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writes:There's this guy I work with and I don't know if he likes me or not. I see him on the weekends sometimes. He always comes and talks to me at work and I catch him staring at me sometimes. He even looks up at me when I walk passed him. But he hasn't asked me for my number yet and I have known him for 3 months. We are friends on snapchat and Instagram but he doesn't even use snapchat so he never snaps me. Just today I told him that he smelled good and he opened his arms to like hug me as a joke. I went closer and pretended to hug him and then I pulled away before we touched bc i didn't wanna be weird and hug him if he didnt want me to. We talk a lot when we work together but I can't tell if he likes me.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 November 2014): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionIs there some way that I could get him to admit that he likes me? He's told me before that he is a really shy person so I don't know how I could possibly confirm that he likes me.
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reader, SimpleSoul  +, writes (4 November 2014):
 It sounds like he is very unsure of himself, perhaps he doesn't have much real confidence? Is he always concerned with having approval? and could you cope with this?
Think the way forward is really to make the first move, without him knowing (as I mentioned)
It may turn out you are on to a loser, but you won't lose face if you do it like I suggested, and I really do not think he will make the first move. Let me know.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 November 2014): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI know he isn't in a relationship but I don't know if if he just is being a flirt at work to boost his ego or something or if it's something else. He sorta asked me out one time when I was like ohhh I'm so hungry and he's like me too. Do u wanna go eat somewhere? I'll drive. I said I couldn't bc I had to go back to college right after work and I was being serious. I really couldn't go. But it was so weird because yesterday he was talking to me and I was leaving. then his best friend comes in and he right away stops talking to me and goes and talks to him. He sees his friend at work all the time and he sees me once a week maybe less so I'm wondering if I'm thinking too much into this.
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reader, SimpleSoul +, writes (2 November 2014):
Well, he definitely does like you, he would not waste time talking to you, or want to hug you if he didn't. Sounds to me as if you are both quite shy. You don't usually stare at someone without a very good reason. Is there anyone you could check with to find out if he is already in a relationship. If not, be brave and make the first move - whilst you are chatting you could just mention a place you would like to visit or a film you would like to see..(but don't think your friends would like)and see what happens. Good luck!
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