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Archived questions from: 28 January, 2016 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I need my boyfriend's support but he is distant and uncommunicative

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3218 days ago

28 January 2016 (F)

age 26-29 - I have been with my boyfriend for 4 months and we were dating for two months prior to this. Initially I was really happy with how our relationship was, we were really close friends before hand so it just kind of seemed to flow. But in the past month I have found him to be so ... (262 words)

My sister is closer to our sister in law than me and it hurts!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3218 days ago

28 January 2016 (F)

age 51-59 - What would you do you sister in law and you sister were better friends than with you, sometimes family hurt you the most..? none of you see each other often, maybe 1-2 times a year as you live in different places, they have more in common as they are married and have kids, I ... (289 words)

I have feelings for her and don't want he to change

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3219 days ago

28 January 2016 (M)

age 26-29 - Hello I have a friend that I have known since middle school, they are one of my closest friends and I have had feelings for them for a long time. The only problem is they want to have a sex change from a woman to a man. As much as I respect her I do not want her to go through ... (110 words)

I need to focus on finding myself but don't know where to stop

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3218 days ago

28 January 2016 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello Everyone I need advice on getting my health and energy back on track. I have a very stressful job but it's gotten to the point where I am blaming my lack of energy, and poor eating, failed relationship and not going to gym on my work which is true however I've given ... (274 words)

My boyfriend of 2 years came inside me for the first time after sex. Why did he do this?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3218 days ago

28 January 2016 (F) age 30-35 - My boyfriend came inside me after having sex. He always pulls out and this is the first time in 2 years he has ever done this. So I am wondering if I need to be concerned by the change in behaviour. Why do this after all this time when he has never done this before? He to... (152 words)

He's a good guy but I don't like the way he talks to me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3219 days ago

28 January 2016 (M)

age 26-29 - I have been dating this guy since November, we are not official yet but have told one another that we aren't talking or interested in other people. Lately we have been fighting, fights that I may cause but its because of how he talks to me. For example before he goes to work he ... (174 words)

I can't move past the bad experiences I had in my former job

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3215 days ago

28 January 2016 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm having trouble dealing and moving past previous bad experiences at work and other things. I've been to the doctors and they have implied (not officially diagnosed anything) that I have anxiety. Although I don't worry per se more beat myself up and make myself feel bad. My ... (761 words)

Why does an extra marital affair last 3 years and still going strong?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3218 days ago

28 January 2016 (F) age 51-59 - What are the reasons an extra marital affair lasts going on 3 years?? Do most of them not end sooner? And realistically how much longer can it continue? Why does a married man stay this long with another woman? Surely it isn't a lapse in judgment, a mistake, fling or o... (123 words)

I'm worried about spending time with my boyfriend's son. He has behavioral problems

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3218 days ago

28 January 2016 (F) age 36-40 - I've been with my boyfriend for 2 years. We moved in together a few months ago, relocated to a new city and all. We're both 27. He has an 8 year old son. I met him when he was a little younger, and we had a good relationship from the start. He seems to like me a lot. Th... (810 words)

My husband won't stop badgering me about having a threesome

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3219 days ago

28 January 2016 (F)

age - My husband of 18 years has been pressuring me to have a threesome with another man. I am not comfortable with this but he keeps insisting that he wants to share me with either a friend of his or one of my choice. I am 60 and not real comfortable with my body. I am not into anal ... (78 words)

He's moving too fast and its turning me off. Do I just end things?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3218 days ago

28 January 2016 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi all, a bit of advice is required here please. I met a guy on an online dating app and we've been speaking for about a week. He told me I'm the first person he's been speaking to since his 11 year relationship broke down so I appreciate he is new to this. We are supposed to ... (274 words)

I'm not ready to have a baby but he is!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3219 days ago

28 January 2016 (F)

age 30-35 - So I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for 4 years now. There is a large age gap, and he is at a place where he is ready to settle down and have kids. I on the other hand am open to the idea of marriage, but not having kids any time in the near future. I love kids ... (387 words)

Does he want it to be over?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3215 days ago

28 January 2016 (F)

age 36-40 - I met a foreign man living in the UK over two months ago and immediately entered into an intimate and sexual relationship and fell for him. He is 7 years my senior and at the moment he is working day till night all over the country so I never get to see him. Our last date was ... (540 words)

I slept with my brother's friend and hated it

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3219 days ago

28 January 2016 (F)

age 36-40 - I recently slept with my brother's friend. I knew the guy for a couple years and had a crush on him. We get along well and share common interests like playing boardgames so we always play games together with my brother. Whenever I hang out with that guy, there's always a ... (310 words)

I like him but am not attracted to him. Will attraction grow?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3218 days ago

28 January 2016 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi aunts and uncles, I'm after a bit of relationship advice. I met and have started dating a man through an online dating forum. We get on like a house on fire - same sense of humour, same take on life. We're both quite quirky so it's extremely rare for me to meet someone ... (212 words)

If I have to ask "where is this relationship going?" the answer is probably "nowhere".

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3219 days ago

28 January 2016 (F)

age - I am a 54 yo female, divorced for 6 years, no children. He is a 60 yo male, divorced for 5 years, he has a 20 yo son who lives out west, another son who lives away as a college freshman and a third son who lives with him who is a HS sophomore. I reconnected with Dean via FB... (667 words)