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age
26-29,
anonymous
writes:hiya,i have been in a long distance relationship with my boyfriend for almost 2 years. we have a 10 year age gap and met in july 2013 online, he then asked me to be his partner the following February.recently when on one of his female friends's profile page i noticed a lot of pictures of her and my bf. we don't get to see each other that often due to time, distance and work so i thought it was odd that he had all this time to spend with her, so i messaged him asking if he was cheating on me. he and his friends explained that they've all been really good friends for over 10 years and nothing has happened. he then mentioned that he understands why im upset (he doesn't use this particular social site so isn't aware of what's on her profile) because it does look odd and he explained that he spends time with her and others simply because they're all local and its rare that they all get together due to some having kids.he promised me that nothing is going on however i'm not totally convinced, am i just being paranoid?
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reader, linzey +, writes (1 March 2016):
 you are not paranoid.you are just anxious about it because you like him.dont worry this happens to a lot of girls.it has even happend to me before so dont worry the feeling will eventually pass
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reader, Denizen +, writes (6 January 2016):
 Long distance relationships aren't ideal even for partners who have been committed for a long time. Lovers are meant to be together. When they aren't it puts a strain on a relationship. Sometimes it changes the relationship.
It may be time for you to evaluate this situation. Leaving aside the third party, how do you see your love flourishing? What is going to happen to bring you together?
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