A
female
age
36-40,
*im831
writes:Hi, I was seeing this guy whilst I was on a break with my boyfriend, I had a real bad relationship with my boyfriend so things ended! I started seeing this other guy and I have never felt so happy we liked the same things he made me smile and happy like I hadn't in a long time then he all of a sudden cuts me off to return to his ex!! This was about 7 months ago but since then I see him around a lot, now recently I have been thinking about him loads even dreaming of him! And I just don't know how to get him out of my head it's horrible because obviously now he has a girlfriend I'm not nasty so I don't want to break that up but I can't help but long for him so much! He told me when he called it off that he didn't know what the future held for us but he did really like me he just felt bad on his ex as he hadn't long split up from her! When I see him about he stares at me smiles at me and talks to me but I can't help wanting more and I feel I really need to tell him how I feel or will I look silly because I'm unsure how he feels!! About 2 months ago I asked him if he still thought of me and he said he didn't want to say and he didn't want to think about that as he didn't know how he felt! Please help what do I do as I feel I can't move on as he is in my thoughts 24/7
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reader, smeedle +, writes (25 July 2015):
 ok, here it is, just what you don't want to hear - move on, it just isn't on his agenda right now and it may never be so don't waste your life waiting for someone who has someone else and may never want you again.
If he wanted you, he would have you - simple as that.
Good luck finding a bloke that actually wants to be with you and not with his ex.
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