's really interested wouldn't he make more of an effort to see me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3216 days ago

31 January 2016 (F)

age 51-59 - Dear Cupid, I've been out of the dating world for awhile so looking for advice. I met a man on-line, he lives fairly close to me, has a good job, I know he is really single, my age, no children, but the only days he would see me would be on Wednesday or Saturday, which wa... (207 words)

I'm straight, my bi bff hits on me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3216 days ago

31 January 2016 (F)

age 30-35 - I am straight and a girl and my bff has recently come out as bisexual a few months ago. We all knew it by then, though. I don't have a problem with that at all, BUT... My problem is that she is hitting on me in public and when we are alone together! It makes me feel extremel... (157 words)

What can you advise in this situation? It feels like I am option two.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3216 days ago

31 January 2016 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been seeing this guy for a few weeks and it's been amazing. The connection is unlike anything I've experienced in such a long time. I started to fall in love with him the second I first saw him. Magic. We love each others company, the sex is the best and will go for hour... (459 words)

Should I be worried that I have puffy areolas? I am worried they will be a turn off for guys.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3215 days ago

31 January 2016 (F)

age 22-25 - So I'm 16 and I have really puffy areolas. I read somewhere that they level out as puberty progresses but I guess I've passed that stage already and I'm stuck like this. I hate it because I always have to wear a bra, even around the l the house I cannot get myself to go brale... (170 words)

Should I encourage him to take the job? Can our marriage survive as a LDR for 3 to 5 years?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3216 days ago

31 January 2016 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupids, I am a 35 year old woman, married with no kids. I love my husband and I love our life together. Yesterday he told me that his firm is considering sending him in a remote country 10hrs away by plane and he would have to work there for two months, then come back f... (210 words)

Why am I only attracted to troubled women?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3216 days ago

31 January 2016 (F)

age 36-40 - I've wondered this for a while. Why am I only attracted to troubled women? Or women who are either bad for me or I can't have? I've never, ever had trouble in the female department. In fact, I would say I've been very fortunate. I've always been able to get girls, but t... (230 words)

Why do I only attract creepy men?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2583 days ago

31 January 2016 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, so I'm 23 year old, and I've never been kissed or had a boyfriend, but that's not the point of this post. It might help you all understand my situation. I live in a big city so it's quite normal to get a bit of street harassment. But I have noticed lately that the ... (437 words)

How can I talk to someone who won't admit to doing anything wrong?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3216 days ago

31 January 2016 (F)

age 36-40 - I feel like my boyfriend of 3 years is taking me for granted. I feel like he thinks he doesn't have to treat me well because I'm just going to put up with it. In the past, I have put up with it and I haven't said anything because I didn't want to deal with a conflict. But late... (331 words)