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Archived questions from: 13 January, 2016 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I wish he would grow up

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3264 days ago

13 January 2016 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi I'm in a relationship which up until recently was going really well my boyfriend is 29 but will not grow up he acts like a kid lately. I've been feeling very neglected by him as he makes no time for me at all we live together but I feel like we live separate lives I have... (103 words)

Anger management hell with father in law

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3263 days ago

13 January 2016 (F)

age 51-59 - I need advice about my how to deal with my husband's family, in particular, his dad.. He is old school and I get the distinct feeling he has little respect for women. His current wife is number 3, who was a mistress he got pregnant and brought her home to live with the fami... (932 words)

Am I an idiot to keep responding to him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3265 days ago

13 January 2016 (F)

age 51-59 - Met a guy from a dating site 2 years ago. Met him on and off throughout and we just meet for sex. last time i saw him was about two months ago. I would of liked him to of wanted more then sex but i know he doesn't. The sex is alright but i know he is only out for his own ... (473 words)

He's chatting on porn sites and I feel deceived

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3264 days ago

13 January 2016 (F)

age 41-50 - I am in a very happy marriage (or so I thought) until I discovered my husband was secretly contacting other women on porn sites. He told me it was pure fantasy and meant nothing and that he would stop as I had got so upset. He does not see this as cheating in any way and is n... (251 words)

Should I be lead by my dream life?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3264 days ago

13 January 2016 (F)

age 30-35 - I have had most of my dreams not all come to pass. Over 10 years ago, I had a dream that I had an operation on my breasts and I wasn't happy. About 4 years ago, I discovered a painful lump in my left breast and both my breast have been hurting ever since occasionally. I ha... (183 words)

Am I a shopaholic?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3264 days ago

13 January 2016 (F)

age 30-35 - Anytime I feel bad or stressed, I go out and get new clothes. And I have felt bad a lot of times last year and just had my first bad feeling today. So out I am to get new clothes. I can't help it. Does this make me a shopaholic. I am currently unemployed and barely making en... (66 words)

What's a reasonable degree of involvement with your in-laws?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3264 days ago

13 January 2016 (F)

age - I'd like to have opinions from the Dc community about what's a reasonable / sustainable degree of involvement with your in laws. ( I have my own opinion, and I am also pretty sanguine about it- but, although I hate to admit it :) I can't always be right , and I am curio... (699 words)

Help me deal with heartbreak after a break up

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3262 days ago

13 January 2016 (M)

age 41-50 - A few days after Christmas, my now EX of three months invited me to her place for lunch. When I arrived she seemed a little distant, and started crying. I knew right away that whatever it was we had, was now over... She said that she wasn't ready to live within the confi... (370 words)

My first date from hell! What shall I do next?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3264 days ago

13 January 2016 (M)

age 36-40 - MY FIRST DATE FROM HELL So I was chatting to a lady for a few weeks. I met up with her 30 miles away from where I live and we went for a meal. Everything was grate and we got on really well and had a laugh, we went to her local for a drink after the meal and she seen one of ... (546 words)

Girlfriend's sister has me rattled

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3265 days ago

13 January 2016 (M)

age 36-40 - I am finding my girlfriend's sister really annoying lately and feel like I'm getting to the point where im gonna say something or snap. I'm trying to be understanding because she has recently got out of a long-term relationship, moved back home where my gf lives and dived ... (121 words)

Old fashioned parents spoiling my big day

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3265 days ago

13 January 2016 (F)

age 22-25 - Hi, I'm almost 17 and this is my last school year. My mom have this 'bohemian "evening" dress' that was made in Indonesia, which my gran got her but my mom never wore it so she gave it to me. I'm grateful for that and all cause the dress fits me and it's real pretty in i... (415 words)

Am I with the wrong guy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3265 days ago

13 January 2016 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi agony aunts, hope you can help. Years ago i had this boyfriend. He was romantic, passionate, funny we were so in sync andthe sex was fantastic he was so in tune to my needs, however i was very young at the time and a very difficult teenager to be around so we broke up. Hes... (440 words)

He's hurt and deceived me - please help

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3265 days ago

13 January 2016 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello everyone. I really need some advice as I'm completely devastated. My boyfriend of 5 years confessed to me about a week ago that he met another woman a couple months back and that he's fallen in love with her. Not only that but my boyfriend is leaving me to pursue a ... (370 words)

How do I win through her shyness?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3265 days ago

13 January 2016 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm a sophomore in college, and I share many classes with a girl I find attractive. I'm not into dating someone immediately, I prefer to have a friendship with them first, but the girl I like is very quiet. Whenever we have free time and other people are chatting, she's usually ... (132 words)

Parents coming between us

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3265 days ago

13 January 2016 (F)

age 26-29 - My parents disapprove of my boyfriend because he is of a different race. They keep nagging me about going out with him and today, my mom said that she's disappointed in me for choosing this guy. I'm 21 this year. Not only that, they also think that dating will affect my studi... (119 words)

Can't make head nor tail of this on/off friendship

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3265 days ago

13 January 2016 (F)

age 36-40 - I had a strong crush on an old colleague of mine. She and I use to be so close when I first started working at my old job. We use to laugh, flirt, chat and she would stare at me and smile all the time. She came to me one day and asked me for my number and I gave it to her. We ... (337 words)

When is right to ask her over?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3264 days ago

13 January 2016 (M)

age - Hi, is four dates, too early to ask to come over to her place, bring a movie, and popcorn so we can be alone, and snuggle. We have been out dancing, out to eat, talking on the phone, that is texing. I have ask, she says its too early. I don't drink. She is taking one month of... (99 words)