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Archived questions from: 10 January, 2016 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

She complained against me. Am I justified in being cold towards her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3263 days ago

10 January 2016 (M)

age 51-59 - I have a weird situation. I'm taking a tennis class, and I got an odd phone call from the person who runs the tennis classes telling me they had a complaint that I (and a few other people) weren't good enough to be in that class. I spoke to the instructor and he said that as ... (123 words)

Should I risk it all admitting my love?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3266 days ago

10 January 2016 (F)

age 30-35 - Last year,this guy came into my life, and i don't know how to tell him i love him. If I tell him how i feel it might wreck the friendship. If i don't then i will suffer my feelings. What should i do? Please help me.... (46 words)

Will he ever commit or am I risking a heartbreak?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3266 days ago

10 January 2016 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been "seeing" a man for almost 8 months. It started as an office flirtation as both of us were going through a divorce. I don't think either of us expected it to go anywhere. We started going to dinners and movies and he introduced me to his two young children. We did ... (459 words)

Boyfriend spends all his time with his friends and my daughter and I are never his priority

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3267 days ago

10 January 2016 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi my problem is I've been with my boyfriend for 3 year we live together and have a gorgeous 1 yr old baby girl the problem is since we got together we don't spend any time together I've asked him so many times to spend more time with us but he just doesn't listen all he is ... (131 words)

Why couldn't he have come back in my life before I got married

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 3246 days ago

10 January 2016 (F)

age 41-50 - I feel my life is a movie right now and I need help please. Years ago when I was 22 (I'm now 34) I met and fell in love with this guy, my age and we were together almost 2 years. I was convinced he was "the one." He then got an opportunity to study in America so he decided we... (507 words)

Looking back, I don't understand her

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3265 days ago

10 January 2016 (M)

age 51-59 - Now that the relationship is over, I'm still dealing with a lot of unanswered questions as to what kind of woman I was seeing all these years. She often accused me of not "getting" her, or that men don't "get" her. It's as if she's trying to convey that she's special and can ... (343 words)

Is her lack of experience going to be an issue down the line

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3268 days ago

10 January 2016 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey all! So recently I've been dating this girl (21 years old) with next to no serious, romantic relationship experience. In her words, she's never been even close to having one. I've been trying to respect her embarrassment over how awkward she can get about relationsh... (616 words)

Is he a psycho? Is he trying to have friendship on his terms?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3267 days ago

10 January 2016 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Aunts, a dilemma has been haunting my life since 3 years. A guy I was on/off with For 3 years has re-entered my life after he asked me to never contact him again In June. he wasn't being available and consistent so I burst and freaked out one day and we had a fight and no ... (236 words)

If there's a decent chance, how do I bring up the possibility of a FWB with my neighbour?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3267 days ago

10 January 2016 (M)

age 30-35 - For the last few years, I have been living next door to a single mother and two adolescent children. For a long time, our relationship was strictly neighborly. We talked on occasion and got along great. Sometime around the start of the year, we were alone in her garage and the ... (192 words)

But why the sudden blanking...what does it mean?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3268 days ago

10 January 2016 (F)

age 30-35 - I split up with my ex a year and a half ago. It was pretty messy he ended up going to prison for being an idiot, all alcohol related. He has a problem with alcohol. It was over because I couldn't deal with the stress of it anymore. We didn't stop loving each other. While he ... (494 words)

Am I putting too much worth into text messages and missing the big picture?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3268 days ago

10 January 2016 (F)

age 51-59 - I've recently asked a question, but for my new question I need more advice on how I've been feeling on a deeper level. I'm in a LDR where I temporarily live in China for work and my boyfriend in US (13 hr time difference). I've known him for 4 years (before China) as great ... (512 words)

If my ex tries to talk to me, should I listen, or stay with the new partner?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3268 days ago

10 January 2016 (M)

age - Met someone new, three dates, going great, showing me more then my ex did, but am still in love with my ex. In my past, this has happened, more then once, when things were really starting to be great with the new one, my ex would pop back in the picture, saying all the right th... (124 words)

Was my Irritable Bowel Syndrome a turn off? he has not contacted me since I fell ill.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3266 days ago

10 January 2016 (F)

age 51-59 - I suffer from IBS and told my boyfriend this when we started seeing each other 2 months ago. Last weekend we planned to sleep together but as I had a IBS attack this did not happen and since then I have not heard from him. Even after sending texts and leaving answerphone mess... (60 words)

I'm fed up and tired of my girlfriend and her drama. There's a new woman on the scene. How do I approach her?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3264 days ago

10 January 2016 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello, I have been in a relationship with my gf for almost three years. However throughout those years it's been good and it has been REAL bad. She has a short temper and gets mad real easy. She also loves to argue. When I ignore her she comes back and act like nothing ... (218 words)