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*mrsrocha
writes: Is it normal for a 22 year old woman to watch porn all the time? I sometimes even watch it while I'm at work. My sex life is OK I wouldn't say great at the moment. But for the past month or so I've been really getting into porn and I am craving sex way more than I used to. Could I have a problem?
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (20 July 2015):
I agree if you can't refrain from watching porn at work, then yes you have a problem and should probably seek medical/psychological help.
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (20 July 2015):
And he just turned 21? So is he the father of all three of your children?
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (20 July 2015):
Just another bit from your other question about porn and your marriage: "I am not being satisfied by my husband at the moment. I feel like I have to beg him for sex. When I come on to him he rejects me every time. I'm not super unattractive or anything just a little chunky, I mean I've had 3 kids." So your sex life is NOT OK. He rejects you every time.
And this "I also gave myself my first orgasm ever last night." So you have had three children and only just ever had your first orgasm yesterday?
"We do have an agreement though. He's allowed to sleep with other women but he has to tell me first." And you mention that he's 21. You then go on to say that you don't want to cheat on him but don't know how much longer you can go on unsatisfied.
Ah, yes. you do have some problems to work through.
What is it that you would like to happen, in terms of your marriage? And your children? And your job?
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (20 July 2015):
I'm with Tisha.
I worked in a IT company and we had 2 people fired for watching porn on COMPANY time and COMPANY equipment (as it can often come with various viruses).
I find it ABSOLUTELY not OK to watch porn at work. And it CAN follow you if you get fired.
And with your other post in tow? Yes, you HAVE a serious problem.
I'd suggest you read the info and studies on http://yourbrainonporn.com/
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (20 July 2015):
If you can't refrain from watching porn at work, well, you have a problem. Most of the employers I know would fire an employee who does that right away.
You also posted this question http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-dont-want-to-cheat-on-my-husband.html
which suggests that your marriage is at risk as well.
So yes, you could have a problem.
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