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Archived questions from: 2 January, 2016 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I'm a manager and have fallen for one of our volunteers

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3276 days ago

2 January 2016 (F)

age 41-50 - Feels weird for me to ask others for advice like this but guess I need some perspective, thanks in advance. I am a manager and work with volunteers. I have a dilemma and kind of need someone to bring me back to earth. I have strong feelings for someone at work who is a vo... (550 words)

My boyfriend dumped me after I slapped him

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3276 days ago

2 January 2016 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi again.. I'm had a huge argument with my boyfriend of 2 years last night.. We argued over how he's getting to the airport when he goes on holiday with his friends in March. I'm upset he's going away for one and secondly I wanted to take him to the airport.. He and his fri... (230 words)

My boyfriend told me he loved me and the next day he moved in with another woman

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3274 days ago

2 January 2016 (F)

age 51-59 - Need help dealing with what happened. I was dating a man for four years with the relationship never progressing or no talk of a future. Finally after 3 1/2 years he proposed but still wouldn't talk about marriage. We dated another six months still he refused to talk abo... (227 words)

I tend to date men I think my dad would approve of even though they're not compatible with me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3274 days ago

2 January 2016 (F)

age 30-35 - My father and I were very close when I was a child. My mom worked weekends, so he stayed home with me. My parents have a great partnership and my dad always contributed equally. When I was around 10 I started experiencing some serious anxiety issues. I was always very emot... (413 words)

I can't seem to make a relationship with a man work

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3201 days ago

2 January 2016 (F)

age 30-35 - I recently broke up with my boyfriend. We were together for about 6 months. This was my longest relationship and I lost my virginity to him. As with most of my past relationships, they start very exciting and lovey-dovey, then fizzle out. We had about 2 great months together,... (241 words)

He tends to go quiet after we're together -- will he do it again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3276 days ago

2 January 2016 (F)

age 41-50 - Am I reading too much into my New Years date..? I met a guy 6 mths ago on match. There is a slight age gap he is 52, 12 yrs older. I felt there was a spark between us and we did meet up several times. He seemed interested but I got the impression he was multi dating so I didn't... (274 words)

Glad they're happy, but should I let them know how well sound carries in their house?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3276 days ago

2 January 2016 (F)

age - not sure what to do .but recently baby sat for my son and daughter in law..as they may have been late home i stayed over..was nice that they went out .as ive been feeling that they not realy in love .as they never show efection or kiss around the family ..and they see dad and ... (177 words)

My BF sent me a text saying he misses me and that he is frisky and then disappears after I answer him!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3276 days ago

2 January 2016 (F) age 41-50 - I don't understand men sometimes or do I not understand their texting habits. Or just texting? Or are my expectations too high? My BF texted me to say he misses me and that he is turned on and wanting to have sex with me. I responded back to that text pretty quickly as you w... (256 words)

The relationship is rocky and I don't quite know what to do

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3251 days ago

2 January 2016 (F)

age 30-35 - I don't even know where to start... I don't know what to do anymore. Basically me and my partner of a year and a half now are on very rocky times, if you ask him he would probably tell you it's entirely my fault, but as usual only about 20% of his story would be true. I wi... (361 words)

I want to ask him if the kisses mean something more

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3274 days ago

2 January 2016 (F)

age 26-29 - Have you ever fallen for someone only after you've kissed them? I was at a New Years party with a bunch of people I used to go to school with, and this one guy in particular. I've known him for 6 years and he really is the loveliest guy I know and we've been friends for ages. ... (188 words)

Not sure if this FWB is turning in to more

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3276 days ago

2 January 2016 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey guys. I have a question about a fwb. First off, I'm a gay female. I have been friends with this girl off and on for years, but have never hooked up until recently. We used to work together and I always thought she was sexy as hell, and we kind of innocently flirt... (842 words)

When exactly is a good time to tell a guy you're a virgin??

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3276 days ago

2 January 2016 (F)

age 26-29 - when exactly is a good time to tell a guy you're a virgin?? I'm a virgin and I have not even had oral sex. I honestly don't want to because I think the idea is really gross. I know a lot of girls who did it and they thought it was gross too and one of my good friends sai... (662 words)

I feel really nervous and I'm feeling hesitant about getting engaged. Is this a normal reaction? Or a sign that I sense something wrong?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3276 days ago

2 January 2016 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been with my boyfriend for a year but we've been friends for a decade before that (met as kids). We are at that age where everyone is getting engaged and I think he plans on asking that question soon. I love him a lot and everyone thinks hes a great guy but i feel r... (153 words)

Our relationsip has gone stale. Any ideas?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3276 days ago

2 January 2016 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been with my boyfriend for about 5 years. For the past 2 years, our conversations have declined to the point where we don't even hang out any more because all we do is sit in silence. And that is kind of weird don't you think? If we do talk then its over Skype, facebook,... (411 words)

My fiance and I broke up. How can I get through this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3276 days ago

2 January 2016 (F)

age 30-35 - I was in a relationship for 4 years and we were engaged to get married in the summer of 2016. I really loved him I was so looking forward to marrying my best friend. We talked about children often, and he was just my whole world. Every time I looked at him I just fel... (464 words)