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Archived questions from: 25 January, 2016 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I'm very self conscious about the cold sores on my mouth and worried about what others think

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3252 days ago

25 January 2016 (F)

age 26-29 - I've been feeling really insecure and self-conscious recently because I have these two horrible cold sores on both corners of my mouth that look disgusting and really hurt! I know this may seem like such a small thing to be moaning about when there are people who are in a much ... (247 words)

Is it normal for a person to have crushes on other people while in a relationship and do nothing about it in the sense that they don't act on it

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3253 days ago

25 January 2016 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello, I've been classmates with this girl for around three years now in college, and she intrigues me quite a bit. Let me explain: during our first year she seemed to be a rather shy and socially awkward person. Cute, but very weird. She was one of the few though whom h... (545 words)

I've developed a crush on my former FWB but he's moved on

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3253 days ago

25 January 2016 (F)

age 26-29 - I was having a friends with benefits relationship with a guy in my first term at university and when we went home for Christmas we were texting all holidays saying that we couldn't wait to get back and carry it on. It was over the holidays i realised i had started getting ... (399 words)

It happened once, why cant it happen again?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3253 days ago

25 January 2016 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello. So every weekend, I go over to my partner's house and we do it. Recently I had my first "orgasm"-- well that's what he said happened. A bunch of stuff just gushed out and I pushed him out of me. That new feeling happened so quick it was hard to really tell what happened. ... (241 words)

My boyfriend said he has too much invested in me. What does this mean?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3252 days ago

25 January 2016 (F) age 51-59 - I have been with my boyfriend for over 2 years. We were talking the other day. Some what if's type of conversation. I asked him if he would ever leave me or leave me for someone else and he said he has everything he wants and needs from me and more. That that would never ... (86 words)

I don't even know my mystery guy's name! Does he like me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3253 days ago

25 January 2016 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey everyone! I just need some opinions on a situation that has been developing between me and this guy at university, sorry if this is quite long! So back in around October I was at the pub with my friends and saw this guy, who looked like maybe a 2nd or 3rd year (I'm a freshe... (358 words)

He loves using the internet. Am I wrong to distrust him when he wants to stay up late while I sleep?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3252 days ago

25 January 2016 (F)

age 51-59 - My boyfriend and I have been dating and living together over 3 Years, we have had a lot of problems but seem to hang on... I have troubles with trust because he is a internet addict, talks to other women in a way he should not and also has been on dating sites.... So he has... (102 words)

Did I cheat and how do I fix it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3253 days ago

25 January 2016 (F)

age 26-29 - I've just gone through a breakup and I really need an opinion on what to or whether I actually did something wrong to deserve being broken up with. I started dating a guy about 2 months ago. We went for a couple of drinks during the first week and planned to meet up the next... (635 words)

Considering breaking up, so why do I feel like crying, as if I'm losing something?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3253 days ago

25 January 2016 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid I'm dating an guy for past 3 months, I connect with him so well it scares the hell out of me. I really like him, he never said anything about liking me, he is not really vocal in showing affection; his action also confuse me For past 3 days I didn't hear from h... (205 words)

Could it be that we are sexually incompatible? 110 percent compatible in every other way.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3253 days ago

25 January 2016 (F)

age 51-59 - I've been with my boyfriend for 8 months. During this time I have noticed that when we have intercourse he doesn't always reach orgasm. At first I put it down to us needing more time to get to know each other's bodies but now it is becoming a real issue for me as it makes me... (194 words)

Why are my friends giving me the 'cold shoulder'?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3253 days ago

25 January 2016 (M)

age - Is there a way to tell friends that they are not being good friends without screwing up the friendship? I have known this couple for a very long time, but in the last couple of years it feels like they have been giving me the cold shoulder: I invited them to dinner a few... (130 words)

Whenever we argue he gives me the silent treatment, sometimes for a week at a time!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3253 days ago

25 January 2016 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi I just wondered if anybody had been in the same boat and could give a little advice. I've been with my partner 4 years and have a child with him. The problem is whenever we argue he gives me the silent treatment for days, sometimes even a week! It's getting to the stage ... (229 words)

Is this the person she will always be? She hit me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3253 days ago

25 January 2016 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend and I were studying together in an empty classroom when she decided she was cold and wanted to do jumping jacks to warm up but said it would be too embarrassing. I said: it's not embarrassing and nobody is here but me so who cares. I also suggested she do squat... (330 words)

Suddenly he cannot get hard. How can I help him with this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3252 days ago

25 January 2016 (F)

age 30-35 - A little background on us, we've been dating since the week before thanksgiving 2015. It was fun and very exciting to build this new relationship and the sex was great! But suddenly he cannot keep hard no matter what I try. I didn't rush him asking why I just asked if he wante... (177 words)

Am I afraid of being happy? Should I nip this relationship in the bud or let it grow?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3253 days ago

25 January 2016 (F)

age 30-35 - Background: I haven't been in a relationship since I was in a multi-year-long tumultuous relationship in high school (my first and only). It was a physically and emotionally abusive relationship and I have avoided relationships for almost six years since that ended. Withi... (512 words)

She lied to me. Should I feel betrayed? First she claimed to be a virgin. Later she said otherwise..

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3252 days ago

25 January 2016 (M)

age 30-35 - Dear all Basically my girlfriend of about 9 months has always told me she is a virgin. that when we have sex it will be her first time. However, she has recently told me that she has had sex with more than 1 previous boyfriend, but said that she never did anything as sh... (163 words)

My retaliation hook-up has been weighing me down with guilt. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3254 days ago

25 January 2016 (F)

age 30-35 - my.boyfriend and I have been together almost 6 years. we have a 3 and 4 year old. when we first got together I had just gotten out of a bad relationship. in a bad place. anyways, he and my best friend had hooked up and I found out. I forgave both of them but then had re... (99 words)