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writes:Very brief, i am 24 he is 25. We have been speaking for a month. Met online, he was previously speaking to another girl when i was speaking to him off the internet but then after we met he says just me and him .We are a couple, we have spent two weekends away together. First one was in wales, he booked a lovely cottage, came out his way to collect me, i paid 50.50 for cottage but he never asked me to. he treated me like a queen. we had alot of sex, alot but same time we went out, talked, cuddled etc.We went away again this weekend. I initially said only a day, he said no he wants the evening to whichi am happy about as when we are in bed he will cuddle me so much i wake up nearly on the floor.We have alot of sex, and both initiate it . Same time, he lets me use his phone (trust?), we had a mis hap, he went brought the morning after pill with me (support), a guy i use to talk to ages ago called me and was being a idiot, i clearly said im with my bf and he then spoke to the guy saying " dont contact her again, you won't get anything from her so don't message her again". It's him who wants to meet regularly. WE do go out but same time love being just with him. And when going seperate ways i am sure i heard him mumble i love you when walking away. so quietly that i shouldn't hear it, i asked him what he said and he said something else.He calls me his girl. tells me everything, calls his parents in front of me, makes me feel so not insecure. But same time alot of sex and he will say to me we will do what you want aka if i wana go movies we will. what are your views please?In between of meeting, atleast three times daily calls, morning texts etc and maybe 10% of that is about sex the rest isnt.
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (3 November 2014):
 if he said I love you after a month he's moving fast.
the only way to know if he's only in it for sex (which he does not sound like he is) then you would withhold sex and see if he sticks around.
I think you guys are spending a lot of time being in touch daily and when the relationship settles down you may feel he's not paying enough attention to you.
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reader, janniepeg  +, writes (3 November 2014):
 He is acting as a boyfriend. In the coming months you would hear him say I love you louder. He didn't say it explicitly because it is still very early and he wants to be sure you are solid. Some people have sex before knowing for sure but there are ones who are capable of connecting emotionally and being physical at the same time. I personally think this is how it should be. You risk, and be vulnerable. Cautious and fearful is not my style. Although if people want to wait, that's fine too. I would wait just to show I am not in a rush. You might want to get on birth control. The after pill is harsh for you.
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