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writes:So I'm 16 and I have really puffy areolas. I read somewhere that they level out as puberty progresses but I guess I've passed that stage already and I'm stuck like this. I hate it because I always have to wear a bra, even around the l the house I cannot get myself to go braless. I have D/E sized boobs and its just inconvenient the way they stick out. I'm also scared of ever being shirtless in front of a guy because they're marshmallows and looking down my boobs form non pointy pyramids. I'm scared that a guy will find it unattractive. They only harden and level out when it's really hot or cold in the atmosphere or after I have a really intense orgasm. But when the weathers normal and I'm not turned on they just stick out awkwardly. Do any guys find puffy areolas attractive? I know I shouldn't care what guys think of my body but I can't help it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 February 2016): Your body shouldn't look or be a certain way to be beautiful.
It is the way it is and completely different for each individual. You will be a very happy woman indeed if you embrace your body as is and treat it with love and care. The sexiest thing to have is confidence and that starts with loving yourself.
Google search 'breast gallery' to see just how different every woman is.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 February 2016): I remember these years of constant worries about how my body is not perfect.Then i figured out one thing: men usually do not care about details.I have size D, and of course, there is no magic. They were up until i gave birth, and now they are not so much up when i got older.men still compliment them. I always hated my butt. Its kind of a weird shape, flat on top, and a bit hanging on a bottom. Its round and a good size. I hated until i heard over and over again what a great butt i have. What do you know!!I have cellulite on my legs, not much but still, its there. Men dont care about that also. One guy told me he does not understand the big deal women make about cellulite. There are of course guys who are very specific about what kind of body they want in a woman. They are welcome to look for that special woman.
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reader, Sageoldguy1465  +, writes (1 February 2016):
 Believe me....no guy is going to pass judgement upon you based only upon the details of your breasts....
Go forth confidently... and give it not another thought....
Good luck.....
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 January 2016): You're not a guy, so stop trying to figure out what a guy thinks. You're too young to be body-conscious anyway; when you're still physically growing and your body is still developing.
I swear, it's "I'm too big" or "I'm too small." People are never grateful for who they are. Read about DNA, human physical-development; and get some science in your brain, before hurting yourself emotionally. Look into all sorts of bras and how they function.
You don't know what guys will like. Everyone has a different opinion about everything. You'll never please everyone; so be pleased with who you are. Period!
No, it's not easier said than done. Most of the stuff people hurt themselves with is not attributed to the cruelty of others; but self-inflicted, and pure vanity.
Please be kind to yourself now; so you will develop a positive mindset about who you are. Not the opposite. Guys don't get to make all the decisions about who you should be or how you should look. That's in your hands! Work on your self-confidence and nurture your self-love; because you're going to find that's more important.
A well-made bra hides what you don't want seen and compliments what you do. You're a girl, not a woman yet.
So save some things for when your mind is psychologically prepared and developed enough to deal with it. For now, nature is taking its course, and you're already creating concerns in your head that will make you miserable and undesirable; only because of your lack of love for yourself and self-destruction of your self-esteem.
There are easy remedies. All you have to do is ask your mother or any mature female! Most of all, embrace how you look and you will become a very happy woman with a glorious self-esteem! No man's opinion can change or penetrate that! It's what you feel about yourself, before concerning yourself with the opinions of others.
Trying to anticipate what people "might" think is like slamming your finger with a hammer; because you're afraid you're going to miss the nail anyway.
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (31 January 2016):
 But you should not get yourself to go braless, even around the house. You have E size boobs !, you need support to prevent sagging in time, and to avoid awkward,ungainly bouncing and dancing of your breasts. Plus, when you have a very voluminous bust , you are much more comfortable and protected from traumas with a bra on. Large breasts have a way of always ending up bumping into furniture and things if you don't always move around with the poised elegance of a ballet dancer ( believe me, I know ).
Anyway, no you do not have anything to worry. Or at least, an esthetic concern about puffy ( aka pouty ) areolas IMO is on par with , say, people getting anal bleaching. Some people feel REALLY uncomfortable if they do not have a blond anus, but the average person's reaction is : come on, seriously ?!
Areolas and nipples come into many different shapes , sizes and colours, and they are all good.
Luckily it's not like the canine AKC standards for show dogs, you know, like : a poodle can't be bicolor, a boxer can't be black etc.etc.
You areolas are fine , they are simply a ( not uncommon at all ) type of areolas. Areolas can be pale or dark, small or large, flat or puffy, - there's no penalty for any specific kind. ( And btw, why are you under the impression that your boobs should necessarily form " pointy piramids " ? )
Of course I suppose that , if a guy is very detail-oriented :) , he might have his preferences in terms of nipples and areolas same as of hair and eye colour, but , from there to actually being turned off by a different kind of nipple !-naaah it's not going to happen.
Also because you are lucky; if any, I get the feeling that puffy areolas generally get very good ratings in Nippledom. If any, it may be a turn ON. I think it's because : first, they spell out extreme youth ( as you say, they tend to flatten out in time, but later than 16, and definitely after children ); second, they are a more visible, immediate ,primal sort of erotic " come-hither ".
Just for the sake of scientific accuracy :) I want to inform you that actually there is a surgical procedure called a Benelli periareolar , which would fix your "problem ". It is normally executed in conjunction with mastopexy ( breast lifting ), with or without augmentation, to reproportion the whole boobs according to their new shape and size. But , technically, it could very well be performed on its own ( I suppose on the same kind of patients who require anal bleachings ). Only, it cost a bundle, it leaves permanent scars, - and it ìs something that , more than to the domain of esthetic surgery, pertains to that of the Complication of Simple Affairs Department.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (31 January 2016):
 No two sets of boobs are identical, no penis, no vagina, no ears or fingerprints.
So your nipples are entirely yours, even if they seem to have a life of their own. If you are lucky (and it sounds that way) you have sensitive nipples and that in turn can be a GOOD thing for you (sexually) and for any guy who is LUCKY enough to SHARE being naked with you.
IF ANY man should have the flipping GAL to criticize you OR your nipples, then you have made a GRADE A moron!
And when it comes to bras, get one that REALLY fits - The contour bra can help prevent the nipples from showing through or you can go with any variation of nipple covers
http://www.herroom.com/nipple-covers,lingerie-accessories,1197,006,10.html
Most of all though, KNOW that your boobs are normal, your nipple are NORMAL.
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reader, Been there Now over it +, writes (31 January 2016):
I can't imagine there's been any scientific research done on this question so I didn't even look for it. However, doing a Google search on "puffy nipples" brings up 1,420,000 results. Narrowing the search to "puffy nipples porn" results in 1,290,000 results. One can only conclude that there is a lot...a whole lot!...of attraction to women with puffy nipples and that they are a real asset for you, at least in regard to attracting men.
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